Pickup Line: ‘Hands on a Hardbody’ Staged at Spreckels

Get those minds outta the gutter, y’all… This is a musical about a hardbody truck

Based on true events featured in a 1997 documentary of the same name, Hands on a Hardbody is the musical journey of 10 souls seeking salvation and a free truck: the symbol of a better life. In order to attain that, all they have to do is be the last one standing in a contest of endurance held at their local Longview, Texas, Nissan. The Sheri Lee Miller-helmed dramedy runs at the Spreckels Performing Arts Center in Rohnert Park through March 1. 

Featuring many Spreckels regulars as well as some refreshing new faces, Hardbody brings together a diverse, though thinly written, group of characters who sing about their deepest desires and darkest thoughts, all while keeping one hand on the titular hardbody at all times. 

Some characters are underdeveloped and aren’t very memorable. As a singing ensemble, the cast sounds fantastic and supports one another beautifully throughout. A live orchestra under the direction of Lucas Sherman sounded great. Though between them being set onstage with the action and the actor’s mics, a lot of the songs in the first act were overpowered and many lyrics lost. 

The songs themselves can be very memorable, with the standouts being showstopper “Joy of the Lord,” led by Serena Elize Flores, and “Stronger,” performed with heartfelt emotion by Jake Druzgala as Chris. Other notable vocals, and sweet chemistry, come from Mallory Gold and Orion Pudoff in the beautiful, “I’m Gone.”

However, the show belongs to Flores as Norma, a woman of unrelenting faith. Flores has the strong vocals to carry the deeper feelings she’s living onstage straight to one’s heart. She makes one feel what would happen to their body if they were indeed to stand and barely sleep for five days. By the end of the show, it’s obvious who the winner should be.

Flores’ efforts are matched by Keith Baker as antagonist Benny. While he benefits from being the main character, Baker is full of strong choices and commitment that often carry all of the show’s momentum. His voice sounds like early Blake Shelton, and he never takes a moment for granted. Both Flores and Baker are veteran performers, carry the ensemble and never let up.

These strong performances alone make Hardbody worth one’s time.

‘Hands on a Hardbody’ runs through March 1 in the Codding Theater at the Spreckels Performing Arts Center, 5409 Snyder Ln., Rohnert Park. Fri–Sat, 7:30pm; Sun, 2pm. $16–$44. 707.588.3400. spreckelsonline.com.

An Art Showcase ‘Celebrating Women’ and ‘Imagined Worlds’ at A Cedars Gallery

0

Healdsburg

Celebrating Women

Upstairs Art Gallery marks Women’s History Month with “Celebrating Women,” a vibrant showcase of watercolor paintings by Sonoma County artist Tosya Shore. Her works honor women in all their facets—capturing fleeting, intimate moments with bold shapes and interlacing patterns that elevate the everyday. Also featured in the Stairway Smallworks Showcase is Donna Schaffer’s “Ooh La La, Plein Air,” a collection of oil paintings created on a recent trip to France. Schaffer roamed the streets of Paris with palette in hand, rendering café culture and iconic landmarks—including an evocative take on the Eiffel Tower—in brisk, atmospheric strokes. Reception 4–6pm, Saturday, March 7; exhibit runs Feb. 23–March 29, Upstairs Art Gallery, 306 Center St., Healdsburg. Open daily 11am–6pm. upstairsartgallery.net.

Petaluma

Art & Poetry

The Petaluma Library hosts an exhibition of art and poetry by Duane BigEagle, an Osage Native American from Oklahoma who has lived in California since 1964 and taught Native American studies at San Francisco State University, Sonoma State University and College of Marin. The show pairs visual work with poetry rooted in history, identity and lived experience, offering a reflective lens on culture and continuity. An opening reception, poetry reading and artist talk invite the public to engage directly with BigEagle’s work and voice, bringing the written word into shared space. Opening reception, reading and talk 5:30–7:45pm, Wednesday, Feb. 18; exhibit runs now through March 19, Petaluma Library.

San Anselmo

Imagined Worlds

Dragons, enchanted trees and intergalactic visitors take over Artist Within – A Cedars Gallery this month as “Imagined Worlds” opens with a celebratory reception. The effervescent group exhibition spotlights the boundless creativity of Cedars artists, whose work conjures fantastical landscapes and story-rich scenes that blur the line between dream and daylight. Beyond the painted and sculpted realms, the show also features storytelling in motion, with animated films and written tales expanding these invented universes. It’s a reminder that imagination isn’t an escape—it’s a practice. 5–7pm, Friday, Feb. 20; exhibition runs Feb. 20–June 12, Artist Within – A Cedars Gallery, 603 San Anselmo Ave., San Anselmo. Free. cedarslife.org/events.

