The Yin and Yang of It: Nothing is Ever Just Black and White

The world is made of opposites
Combined in different forms,
For things to be otherwise
Would violate all sensible norms.
There’s some light in the deeply dark
There’s at least a little bit
Of wealth when things seem stark,
That’s the Yin and Yang of it.
Smart people do things wrong
Untrained minds get complicated matters right,
Every short contains some long
Blindness is one type of sight.
Everything contains itself
Some candles are never lit,
There are useless things on some low shelves,
That’s the Yin and Yang of it.
The humongous contains some small
The weakest have some strength,
The mile or inch that we assign
To calculate a length
Is as accurate as it is false
There is no perfect fit,
The random graces and the carefully planned,
Are the Yin and Yang of it.

David Reinstein is a poet in San Anselmo.

‘Tight & Nerdy,’ Burlesque Meets Weird Al Onscreen

Burlesque sometimes makes for strange bedfellows—a Star Wars-themed performance is an annual local favorite, for example. But something weirder this way comes thanks to a traveling burlesque show inspired by, and set to, the music of Weird Al Yankovic—a show called Al-Stravaganza, which is now the subject of a new documentary film, screening at San Francisco IndieFest this weekend.

Tight & Nerdy is not about Weird Al Yankovic (who notably flipped Chamillionaire’s 2006 gangsta-inspired lyric “ridin’ dirty” into the song “White and Nerdy,” with comedians Keegan-Michael Key and Jordan Peele playing foils to Donny Osmond, Seth Green and Weird “I ain’t got no grille, but I still wear braces” Al in the music video) or burlesque (which has its roots in perversions or “travesties” of high-culture including opera and Shakespeare), but a remarkable hybrid of both.

Weird Al, who rose to fame in the ’80s through goofy, frequently (and inexplicably) food-obsessed music—and music video—parodies of pop heavyweights including Michael Jackson (“Eat It”) and Madonna (“Like a Surgeon”), became both the king of novelty entertainment and pop culture’s reliable, but never mean-spirited, jester. He began disarming audiences and skewering self-serious, highly commercial musical acts and, in doing so, poked fun at the craft of songwriting, celebrity and the very mechanisms of attention and fame.

Al-Stravaganza, the live burlesque show (well, “nerdlesque” show—a subgenre melding striptease with geek culture, sci-fi and comic book fandoms, and cosplay) and subject of Tight & Nerdy (its name taken from the troupe’s name), has its roots in San Francisco, where performers Pickles Kintaro, Mistress Marla Spankx, Pearl E. Gates and Odessa Lil met more than a decade ago. They soon tantalized audiences with DIY showgirl costumes, bawdy choreography, down-to-their-pasties nudity, a vibe of inclusivity across ages, genders and bodies, and, yes, Weird Al songs. 

Because what says seduction like Weird Al’s “Spam” (bending REM’s “Stand” into lyrics like “If you need a spoon, keep one around/Carry a thermos to help wash it down”) or “Amish Paradise” (morphing Coolio’s “Gangsta’s Paradise” into “As I walk through the valley where I harvest my grain, I take a look at my wife and realize she’s very plain”)?

If Jeff Nucera and Jonathan Ruane, Tight & Nerdy’s filmmakers, capture the backstage thrill and about-to-go-on stress and, as well, the am-I-really-doing-this essence of the troupe’s act onstage—in Jan Brady, Bob Dylan and Oscar the Grouch costumes, and, sometimes, merkins—the heart of the film rapidly reveals itself as something else entirely: the prospect and peril of belonging and not belonging.

Amidst road-trip montages and sequined Spam can strip-teases (yes, featuring a peek-a-boo flap), the filmmakers slip in day-to-day life confessionals from Laura, aka “Pearl,” describing her housewife-induced depression and with an on-a-whim burlesque class serving as savior, and Jann (“Pickles”) chronicling the mundane microaggressions and overt racism of her Korean-American childhood as “the only POC in an all-white world” and an on-again, off-again estrangement with her conservative parents, “not willing to be someone I’m not” to make it work.

And then there’s the confessional of Odessa Lil, her love for a parent notwithstanding, admitting “mixed feelings about how to show compassion for someone who didn’t show me compassion.”

Recalling that she “never really fit in,” Pickles might be speaking for all of these women—outside, that is (however simplified these things can be in compressed, filmic narratives, not to mention compressed film reviews), of the burlesque counter-world they co-create—this expressive, creative, sexually-commanding, body-positive playground where everyone in the audience is in on the kink-meets-camp Weird Al-ness of the whole thing (“They know the words to every song,” Odessa Lil told Weeklys, calling them “our people”).