Tiburon

Angel Island

Angel Island isn’t just a scenic silhouette in the bay—it’s a layered archive of immigration, military history and windswept trails with some of the best views around. Ranger Casey Dexter-Lee brings it all into focus at the Belvedere Tiburon Library with an in-depth look at Angel Island State Park, weaving together stories of the island’s past, its natural landscapes and the recreational riches waiting just offshore. A state park interpreter with more than 20 years dedicated to the island, Dexter-Lee connects visitors to Angel Island’s preservation efforts and hidden corners alike. Expect history, insight and perhaps a renewed urge to catch the next ferry. 6–7:30pm, Thursday, Feb. 26, Belvedere Tiburon Library, 1501 Tiburon Blvd., Tiburon. Free.

Your Letters, Feb. 18

No Map Flap

The Supreme Court ruled that California this fall may use its new election map, which is expected to send five more Democrats to Congress. Oops. The main difference is that Californians voted for this, whereas other states mandated theirs. The Chump Administration and the GOP now wanted to ‘nationalize’ the voting process.

Let’s not forget that Chump called Georgia to find votes. Isn’t (Wasn’t) that an attempt at election fraud?

On that note, what was (is) wrong with the current process?  

Gary Sciford
Santa Rosa

Erstwhile Influence

Much has been made in the news recently about the extent of the late Jeffrey Epstein’s chokehold, even well past his unfortunate passing, on human endeavors across the globe. He has his dead fingers in presidential politics, the U.S. legal system, the situation in the Middle East, scientific research, alternative child-raising methods, the royal family and higher education, to name a few.

In my lifetime of roughly 75 years, I can think of only one other person who has had this sort of overwhelming impact upon all aspects of our society. 

Of course, I’m referring to Chuck Norris.

Craig J. Corsini
San Rafael

Empathy Machines. Can Films Increase Compassion?

0

Screenwriter Will Tracy is nominated for an Oscar for his script for the film Bugonia, released in theaters last fall. Bugonia follows a disaffected paranoiac named Teddy (Jesse Plemons), who kidnaps Michelle (Emma Stone, also Oscar-nominated). Teddy, gripped with a fanatical mistrust of society at large, has convinced himself that Michelle, the wealthy CEO of an unethical pharmaceutical company, is actually an alien in disguise who plots to destroy all of humanity. 

Through this narrative lens, Tracy’s screenplay indelibly, if uncomfortably, examines several contemporary social maladies like polarization, echo chambers and a lack of empathy for our perceived enemies. 

Oscar nominee Tracy visited the local Mill Valley Film Festival when Bugonia screened there last October, and I was lucky enough to attend the film and the following Q&A. The moderator’s first query: How on Earth did Tracy write a character as unhinged as Teddy? 

Tracy gently came to his character’s defense: “Honestly, there are days where I feel like Teddy.” This was a bit of an alarming admission to make to a room full of people who had just watched Teddy’s increasingly deranged actions on the big screen for the preceding two hours. But Tracy was merely revealing that he, like any good writer, couldn’t help but feel empathy for the characters he gives life to, no matter how questionable their actions may be.

The matter of empathy is at the heart of Bugonia—key to its narrative, and its effectiveness as a work of art. Wealthy elites like Michelle ruthlessly pursue their objectives with no empathy for those who suffer the collateral damage; in turn, Teddy’s capacity to empathize with her erodes to the point where he no longer affords her basic humanity. As the mind games between Teddy and Michelle escalate, and the stakes become increasingly high, the question of empathy for those who have done terrible things becomes central to the film’s conclusion.

Empathizing with those who have done something wrong, or who hold objectionable beliefs, can be hard to do—and socially risky. Tracy even took a risk by confessing compassion for his screenplay’s demented lead character. But, of course, empathy is essential to a healthy society; we wouldn’t want to live in a world dominated by Michelles and Teddys. 

Roger Ebert once said that “films are like machines that create empathy.” I would suggest that if he was right, films are the perfect tonic for many of our current social ills. 

‘Bugonia’ is nominated for four Oscars, including Best Picture.

Beasts of the Pacific: Northern Elephant Seals at Home in Drakes Beach

I was at Drakes Beach in Point Reyes National Seashore on a day in late December. The day was notably warm for the coast, with a soft breeze and not a cloud in the sky. The water moved calmly, softly, as small waves crashed on the shore. 

I looked onto the sand, trying to make out the movement of the mounds I saw resting there, camouflaged. The mounds themselves were northern elephant seals. These lumbering animals, ranging from 10 to 13 feet and weighing from half a ton to more than two tons, will call Drakes Beach home until the winter fades into March.

Before their arrival to Drakes Beach, they would only stop by for a day or two but not, as now, stay around to breed, as they are likely to do this very month. However, a combination of the pandemic, and calmer waters along the shore, brought with them these beasts of the Pacific.

“In 2019, that’s when they decided to move right in front of the visitor center,” Sarah Codde, marine ecologist for Point Reyes National Seashore, said. “And there was a media blitz, because that was during the government shutdown at the time.”

This shutdown, and therefore the park employees’ inability to intervene, meant they couldn’t do the work of deterring the seals, usually by waving a giant tarp at them, from moving in front of the main visitor center.

Then, the pandemic hit, also thwarting more work to prevent the seals from getting too close to the more populated areas of Drakes Beach. This essentially, in the seals’ eyes, solidified this stretch of sand as their new home.

Since this occurred, the park has now raised a small fence to deter the seals from lumbering onto the parking lot and destroying the pavement with their weight. This, along with a robust docent program of around 140 volunteers, has kept Drakes Beach accessible to visitors, still as there are hundreds of seals on its shores. It has become, according Codde, one of the best places to see elephant seals up close in the wild. 

“If we didn’t have those docents, we would have to close the entire parking lot and not have people go down there at all for the whole winter,” said Codde.

It’s important to remember that, while this population of seals is increasing, some other beaches, like the smaller one near Chimney Rock at the head of Point Reyes, have a population that is at times decreasing. This means that overall it is hard to determine just what the growth of the population at Drakes Beach means for the growth of elephant seal populations broadly. Although, scientists we spoke with did indicate that the population is, currently, fairly healthy.

But why are they here? To answer this question, we need to understand how we almost lost this species well before the Point Reyes National Seashore was considered a park.

After decades of thoughtless hunting for their blubber to be used as an oil, in the 1880s elephant seals had been so thoroughly killed off that most believed the animal to be extinct. 

“Their population was decimated,” Milagros Rivera, elephant seal researcher at UC Santa Cruz, said. “The species had completely died out, but there was this very small subset hiding off the coast of Mexico.” 

It wasn’t until 1892 when a team of scientists with the Smithsonian discovered a grouping of elephant seals living on Isle de Guadalupe off the coast of Mexico. Promptly, the team from the Smithsonian decided to kill seven of the eight seals they discovered. The government of Mexico, later in 1922, decided to protect the elephant seals, under law, initially stationing troops on the island to protect the last living 264 beasts of the Pacific. 

As time passed, this population grew, eventually expanding their numbers to other islands off the coast of Mexico and beyond. And while the population did well, eventually ballooning to the tens of thousands in the 1950s, it wasn’t until decades later, in 1972, when the United States passed the Marine Mammal Protection Act, that elephant seals began to really bounce back, expanding their populations across the entirety of their historical regions. 

As a reminder, it is only due to humans ceasing to hunt the elephant seals that these remarkable creatures have bounced back in numbers. There has been, unlike with other endangered creatures, no robust breeding program—just a touch of restraint from humanity was all it really took.

What makes the story of this rebound quite odd to scientists is that elephant seals have not historically ever lived on the coastline of Point Reyes. 

“We do know that they were seen in Point Reyes, but that was likely the Point Reyes Headlands,” Codde said, noting that we don’t know if they spent long periods of time there.

This is why, if one visits Drakes Beach, they may hear some docents say that there has never been evidence of elephant seals on the coastline. 

Not only have they historically been absent from the coastline, but they were seldom if ever seen on any mainland continent at all, preferring, it seems, living and breeding on offshore islands. And while this is incredibly difficult to prove with fossil evidence—as elephant seals more often die in the open ocean, where they feed and are preyed on by great white sharks—it’s generally accepted as probable.

One potential reason why elephant seals may not have lived on Point Reyes, and instead lived on islands—such as Ano Nuevo, where they have one of the largest breeding populations in California, with more than 10,000 individuals—is that perhaps they were prey to a once large predator that is now nearly wiped out across North America: the grizzly bear. 