But if Pickles, Pearl and Mistress Marla Spankx are largely the troupe’s supply of vivaciousness, transporting patrons, with every tit-tassled milkshake, away into this alternate reality, Odessa Lil is its high-concept dominatrix (“I was terrified of her,” says Pickles of her first impression of Lil. Lil’s response? “Good.”), her razor sharp wit as much theatrical dimension as it is existential adaptation.

Lil, whose real name is Audra Wolfmann, a two-time Ms. Noir City—referring to the annual festival that projects rare 35mm prints of classic 1940s-50s noir films at Oakland’s Grand Lake Theatre—punctuates Tight & Nerdy with her trademark, hardboiled dialect. She’s cynical, world-weary, if belied by a hungry, guarded vulnerability, her dialog often in the form of meta-commentary that emphasizes the frequently bizarro nature of existence, socialization and meaning.

Playing tour guide at what she playfully refers to as the “Wolfmann horror house” (notable, as it is, for its horror vacui), Lil points to the dining room-set, gilt framed portraits of “relatives who were killed in the Holocaust” and those from her father’s studio—including (and as faint echo of Lucien Freud’s nudes of his daughter, Annie) kitschy paintings of her as corset and leather crop-accessorized burlesque performer.

She then adds, amongst the sprawl of bric-a-brac assembled by her antique dealer-turned hoarder mother (including a feathered ottoman footstool with high-heeled, mature lady legs) and in her usual self-aware way, “I’m so embarrassed to be alive.” (Wolfmann’s at work on a short story collection loosely based on her life.)

One’s tempted to reach for Jean Baudrillard’s opus on simulacra, probing the way representations of things can precede and even define the things they represent to better understand Wolfmann’s reflexive use of language, the troupe’s appropriation of Weird Al’s music, the burlesque form itself, and Weird Al’s mimicry of and satirical riffs on some of pop culture’s most sacred signals—or at least to wriggle further out on Wolfmann’s “weird loop” wavelength. 

Though not in the film, Wolfmann displays in her living room a close friend’s Comic Con fan photo with Star Trek’s William Shatner—the result of successive posed pics, year after year, each featuring the pair and, in hand, their most recent printed photo (picturing, as it does, them and the previous printed photo, and so forth, as a kind of photographic infinity mirror). This is a recursive joke that Shatner indulged, if with raised eyebrow, and plausible shorthand for Odessa Lil’s taste and wit insomuch as it applies to Al-Stravaganza itself.

Tight & Nerdy filmmakers Ruane, who co-produced the Martha Stewart documentary Martha, and Nucera, who had producer roles on The Osbournes and The Baldwins, and who’s been part of Weird Al’s team for years in tour and fan club-related capacities, live and breathe the rhythms of unscripted cinema and bookend these personal revelations and live production scenes with excerpts of interviews with Al himself. 

The “Weird” in “Weird Al,” he tells us, came to him as a sledge in his early college years—one that he owned, branded and monetized, parlaying his childhood affinity for the way MAD Magazine skewered contemporary culture into a one man empire that managed to elevate the stature of the world’s nerds, outcasts and weirdos, with MAD’s Alfred E. Neuman reimagined as a musically-inclined, perpetually dad-joking Weird Al (aka, Alfred Yankovic). 

Yes, Weird Al was perhaps born to be weird and to carry it off with charm and swag, but he was also destined to be this particular burlesque troupe’s spirit animal.

In the documentary, Mistress Marla Spankx says Weird Al’s oeuvre gives people “permission to be weirdos,” but, importantly, as Al-Stravaganza demonstrates, weirdos together. Weird loops aside, Tight & Nerdy is ultimately about owning one’s weirdness, bonding over it with co-conspirators and—gasp—reveling in it in public, under the lights, probably in homemade Spam can costumes, until off comes the last of one’s disguises, revealing the only self one will ever have in this vast universe.

‘Tight & Nerdy’s’ West Coast premiere is scheduled for Saturday, Feb. 7, 8:30pm, at the 28th San Francisco IndieFest (Roxie Theater, 3117 16th St.), with streaming available during the festival’s run. For more info, visit tightandnerdymovie.com.

Mission Possible: Brice Giannotti Leads with Intention

It has been just a couple of months since Brice Giannotti started his job as the new general manager at Santé and 38• North in the Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn & Spa. 