And though this is only a hypothesis, and is not at all close to scientific consensus, it does seem to add up to seeing these animals, who are not particularly agile on land and are full of fat, and therefore would have been easy pickings on land. But, once again, this is only a best guess at this point, with no proof historically to call it true.

While these hulking creatures are not the most agile on land, this does not mean they are to be treated as unthreatening if one happens upon an elephant seal at Drakes Beach, or anywhere on the coast, for that matter. 

Because of the potential danger that elephant seals pose to people, and tragically the danger that humans still pose to elephant seals by our own prodding of them, Point Reyes National Seashore enlists a large group of volunteers to monitor the parking lot during the winter to ensure everyone’s safety when going to Drakes Beach.

“With this docent program we have, we might just have one of the best views of elephant seals in the country,” Codde said. “It’s just so easy to see them. You just drive to that parking lot, and they’re right there.”

Growing up in Marin County, all this open wilderness was what made childhood full of wonder and curiosity for me. This included my early years wandering around the small trails near my childhood home in San Anselmo, to heading into Point Reyes via the bus to hike at Bear Valley, to high school spending long nights out at Limantour and, yes, Drakes Beach.

At Drakes, sometimes kids would try to have bonfire parties, which were always quickly broken up by the rangers. Today, and likely for the best, those late night long drives out in the darkness to the quiet coast have ended. Instead, the Drakes Beach of my high school days has already vanished, but not to be lamented. 

Instead, at night, with fog or clear skies, northern elephant seals take their rest from the turbid waters of the Pacific, safe on the shore from human hunters and the jaws of white sharks, where we residents of the North Bay may, in the morning, stare at these beasts and admire them, in awe.

Taste the Place, Dan Berger’s Take on Wine 

Dan Berger hardly needs introduction if one knows about wine. As a wine columnist since 1976, the Los Angeles Times wine writer (1988-1996) and award-winning journalist has lived here in Sonoma County since 1986. He is an international competition judge, author, speaker and professor, as well as a member of the Hall of Fame of the New York Wine Writers’ Circle.

Amber Turpin: How did you get into this work?

Dan Berger: I’ve been a professional writer since 1967.

Did you ever have an ‘aha’ moment with a certain beverage? If so, tell us about it.

In 1976, I was working at Associated Press, and a good friend of mine found out that Moët & Chandon had opened a California operation, the first time a French company had ever come here to make wine in California. This friend of mine had acquired a bottle and opened it up for me one evening, and I tasted and smelled something I had never experienced before… It made me realize that if the French came in here using their technology and our grapes, it was a whole new direction. 

What is your favorite thing to drink at home?

Riesling. I think it is one of the greatest wines in the world because it can be made dry or sweet and can be so transparent, meaning that it shows off where it came from. It isn’t covered up by dark flavors; it doesn’t have high alcohol. Rieslings are structured by having high acidity, and I’m an absolute lover of wines with good acidity.

Where do you like to go out for a drink?

Nowhere. My wine collection is better than any restaurant in the world. I typically don’t go to restaurants for the wine list; I go for good food. I’m not a huge drinker of wine, more of a wine evaluator. I think that all great wine is better if it’s been in the bottle for two or three years, sometimes more… My favorite thing coming out of my cellar is maturity. 

The whole idea is that wine is a living product, and the more you can understand the changes that take place in the bottle, the more you understand why wine is so infinitely interesting. 

If you were stuck on a desert island, what would you want to be drinking (besides fresh water)?

If somebody said you can take 10 cases of wine to a desert island, I would take 120 bottles of different things. I just wouldn’t drink the same thing every day. What excites me is all the differences, all the different wines from all the different places. For me, that’s the most interesting thing: the diversity, the sense of place, the sense of personality, its uniqueness. 
For more information, visit vintageexperiences.com.

Free Will Astrology, Feb. 18-24

0

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Saturn has entered Aries. I see this landmark shift as being potentially very good news for you. Between now and April 2028, you will have enhanced powers to channel your restless heart in constructive directions. I predict you will narrow down your multiple interests and devote yourself to a few resonant paths rather than scattering your intense energy. More than ever before, you can summon the determination to follow through on what you initiate. My Saturn-in-Aries prayer: May you be bold, even brazen, in identifying where you truly belong, and never settle for a half-certain fit.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): I am issuing a Wow Advisory. Consider this your high-voltage wonder alert. Your future may offer you thrilling quests and epic exploits that could be unnerving to people who want you to remain the same as you have been. You will have a knack for stirring up liberating encounters with lavish pleasures and rich feelings that transform your brain chemistry. The rousing mysteries you attract into your sphere may send provocative ripples through your own imagination as well as your web of allies. Expect juicy plot twists. Be alert for portals opening in the middle of nowhere.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): In Leonardo da Vinci’s notebooks, you find anatomical drawings next to flying machine designs, mathematical calculations alongside water flow observations and philosophical musings interrupted by grocery lists. He moved from painting to engineering to scientific observation as curiosity led him. Let’s make him your inspirational role model for now, Gemini. Disobey categories. Merge categories. Mix and match categories. Let’s assume that your eager mind will create expanded knowledge networks that prove valuable in unexpected ways. Let’s hypothesize that your cheerful rebellion against conventional ways of organizing reality will spawn energizing innovations in your beautiful, mysterious life.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): In falconry, there’s a practice called “weathering.” It involves regularly exposing trained birds to the wild elements so they don’t become too domesticated and lose their wildness. The falconer needs a partner, not a pet. Does that theme resonate, Cancerian? Is it possible that you have been too sheltered lately? Either by your own caution or by well-meaning people who think they’re protecting you? Let’s make sure you stay in touch with the fervent, untamed sides of your nature. How? You could expose yourself to an experience that scares you a little. Take a fun risk you’ve been rationalizing away. Invite touches of rowdiness into your life.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): The loudest noise in history? It was the 1883 volcanic eruption of Krakatoa in Indonesia, heard thousands of miles away. The pressure wave circled the Earth multiple times. I am predicting a benevolent version of a Krakatoa event for you in the coming months. Not literal loudness, but a shiny, bright expression of such magnitude that it redefines your world and what people thought was possible from you. Can you be prepared for it? A little. You’ll be wise to cultivate visionary equanimity: a calm willingness to stay focused on the big picture. I predict your big boom will be challenging but ultimately magnificent and empowering.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Buddhism teaches about “near enemies”: qualities that may appear to be virtues but aren’t. For example, pity masquerades as compassion. Clingy attachment pretends to be love. Apathy and indifference pose as equanimity. In the coming weeks, Virgo, I hope you won’t get distracted by near enemies. Your assignment: Investigate whether any of your supposed virtues are actually near enemies. After you’ve done that, find out if any of your so-called negative emotions might harbor interesting powers you could tap into.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Many intelligent people think astrology is dangerous nonsense perpetrated by quacks. For any horoscope writer with an ego, this affront tends to be deflating. Like everyone else, we want to be appreciated. On the other hand, I have found that practicing an art that gets so much disdain has been mostly liberating. It’s impossible for me to get bloated with excess pride. I practice astrology for the joy it affords me, not to garner recognition. So in a backhanded way, a seemingly disheartening drawback serves as an energizing boon. My prediction is that you, Libra, will soon harvest an analogous turnabout. You will draw strength, even inspiration, from what may ostensibly appear to be a liability.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Mycologist Paul Stamets claims mushrooms taught him to think in networks rather than hierarchies. He sees how everything feeds everything else through vast webs of underground filaments. This is Scorpio wisdom at its most scintillating: homing in on the hidden circuitry working below the surface, gauging the way nourishment is distributed incrementally through many collaborative interconnections, seeing the synergy between seemingly separate sources. I hope you will accentuate this mode of understanding in the coming weeks. The key to your soulful success and happiness will be in how well you map the mycelial-like networks, both in the world around you and in your inner depths. P.S.: For extra credit, study the invisible threads that link your obsessions to each other, your wounds to your gifts and your rage to your tenderness.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): The peregrine falcon dives at speeds exceeding 240 miles per hour, making it the fastest animal on Earth. But before the dive, there’s often a period of circling, scanning and waiting. The spectacular descent is set up by the patient reconnaissance that precedes it. I believe you’re now in a phase similar to the falcon’s preparatory reconnaissance, Sagittarius. The quality of your eventual plunge will depend on how well you’re tracking your target now. Use this time to gather intelligence, not to second-guess your readiness. You’ll know when your aim is true.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): There’s a certain miracle you could really use right now, Capricorn. But to attract it into your life would require a subtle and simple shift. In a related development, the revelation you need most is concealed in plain sight. To get these two goodies into your life, you shouldn’t make the error of seeking them in exotic locales. Ordinary events in the daily routine will bring you what you need: the miracle and the revelation that will change everything for the better.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Over the last 4,000 years, a host of things have been used as money in addition to precious metals and paper currency. Among them have been cows, seashells, cheese, tobacco, velvet, tulips, elephant tusks and huge stone wheels. I hope this poetic fact will inspire your imagination about financial matters. In the coming weeks, I expect you’ll be extra creative in drumming up new approaches to getting the cash you need. Here are questions to guide you. Which of your underused talents might be ready to boost your income? What undervalued gifts could you be more aggressive about giving? What neglected treasures or underutilized assets could you use to generate money?