But the two decades of luxury hospitality, dining and beverage programming under his belt has ensured a smooth transition into this iconic Sonoma destination. And ultimately, “he understands the importance of seasonal ingredients, local purveyors and the stories behind each dish,” the main tenants for the restaurant, says executive chef Chris Kurth. 

In fact, Giannotti was an executive chef himself early in his career at Lucca Bar & Grill, so he understands the ins and outs of a restaurant. Those who have worked with him will say that he is known for his collaborative spirit and mentorship-driven leadership, which will surely guide him in his new role.

Amber Turpin: How did you get into this work?

Brice Giannotti: Honestly, I sort of backed into it. I needed a job when I was younger, and restaurants were the place where hard work actually paid off in real time. I liked the rhythm of service, the personalities and the idea that you could make someone’s day better in a couple of hours. One thing led to another, and before I knew it I was building a career out of something that never stopped teaching me new lessons.

Did you ever have an ‘aha’ moment with a certain beverage? If so, tell us about it.

Yes—and it was pretty simple. It wasn’t a rare bottle or a grand tasting. It was a well-made glass of wine with the right food, in the right moment, where everything just clicked. That was when I realized beverages aren’t about labels or scores—they’re about context, balance and how they make you feel. That idea still guides how I think about drinks today.

What is your favorite thing to drink at home?

At home, I keep it uncomplicated. A good bottle of wine shared with my partner or friends, or a clean, classic cocktail—nothing fussy. After long days, I appreciate things that are honest and well-made more than anything flashy.

Where do you like to go out for a drink?

I’m drawn to places that feel comfortable and intentional—somewhere the lighting is right, the music isn’t fighting the conversation and the person behind the bar actually cares. It doesn’t have to be fancy; it just has to feel genuine.

If you were stuck on a desert island, what would you want to be drinking (besides fresh water)?

Something timeless and calming. Probably a simple wine or a well-balanced cocktail. Nothing too heavy; nothing too precious. If you’re on a desert island, you want something that reminds you of good company and better days.
Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn & Spa, 100 Boyes Blvd., Sonoma. 707.938.9000. fairmont-sonoma.com.

Your Letters, Feb. 4

Guest List

After the murder of a second U.S. citizen by ICE agents in Minneapolis, United States Attorney General Pam Bondi sent a letter to Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz linking the violence in Minnesota to a demand for complete access to the state’s voter rolls.

Bondi’s reported reason to so politely request the information was so that she could invite all Minnesota’s citizens to her domestic partner’s birthday party. There are those who believe that what’s actually behind her polite request is a desire on the part of her boss, our president, to mildly interfere with the 2026 midterm elections.

Now, come on, people, why would anyone think a man with our president’s criminal record, with only 91 felony counts, and his deep commitment to the principles and processes of democracy, would attempt to rig an election? Really, what kind of person do we think he is?

Craig J. Corsini
San Rafael

No Gold for ICE

Outrage is growing in Italy over the deployment of ICE agents to assist U.S. security operations at the Winter Olympics this month—something U.S. officials say has been common practice at previous Olympics.

The U.S. is losing friends in the EU, and alienating Italy does not seem like a smart play.

American athletes are having to deal with routine premier competition and the hostility the Chump Administration is generating.

Gary Sciford
Santa Rosa

Never Assume 

A Haiku for Renee Good

Man is not Human

His Gun is Reptilian

Death is his Greeting

L. Watson
Petaluma

Free Will Astrology, Feb. 4-10

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): I’m thrilled by your genius for initiating what others only dream about. I celebrate your holy impatience with fakery and your refusal to waste precious life-force on enterprises that have gone stale. I’m in awe of how you make fire your ally rather than your enemy, wielding it not to destroy but to forge new realities from the raw materials of possibility. Everything I just described will be in your wheelhouse during the coming weeks.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): How do I love you? Let me count some of the ways. 1. Your patience is masterful. You understand that some treasures can’t be rushed and that many beautiful things require slow nurturing through your devoted attention. 2. You have a knack for inducing the mundane world to reveal its small miracles and spiritual secrets. 3. You practice lucid loyalty without being in bondage to the past. You honor your history even as you make room for the future. 4. You know when to cling tightly to what needs to be protected and preserved, and you know when to gracefully loosen your grip to let everything breathe. In the coming weeks, all these superpowers of yours will be especially available to you and the people you care for.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): In carpentry, there’s a technique called “kerf bending.” It involves making a series of small cuts in wood so it can curve without breaking. The cuts weaken the material in one sense, but they make it flexible enough to create shapes that would otherwise be impossible. I suspect you’re being kerf-bent right now, Gemini. Life is making small nicks in your certainties, your plans and your self-image. It might feel like you’re being diminished, but you’re actually being made flexible enough to bend into a new form. Don’t interpret the nicks as damage. They’re preparation for adjustments you can’t see yet. Let yourself be shaped.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): In Irish folklore, “thin places” are situations or areas where the material and spiritual worlds overlap. They aren’t always geographical. A thin place may be a moment: like the pre-dawn hour between sleeping and waking, or the silence after someone says “I love you” for the first time. I believe you’re living in a thin place right now, Cancer. The boundary between your inner world and outer circumstances is more porous than usual. This means your emotions may affect your environment more directly. Your intuitions will be even more accurate than usual, and your nightly dreams will provide you with practical clues. Be alert. Magic will be available if you notice it.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): In traditional Korean jogakbo, scraps of fabric too small to be useful alone are stitched together into a piece that’s both functional and beautiful. Every fragment contributes to the whole. I encourage you to treat your current life this way, Leo. Don’t dismiss iffy or unfinished experiences as “wasted time.” Instead, see if you can weave all the bits and scraps together into a valuable lesson or asset. Prediction: I foresee a lovely jogakbo in your future.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): The Maori people of New Zealand practice mirimiri, a form of healing that works not by fighting disease but by restoring flow. The technique involves removing blockages so life force can move freely again. I think you need the equivalent of mirimiri, Virgo. There’s a small but non-trivial obstruction in your life. The good news is that you now have the power to figure out where the flow got stuck and then gently coax it back into motion. Let the healing begin. Here’s a good way to begin: Vow that you won’t hold yourself back from enjoying your life to the max.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): In the coming weeks, I encourage you to prioritize mirth, revelry and gratification. For starters, you could invite kindred spirits to join you in pursuing experimental forms of pleasure. Have fun riffing and brainstorming about feeling good in ways you’ve never tried or even imagined before. Seek out stories from other explorers of bliss and delight who can inspire you to expand your sense of wonder. Then, with your mind as open as your heart, give yourself the freedom to enjoy as many playful adventures and evocative amusements as you dare.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): In the Inuktitut language of the Intuit people, the word ajurnarmat is translated as “it can’t be helped.” It acknowledges forces at work beyond human control. Rather than pure resignation, it reflects an attitude of accepting what can’t be changed, which helps people conserve energy and adapt creatively to challenging circumstances. So for example, when hunters encounter impossible ice conditions, ajurnamat allows them to refrain from forcing the situation and notice what may actually be possible. I suspect you’re facing your own ajurnarmat, Scorpio. Your breakthrough will emerge as soon as you admit the truth of what’s happening and allow your perception to shift. What looks unnavigable from one angle may reveal a solution if you approach it from another direction. Practice strategic surrender.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Your hunger for meaning is admirable. I love it. I never want you to mute your drive to discover what’s interesting and useful. But now and then, the hot intensity of your quest can make you feel that nothing is ever enough. You get into the habit of always looking past what’s actually here and being obsessed with what you imagine should be or could be there. In the coming days, dear Sagittarius, I invite you to avoid that tendency. Rather than compulsively pursuing high adventure and vast vistas, focus on the sweet, intimate details. The wisdom you yearn for might be embedded in ordinariness.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): In architecture, a “flying buttress” is an external support system that allows a massive building like a cathedral to reach greater heights without collapsing under its own weight. Because the buttress is partly open to the air rather than solidly built against the wall from top to bottom, it appears to “fly,” which is where the name comes from. In the coming weeks, I encourage you Capricorns to acquire your own equivalent of at least one new flying buttress. Who or what could this be? A collaborator who shares the load? A new form of discipline that provides scaffolding? A truth you finally speak aloud that lets others help you? To get the process started, shed any belief you have that strength means carrying everything all by yourself.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): The coming weeks will challenge you to think with tenderness and feel with clarity. You’ll be called on to stay sharply alert even as you remain loose, kind and at ease. Your good fortune will expand as you open your awareness wider, while also firming up the boundaries that keep mean people from bothering you. The really good news is that cosmic forces are lining up to guide you and coach you in exactly these skills. You are primed to explore intriguing paradoxes and contradictions that have valuable lessons.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): In alchemy, solve et coagula is a Latin phrase translated as “dissolve and coagulate.” It means that transformation must begin with the process of breaking down before any building begins. You can’t skip over the dissolving phase and jump straight into creating the new structure. I mention this, dear Pisces, because I believe you’re now in the dissolving phase. It might feel destabilizing, even a bit unnerving, but I urge you to stick with it. When the moment comes to construct the beautiful new forms, you will know. But that time isn’t yet. Keep dissolving a while longer.