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Big, bright transitions are at hand: from thrashing around in the educational mire to celebrating your sweet escape, from wrangling with shadows and ghosts to greeting new allies, from messing around with interesting but confounding chaos to seizing fresh opportunities to shine and thrive. Hallelujah. What explains this exhilarating shift? The Season of Dazzling Self-Adoration is dawning for you Pisceans. In the weeks ahead, you will be inspired to embark on bold experiments in loving yourself with extra fervor and ingenuity.

Homework: What imperfect but pretty good part of your life deserves more of your love? Newsletter. FreeWillAstrology.com

Living While Dying: Co-Owner of Local..ish Market, Thomas Botzler

The title of this edition comes from the subject himself—Thomas Botzler, whose confrontation with death has lent his languaging a stark directness and impact. 

“Gravitas” is a word that comes to mind, evoking “graveness” and “weight.” And yet Thomas carries his own tired body with a certain lightness of being. Death has enlightened him.

Thomas has fourth stage (metastatic; spreading) cancer. While stage four cancer is not necessarily terminal, the continued growth of his cancer in treatment and narrowing options have caused Thomas to treat his own cancer as life-ending. This is not an uncommon story. Sixty-five hundred people in the three counties in which this article will be printed are (knowingly or unknowingly) in the last year of their life. Twenty percent of them (one in five of us) will die from cancer.

What is uncommon about Thomas is that he has chosen not to enter into mute seclusion but to enter the public more fully, and share his end of life story with us.

He wants to document his real life for the grandchildren he shares with his wife, Lisa Marie. And he wants to address something that has always bothered him—an American culture of dying and death that refuses to acknowledge the greatest fact of life (that it ends). Here, Thomas stands as an advocate for the dying—and for their families—an example to his grandchildren, and to us.

For the first of two conversations, I visited him at the store he owns and co-curates with Lisa Marie, Local…ish. The concept is in the name. He toured me, and as we spoke we stood between a section containing local wines, beers, ciders and shrubs, and that of a complete selection of biodegradable feminine hygiene products.

Cincinnatus Hibbard: You’re currently in chemotherapy?

Thomas Botzler: Yes, I am in my third week in this round—my off week, and I’m more productive.

Tell me, what is the worst symptom of chemo?

Neuropathy. For me, that is a painful tingling in my hands and chest triggered by changes in heat or energy—just clapping can set it off. It’s like wearing a burning hot steel wool sweater.

What do you think happens when we die?

I don’t know. I’m not religious. But I am comfortable not knowing … and I am OK with life just ending. For some people [in his situation], the focus is on the hereafter. For me, my focus is here and the energy I put out here. I really don’t do things I don’t want to do anymore… In that way, cancer has given to me the same thing it has taken away from me—time. I go through my day-to-day and think about, do I want to spend my energy on this? I say no to things a lot—with no obligation or guilt. And if I’m tired, I’m tired…

Thomas, all your life you have moved from one place to the next. But here in West County, at the very end of your life, you have finally found community…

Truly, I thought I was looking for a place to die… But what I found here was a place that I could truly live.

Learn more: Visit Thomas and Lisa Marie Botzler at their store’s new location at 16355 Main St. in Guerneville. Local..ish will be reopening there Feb. 20. Follow this link for links to their social media, Thomas’ documentation of his cancer story and our full length podcast interview. Reach out. linktr.ee/Thomasbotzler.

Hypocritical Hijinks: Deceit Over Decency

Donald Trump to Iran’s leaders who are cracking down on protesters: “You better not start shooting, because we’ll start shooting, too.” Iran’s leaders say the protests are the result of foreign meddling.

On the other hand, when Trump was asked about the shooting of Renee Nicole Good by an ICE agent in Minneapolis, he said he’d always protect ICE agents and that protesters there were paid.

Apparently, the theocratic dictators in Iran and the white Christian nationalists in the White House are using similar narrative playbooks.

Trump routinely accuses Democrats of improper funding of their campaigns, and congressional member Gerald E. Connolly, ranking member of the Committee on Oversight and Government Reform, finally issued a blunt call-out of that hypocrisy:

“If Donald Trump was at all serious about cracking down on foreign corruption of U.S. elections, he would start by taking the For Sale sign off his own back. Selling access and influence is the defining feature of the Trump White House.”

Do MAGA voters care if their man claims that he is commander-in-chief bombing another sovereign nation to stop drugs from coming into our country, even as he pardons a former leader of another country convicted of overseeing literally tons of illegal drugs smuggled into the U.S.?

Donald J. Trump is the epitome of hypocrisy, proven on an ongoing basis by the gulf between what he says one day and does the next. The examples are so numerous, they will fill entire books.

This is not leadership; this is a man who conned his way into controlling the most powerful military in world history, and who bullies friend and foe until they vote how he demands they vote. His ego is so fragile and yet so easily inflamed that even a Nobel Peace Award recipient frames her award and presents it to him in an obvious obsequious and ingratiating gesture, which he comes to expect.

Donald Trump is not an appropriate role model nor leader. His vision is nothing but greed and domination over others, exactly the opposite of what we need now. Impeach, convict, remove.

Dr. Tom H. Hastings is coördinator of conflict resolution BA/BS degree programs at Portland State University.

An Unused Life: ‘Shirley Valentine’ in Sonoma  

A middle-aged British woman, wife, and mother wonders whatever became of herself and sets out to rediscover life in Willy Russell’s Shirley Valentine. Jennifer King stars in the one-woman show now running on the Rotary Stage in the Sonoma Community Center through Feb. 22.    

We meet Shirley in her Liverpool home kitchen where she’s preparing a dinner of chips and egg for her (unseen) husband. Shirley spends a lot of time these days talking to her kitchen wall,as her children are grown and out of the house and her husband isn’t the most communicative person.

Shirley’s been given an opportunity to travel by a friend, something she’s always dreamed about. She wants to drink wine in the country where the grapes were grown, and a trip to Greece with her friend just might be the ticket. She wants the opportunity to be the Shirley Valentine she once was. 

We learn about Shirley through the stories she tells about her youth, her schooling, her friends, her family, and… sex. She talks a lot about sex. Her frustration with life is palpable. When one finds oneself in a rut, it’s fair to review how one got there in the first place.  

The first half of the play is all about Shirley building up the strength to take the trip to Greece. The second is what happens when she gets there. It should come as a surprise to anyone that Shirley gets her groove back.

King commands the stage from the get-go, bringing the audience into Shirley’s life through gentle humor and compelling storytelling and never letting them go. It’s a very human performance. 

Set designer Laurynn Malilay makes great use of the space. The functional kitchen set is nicely detailed and the transition of the space from Liverpudlian kitchen to seaside Greek resort works well. 

Director Sharon Winegar leads an all-female team in bringing an (interestingly enough) male playwright’s take on a woman’s mid-life crisis to life. Russell believed so strongly in his character that he actually performed the role for three weeks early in its run when the actress cast took ill. 

While the character is certainly female and a great deal of the issues Shirley struggles with are female-centric (Particularly on the subject of sex. Be prepared to hear the word “clitoris” a lot.), it would be a mistake to label Shirley Valentine as strictly as “a woman’s play”. What person of a mature age hasn’t looked back at the regrets in their life? Who hasn’t toyed with the idea of a re-start or re-invention?

You may not leave the theater and book that trip to a far-flung place you’ve always thought about taking.

But you’ll think about it.

‘Shirley Valentine’ runs through February 22 on the Rotary Stage at Andrews Hall in the Sonoma Community Center, 276 E. Napa St., Sonoma. Thurs – Sat, 7:30pm.  Sat & Sun, 2pm. $25–$42. 866.710.8942. sonomaartslive.org.

Pickup Line: ‘Hands on a Hardbody’ Staged at Spreckels

Based on true events featured in a 1997 documentary of the same name, Hands on a Hardbody is the musical journey of 10 souls seeking salvation and a free truck: the symbol of a better life.
Get those minds outta the gutter, y’all… This is a musical about a hardbody truck.  Based on true events featured in a 1997 documentary of the same name, Hands on a Hardbody is the musical journey of 10 souls seeking salvation and a free truck: the symbol of a better life. In order to attain that, all they have to...