Homework: What small burden could you let go that will provide a rush of freedom? Newsletter. FreeWillAstrology.com.

Physical Poetry, Pour + Explore, Cello Joyride and Tiburon Trivia

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Fairfax

Dance in the Stacks

Ballet meets lived experience in Strength Through Grace, an intimate evening on Feb. 26 at the Fairfax Library celebrating Black heritage through dance and storytelling. Professional dancer Marusya Madubuko of Alonzo King Lines Ballet shares her personal journey into the rarefied world of professional ballet—what it took to get there, what she learned along the way and the obstacles she had to move through to land her dream job. The conversation is paired with a short live performance excerpt from one of Alonzo King’s ballets, offering a glimpse of the physical poetry that has defined her career. The result is part talk, part performance and wholly grounded in resilience, grace and hard-won insight. 6:30–7:30pm, Thursday, Feb. 26, at the Fairfax Library, 2097 Sir Francis Drake Blvd. Free; no registration required.

Healdsburg

Pour + Explore 

Sonoma County Vintners kicks off its 2026 Pour + Explore tasting series with a Valentine’s-adjacent evening devoted to Bordeaux varietals, hosted in the atmospheric Artisan Cellar at Rodney Strong Vineyards on Feb. 12. Produced in collaboration with sommelier Christopher Sawyer, the walk-around tasting brings together red Bordeaux-style wines from more than 20 Sonoma County wineries, offering a broad snapshot of how classic grapes express themselves across the county’s diverse vineyards. Light bites—cheese and charcuterie—keep things grounded while DJ J-KIND supplies romantic lounge beats. There’s also a playful dress-up angle, with Valentine’s attire encouraged and a photo wall for commemorating the occasion. The event is strictly 21 and over and designed as equal parts education, social hour and early Valentine’s celebration—less candlelit dinner, more well-poured conversation. 5:30–7:30pm, Thursday, Feb. 12, Rodney Strong Vineyards, 11455 Old Redwood Hwy., Healdsburg. $75 plus tax and fees.

Cloverdale

Dirty Cello

If one thinks a cello belongs in the symphony hall, Dirty Cello is here to politely—and loudly—correct that thought, with a Feb. 7 performance at the Cloverdale Performing Arts Center. Fronted by virtuoso cellist Rebecca Roudman, the globe-trotting band turns blues, rock and Americana into a high-voltage joyride, with the cello standing in for a lead guitar and then some. Roudman, classically trained and happily unshackled, leads a band that thrives on spontaneity, loose setlists and reading the room. One night might veer from Jimi Hendrix to Charlie Daniels to roaring originals; another might zig somewhere entirely unexpected. That unpredictability is the point. The band has taken this anything-goes energy everywhere from Iceland to China to, yes, a Santa Cruz nudist resort. Wherever they land, the goal is the same: maximum fun, minimum rules. 7:30pm, Friday, Feb. 7, Cloverdale Performing Arts Center, 209 N Cloverdale Blvd. Tickets are $25 online ($30 at the door) and available at bit.ly/dirtycello_cloverdalefeb7.

Tiburon

Trivia Cafe

One may put that pop-culture recall and brainpower to the test on Feb. 12 at Trivia Cafe, hosted by Marin’s master of trivia, Howard Rachelson. This friendly, all-ages quiz night mixes smart questions, music and visuals in a relaxed, team-friendly format—participants may come with a crew or join one on the spot. Set in the Belvedere Tiburon Library Founders Room, it’s a lively reminder that libraries still know how to have fun. 6–7:30pm, Thursday, Feb. 12, Belvedere Tiburon Library Founders Room, 1501 Tiburon Blvd., Tiburon. Free; registration required. More info at bit.ly/trivia-cafe-tib.

Calvi Ranch Acquisition, a Gift that Will Keep Giving for Generations to Come

Last December, Sonoma County based LandPaths announced they were acquiring Calvi Ranch, a 69-acre parcel of land a half mile from the magnificent Grove of Old Trees in Occidental. 

Owned by the Calvi Family for the last 90 years, the property is located on the ancestral homeland of the Kashia Band of Pomo Indians and the Federated Indians of Graton Rancheria. It has been and is a crucial piece of wildlife connectivity, headwaters protection and now, eventually programming, grounded in equitable access to nature.