An Art Showcase ‘Celebrating Women’ and ‘Imagined Worlds’ at A Cedars Gallery

Crush features North Bay art and cultural events, including a park ranger's in-depth presentation about Angel Island at the Belvedere Tiburon Library.
Healdsburg Celebrating Women Upstairs Art Gallery marks Women’s History Month with “Celebrating Women,” a vibrant showcase of watercolor paintings by Sonoma County artist Tosya Shore. Her works honor women in all their facets—capturing fleeting, intimate moments with bold shapes and interlacing patterns that elevate the everyday. Also featured in the Stairway Smallworks Showcase is Donna Schaffer’s “Ooh La La, Plein Air,”...

Your Letters, Feb. 18

No Map Flap The Supreme Court ruled that California this fall may use its new election map, which is expected to send five more Democrats to Congress. Oops. The main difference is that Californians voted for this, whereas other states mandated theirs. The Chump Administration and the GOP now wanted to ‘nationalize’ the voting process. Let’s not forget that Chump called...

Empathy Machines. Can Films Increase Compassion?

The matter of empathy is at the heart of the film Bugonia—key to its narrative, and its effectiveness as a work of art.
Screenwriter Will Tracy is nominated for an Oscar for his script for the film Bugonia, released in theaters last fall. Bugonia follows a disaffected paranoiac named Teddy (Jesse Plemons), who kidnaps Michelle (Emma Stone, also Oscar-nominated). Teddy, gripped with a fanatical mistrust of society at large, has convinced himself that Michelle, the wealthy CEO of an unethical pharmaceutical company,...

Beasts of the Pacific: Northern Elephant Seals at Home in Drakes Beach

Drakes Beach has become one of the best places to see elephant seals up close in the wild.
I was at Drakes Beach in Point Reyes National Seashore on a day in late December. The day was notably warm for the coast, with a soft breeze and not a cloud in the sky. The water moved calmly, softly, as small waves crashed on the shore.  I looked onto the sand, trying to make out the movement of the...

Taste the Place, Dan Berger’s Take on Wine 

"My wine collection is better than any restaurant in the world," said Dan Berger, wine writer and award-winning journalist.
Dan Berger hardly needs introduction if one knows about wine. As a wine columnist since 1976, the Los Angeles Times wine writer (1988-1996) and award-winning journalist has lived here in Sonoma County since 1986. He is an international competition judge, author, speaker and professor, as well as a member of the Hall of Fame of the New York Wine...

Free Will Astrology, Feb. 18-24

Astrologer Rob Brezsny provides horoscopes for each of the 12 zodiac signs
ARIES (March 21-April 19): Saturn has entered Aries. I see this landmark shift as being potentially very good news for you. Between now and April 2028, you will have enhanced powers to channel your restless heart in constructive directions. I predict you will narrow down your multiple interests and devote yourself to a few resonant paths rather than scattering...

Living While Dying: Co-Owner of Local..ish Market, Thomas Botzler

Thomas Botzler has fourth stage (metastatic; spreading) cancer.
The title of this edition comes from the subject himself—Thomas Botzler, whose confrontation with death has lent his languaging a stark directness and impact.  “Gravitas” is a word that comes to mind, evoking “graveness” and “weight.” And yet Thomas carries his own tired body with a certain lightness of being. Death has enlightened him. Thomas has fourth stage (metastatic; spreading) cancer....

Hypocritical Hijinks: Deceit Over Decency

Open Mic writers express their perspectives on a variety of topics.
Donald Trump to Iran’s leaders who are cracking down on protesters: “You better not start shooting, because we’ll start shooting, too.” Iran’s leaders say the protests are the result of foreign meddling. On the other hand, when Trump was asked about the shooting of Renee Nicole Good by an ICE agent in Minneapolis, he said he’d always protect ICE agents...

An Unused Life: ‘Shirley Valentine’ in Sonoma  

A middle-aged British woman, wife, and mother wonders whatever became of herself and sets out to rediscover life in Willy Russell’s Shirley Valentine. Jennifer King stars in the one-woman show now running on the Rotary Stage in the Sonoma Community Center through Feb. 22.     We meet Shirley in her Liverpool home kitchen where she’s preparing a dinner of chips and...
11,084FansLike
4,606FollowersFollow
6,928FollowersFollow