This land could easily have been sold for multiple millions and decimated to make room for housing, a golf course or a hotel, but the Calvi family wanted to keep it as close to “as is” instead. Craig Anderson, executive director of external affairs at LandPaths, spoke to the acquisition’s multifaceted win for conservancy, the environment, the local landscape and more. Said Anderson, “The state of the world, both locally and globally, requires that we are thoughtful in how we assess and prioritize our community efforts at LandPaths with other needs.”

He continued, “Given this, we still felt it incredibly important to protect this truly incomparable Sonoma County vestige of wildness, and to do that in a way where the trees, prairie and creatures that live therein would have the best chance of flourishing now and for future generations.”

In terms of the recent history for the property, prior landowner Gene Calvi said that in addition to ownership of the land for the past 90 years, “The adjacent 23-acre parcel, referred to as the picnic grounds, has been in our family for over 60 years.” He admitted, “This parcel was the hardest for me to give up because of its beauty,” adding that the parcel “is amazing, with its mass amount of redwood trees and Fay Creek that runs through it most of the year.” Calvi concluded that “after showing Craig Anderson the ranch and picnic grounds owned by my family, I knew I was speaking to the right person.”

Structured as part sale and part donation by brothers Gene and David Calvi, the deal involves land their father Nico purchased in 1935 as a new immigrant from Italy. Nico Calvi operated a sawmill there for decades, but its small, car-engine-powered saw was only suited for cutting smaller trees. Consequently, the old-growth and mature second-growth forests were left intact, remaining as they are today. 

The acquisition was also made with support from California State Coastal Conservancy as well as donors including Jean Schulz, wife of another person known for bringing joy into the world, Peanuts cartoonist Charles Schulz. Jean Schulz said that upon first visiting the Calvi Ranch, she was “blown away by the variety of the landscape and the pristine condition that I saw. What a gift to our generation, and the next.”

While the acquisition is cause for excitement, Anderson said the process for next steps won’t be a rushed one. “With time, there will be a planning process,” he noted. Anderson added that it’s important to “[be] mindful of the need to balance access with respecting private property and promoting community safety and well-being. Access to wild nature for people who might not otherwise have the opportunity, and who seek nothing more than an opportunity to enjoy the quiet and nourishment by spaces like this, comes with that obligation.”

Next steps include LandPaths working with interested tribal representatives, along with a neighborhood group, Friends of the Grove (or FOG), and other community members to create a site-management plan. This plan will be the basis of an application to the County of Sonoma for a Conditional Use Permit, a necessary step in opening the property up to passive (walking) public access, including environmental education for local school children.

For more information visit landpaths.org.

Loverly, ‘My Fair Lady’ at Cinnabar Theater

Aficionados of musical theater classics will appreciate Cinnabar Theater’s production of Lerner and Loewe’s My Fair Lady, running through Feb. 8 in Rohnert Park in the Warren Auditorium at Sonoma State University. Directed by Christian Arteaga, it is a prime example of keeping it simple and casting well and of actors working tirelessly in pursuit of excellence. 

The nearly full house certainly seemed to enjoy the evening, watching poor, scrappy Eliza Doolittle (Brittany Law) become a real English lady under the tutelage of the emotionally immature Professor Higgins (superb Trevor Hoffman) and kindly Col. Pickering (Tim Setzer, who excels in saucy, mugging moments).

I grew up watching the 1964 film adaptation of My Fair Lady, starring Audrey Hepburn and Rex Harrison. I always wondered why Eliza ended up with the pompous Higgins and also why Rex Harrison never actually sang, but rather, talked in a sing-song way. Lucky for us, Hoffman outdoes Harrison in vocals and gives Higgins characteristics that make him more understandable. 

The play doesn’t delve into the WHYs of the story, with characterizations and motivations thin, but it does give us a fairytale full of memorable music, performed live by pianist Brett Strader and harpist Krista Strader. Standouts include “I Could Have Danced All Night,” which showcases Law’s powerful, beautiful voice, and the bawdy “Get Me to the Church on Time,” featuring Nathan Cummings as Eliza’s freewheeling dad, performing a raucous dance number with the ensemble.

About this ensemble: They are all excellent throughout, highlighted in “With a Little Bit of Luck.” Each voice can be heard both distinctively and harmoniously, and each performer steals moments. 

Though I really would have loved to see Law go totally feral as pre-posh Eliza, she excels in her newly minted lady status moments, especially at the Ascot races. At the end, there seemed a moment of squashed impulses between Higgins and Eliza, where a less restrained interaction would have been much more satisfying, especially after Eliza declares her need for actions to the young lovestruck Freddy (a whirling dervish played by Liam Cody) in “Show Me!” 

It’s what is not shown and not developed in the relationship of Higgins and Eliza that’s really needed to make this romance truthful. But, by all means, one may judge for themself and consider a ticket to this well made production.

Cinnabar Theater presents ‘My Fair Lady’ through Feb. 8 at Warren Auditorium in Ives Hall at Sonoma State University. 1801 E. Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. Fri–Sat, 7pm; Sun, 2pm. $23–$72. 707.763.8920. cinnabartheater.org.

Spirit of the King: Collective Soul Plays Graton Rancheria

Mojo Nixon and Skid Roper once sang that Elvis was everywhere—to hilarious effect. In the case of the most recent Collective Soul record, the two-CD Here to Eternity, the spirit of Presley was literally omnipresent. 

Recorded on-site at Presley’s California estate in Palm Springs, the album project was a dream come true for Collective Soul founding member Ed Roland, who was a devout fan of the “King” while growing up in Atlanta. Collective Soul plays at Rohnert Park’s Graton Resort & Casino, Saturday, Jan. 31.

“The year before Elvis passed, he spent his last Thanksgiving, Christmas, birthday and did his last three gospel records there,” Roland explained in a recent interview. “RCA (Records) had set it up—soundproofing the Big Room, and Elvis was able to record live. That’s how we record.

“I had met the guys who bought it on the courthouse steps because (Presley’s wife) Priscilla and (daughter) Lisa Marie wanted nothing to do with it, so it was dormant. So we had to stage it by bringing furniture in and things like that. We set the control room up in Lisa Marie’s room. Our producer/engineer was in Priscilla’s room, and I got to sleep in Elvis’ bedroom. I’m the only man that can say that,” he continued.

After recording began in January 2023, Collective Soul banged out a dozen songs. With three weeks remaining on the lease, Roland decided to pursue his dream of recording a double album inspired by a number of influential albums from his youth, including Elton John’s Goodbye Yellow Brick Road and the Rolling Stones’ Exile on Main Street.

“I went in there with 12 songs, and the guys recorded them in four days,” Roland recalled. “We still had the place for a month, so I told them to take a four-day hiatus. Maybe go to Joshua Tree, hike, bike or golf. I sat in Elvis’ room by myself, in his party room, and I had my vinyl brought out and just listened to people I grew up listening to, and I wanted to see if I could write some more songs. Somehow, I got 10 done in four days. Then they (the band) came back in, and we recorded in five days. I told them that I was done and tapped out.”

The resulting 20 cuts range from the piano ballad “Be The One” and hearty Beatlesque earworm “La Dee Da” to the live gem “Bob Dylan (Where Are You Today),” which resonates with a delicate balance of solo acoustic guitar, mournful harmonica and some topical lyrics. Throughout this joyful recording experience, Roland insists Presley’s spirit could be felt the whole time the Georgia native and his crew were there.

“There was a place where Elvis would sing, so I would sing there,” Roland said. “And he’d usually sing out by the pool, so I would do my vocals out by the pool. And it’s just part of knowing that nobody had been there since he died. The night Lisa Marie passed, we had set the control up in her bedroom, and the ceiling fell down, so it was kind of a spooky vibe. We just absorbed it. We couldn’t believe we were there, to be honest with you. The excitement is definitely there.”

The son of a preacher, singer Roland and brother Dean (who plays guitar in Collective Soul) caught the rock and roll bug early due to the fact that their mom played piano in church while dad led the congregation in song. The latter was open-minded and influential when it came to secular music, taking his boys to see Johnny Cash in 1969 and subsequently Liberace and Elton John in later years. And while Ed Roland would grow to love the likes of The Cars, AC/DC, The Police and Peter Frampton, he admitted he would only go so far in terms of what albums he’d bring into the family home.

“I loved (AC/DC’s) Highway to Hell, but that was a record I really couldn’t bring into the house,” he said with a laugh. “As a young kid, I didn’t want to push it too much. I remember getting Queen’s Jazz album, opening it up and saw all the topless girls in there. I ran across the street to my neighbor and asked him to hold onto this album for me and told him I’d listen to it at his house.”

As he got older, Roland decided he wanted to join his rock and roll heroes by writing his own songs. He went on to form the original lineup of Collective Soul with his brother, Dean.

A recent documentary, Give Me A Word: The Collective Soul Story, tells the tale of the 30-year history of the band from Stockbridge, Georgia, which began with a bang when Atlantic Records signed the group. In 1993, they released what was essentially a demo of Ed Roland songs as Hints Allegations and Things Left Unsaid. Featuring the hit single “Shine,” the album went double platinum.

Collective Soul’s second album, a self-titled effort, was even more popular, going triple platinum and generating five hit singles, including the chart topping “December,” “Where the River Flows” and “The World I Know.” The band finished the decade with two more successful albums, Disciplined Breakdown and Dosage.

But as the new century arrived, Collective Soul’s fortunes began to gradually wane, as four more studio albums saw diminishing returns. The band, which still includes long-time bassist Will Turpin, also went through some personnel changes, cycling through a pair of drummers before drummer Johnny Rabb joined in 2012. In 2014, guitarist Jesse Triplett became the band’s third guitarist (following Ross Childress and Joel Kosche), completing a current lineup that Roland feels is the best version yet of Collective Soul. 

As Collective Soul returns to the road, Roland insists the familial vibes of his band will be overflowing to those in attendance at their upcoming performance.

“Everyone is just enjoying this moment in time,” he said. “We’re just going out and playing our songs for the people.”

Collective Soul plays at 8pm, Saturday, Jan. 31 at The Event At Graton Resort & Casino, 288 Golf Course Dr. W., Rohnert Park. bit.ly/collective-soul-rp.

No Kings, Indivisible Sonoma County’s Tom Bethin

In the warming afterglow of their Jan. 17 protest rally, I telephoned Tom Bethin. He was buzzing.

Earlier that day, his all-volunteer organization, Indivisible Sonoma County, had organized a speaker series on Santa Rosa’s civic plaza. Backed by a 10-foot tall banner emblazoned, “RISE UP AND RECLAIM OUR DEMOCRACY,” six candidates for two congressional seats (including Mike Thomson and ole Mike McGuire) sought to fire up the crowd (and justify their leadership). After the inspiring talk, the crowd—numbering in the hundreds, was offered candles and arranged on the square to form a giant, manifesting peace sign. Visit indivisiblesoco.org to watch the aerial video recap.

I describe this rally—a fist raised to the one-year anniversary of Donald Trump’s second inauguration—partly to do a bit of inspiring myself. And to put my finger on two of the qualities that have made the Indivisible network the most effective protest movement of the Trump era. Those being close communication with elected leaders and diverse, and (I daresay) fun, protest tactics.

These two qualities come out of the origins of Indivisible—and its national structure.

Indivisible was founded by (just) two former congressional staffers (young insiders). And its national organization consists of more than 2,500 self-organizing and semi-autonomous local groups (in almost all U.S. congressional districts). These local groups are in a two-way dialogue with a national parent organization—which pools good ideas coming up from below—in addition to setting priorities for the movement and orchestrating national days of resistance (such as “Hands Off,” “Ice Out” or “No Kings,” which drew 7 million protesters into 2,700 local expressions of peaceful defiance like the rally I described). These things I gathered while talking to Bethin. Here are some quotes.

Cincinnatus Hibbard: Tom, I find you have a great political brain. It’s like talking to a gassed-up policy wonk. What is your professional employment?

Tom Bethin: I’m retired. I was the owner of Shutterbug Camera Store.

How many people subscribe to Sonoma Indivisible’s Substack newsletter?

About 8,000.

Get hip, Sonoma. What tactics is the Sonoma County organization currently fielding?

They have changed a lot. During Trump 1.0 and the Biden Administration, our tactics were primarily based on a model of constituent pressure on elected officials actually based on the Tea Party Movement—without their ideology, of course (laughs). With Trump 2.0, we have really had to change our methods. We couldn’t wait, and our elected leaders were failing to step up.

Word. Tell me more about your organization.

We are volunteer-driven, enthusiasm-driven. Protests happen because people show up at our meetings and say, “I have an idea”—and we make them the lead on it.

Beyond the struggle for today, your local organization is taking the long few on how to build a more resilient democracy for the future.

We have come up with something of a strategic framework. It has four key areas we need to be headed toward. We need to build a united front with other organizations; we need to be in coalition. We need to grow community power through alternative organizations—in the absence of federal government help. We need to inspire defections among people that are actively taking part in the MAGA attack on our country, or abetting by passively stepping aside. And, we need to develop responses to threats of violence.

Learn more: Make contact with local Indivisible organizations in Marin, Sonoma or Napa. Their sites host info guides, statement pieces, protest calendars, update newsletters and opportunities to join or to donate. Action converts fears for the future into fierce empowerment. indivisiblesoco.org.

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