Who Wore It Better? High Fashion Satire: ‘Boosters’ vs. ‘Prada 2’

In the late 1990s, the films The Truman Show (1998) and EDtv (1999) were noted for their uncannily similar premises, in which reality TV shows go to increasingly invasive and unethical extremes in the pursuit of higher ratings.

So-called “twin films” like these are often explained as the result of studios vying to capitalize (literally) on an idea more successfully than their competitors—I’d argue that they can also be a sign of a society attempting to metabolize troubling social and political realities through reiterative storytelling. For example, Truman and EDtv grappled with the contemporary social anxieties of surveillance and privacy erosion by taking the concept of reality TV to satirical extremes. 

Filmmaker Boots Riley’s new film, I Love Boosters, also works within the medium of satirical extremity. The absurdist comedy, about Bay Area shoplifters waging financial and conceptual war against an unethical fashion mogul, overflows with surreal visual gags and fantastical plot devices, unbound by the conventions of any genre. But despite its wacky aesthetic indulgences, Boosters is satire with a purpose—a film conscientiously grounded in, and unabashedly opinionated about, social realities like poverty, poor working conditions, and wealth inequality. 

Booster’s twin (dare I say “evil twin?”) arrived in theaters a month earlier in the form of The Devil Wears Prada 2. Their twin credentials are clear: both movies are comedies set in the fashion world, featuring young women clashing with older, wealthier, more powerful women in the industry. But the two films diverge in their ability to honestly reckon with the ethical implications of the stories they are telling. Boosters commits to a rigorous critique of the fashion industry (and economic inequality at-large) by incorporating its critiques into the very fabric of its storytelling. A political problem like sweatshop labor is skewered not with a throwaway quip, but by making it the focal point of the film’s second half, when a Chinese factory worker literally teleports into a Bay Area luxury outlet to steal back the clothes she made in abusive conditions. 

Tellingly, sweatshop labor is also (briefly) name checked in The Devil Wears Prada 2, but only as a plot device to facilitate the reshuffling of jobs within the glamorous skyscraper offices of the film’s main characters. Prada, for all of its commendable surface-level messaging, is fundamentally a story about the fashion industry elite, told entirely from their perspective. When it comes to the political and economic conditions the rest of us are facing, Boosters—the surreal sci-fi featuring teleportation devices—is actually more in touch with reality.

Cyclists Pedal to Guerneville to raise money for AIDS

Dig that red dress, Hawaiian shirt or tuxedo—whatever your preference—out of your closet and join cyclists from San Francisco at a festival in Guerneville, Saturday, May 30, dedicated to raising awareness about HIV/AIDS.  

Called the Red Dress Fest, the event, part street fair and part memorial for people who have died of the disease, is the culmination of a three-day cycling event called Cycle to Zero, a fundraiser for the AIDS Foundation of San Francisco. 

Between May 29 and May 31 hundreds of participants will bicycle from San Francisco to Guerneville, and then back again, having raised over $1.6 million in sponsorships and community donations as of May 22.  The money supports the no-cost services of the San Francisco AIDS Foundation, which was founded in 1982 at the height of the HIV/AIDS epidemic.

For the Saturday evening event, Cycle to Zero will block off First Street in Guerneville from 5 to 9 p.m. It will feature music, entertainment, food vendors and a candlelight vigil starting at 8:30 p.m.

According to Face to Face Sonoma County Development Director Gary Saperstein, the local organization will be providing volunteers for the event. 

“We are proud to work with San Francisco AIDS foundation. The work they do (in San Francisco) is the same as the work we do (in Sonoma County).” 

That work includes HIV/AIDS prevention and testing, helping people with HIV/AIDS secure housing, medical care and other services, and “harm reduction,” such as needle exchange. According to Saperstein there are approximately 1,500 people living with HIV/AIDS in Sonoma County.

Sunday morning the cyclists will break camp and head for Martin Luther King Park in Sausalito, stopping at West Marin Elementary School in Point Reyes for a lunch break.

The Ramble, Magic & Mystery and Q is for Love

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Healdsburg
The Ramble

What began as a passion project from Kelly Dorrance and Noah Dorrance has evolved into one of Sonoma County’s more appealing combinations of Wine Country conviviality and indie-rock credibility. Returning for its fourth year, The Ramble transforms the Abel de Luna Community Center Fields into a daylong gathering of music, food and local wine, headlined this year by Spoon and Lucius. The lineup also includes soul innovator Devon Gilfillian and psychedelic cumbia outfit Tropa Magica, alongside culinary programming and pours from some of Sonoma County’s more adventurous wineries. Beneath the festival atmosphere sits a serious mission: All proceeds benefit GIFFORDS, with the event raising more than $250,000 for gun violence prevention efforts since 2023. Saturday, June 6, at Abel de Luna Community Center Fields, 1557 Healdsburg Ave., Healdsburg. Tickets required. More information at bloodrootramble.com.

Larkspur
Magic & Mystery

Cinema and sleight-of-hand converge at the Lark Theater when Bay Area magician and mentalist Christian Cagigal returns with another evening of live illusion paired with film. Following a successful earlier appearance built around Nightmare Alley, Cagigal opens the night with a 30-minute performance of interactive mysteries before the screening of The Illusionist, the Oscar-nominated French animated feature about a fading magician navigating the cultural upheavals of the rock ’n’ roll era. The pairing feels fitting: melancholy stagecraft, old-world wonder and the strange dignity of performers trying to keep enchantment alive in changing times. A classy little evening for anyone susceptible to disappearing acts and bittersweet European animation. 7pm, Saturday, June 6, at Lark Theater, 549 Magnolia Ave., Larkspur. Tickets required. More information at larktheater.net.

Point Reyes Station
Q Is for Love

Portraiture becomes both tribute and quiet resistance in artist Kelley Berg’s twin exhibitions at Gallery Route One. Q Is for Love presents etched portraits of queer artists and writers including James Baldwin, Cy Twombly, Agnes Martin and David Wojnarowicz in recognition of Bay Area Pride, while the companion exhibition All the Time in the World turns toward Berg’s own circle of friends and family in paintings exploring love, grief and endurance. Together, the shows form an intimate meditation on memory, identity and the faces that shape a life. Berg also joins fellow artists Sharon Paster and Rachel Davis for a June 6 panel discussion on figurative art and process. The exhibit runs May 30–July 5 at Gallery Route One, 11101 CA-1, Point Reyes Station. Gallery hours 11am–5pm Thursday–Monday. Free admission. More information at galleryrouteone.org.

Petaluma
Time & Tide

Wetlands tend to get overlooked until they disappear, which is part of what makes Time & Tide: An Artful Exploration of Petaluma’s Wetlands feel so timely. As part of National Historic Preservation Month, the Petaluma Historical Library & Museum hosts an evening exploring the evolving relationship between the community and the Petaluma River watershed. From Past to Future: Stewarding Our Wetlands Together brings together conservation leaders, artists and environmental advocates for a discussion on restoration, climate resilience and the role storytelling and art can play in shaping a sense of stewardship. Featured speakers include representatives from Point Blue Conservation Science and Sonoma Land Trust alongside artist and volunteer Anne Chadwick. Civic ecology with a cultural pulse. 6pm, Thursday, May 28, at Petaluma Historical Library & Museum, 20 4th St. Free admission. More information at petalumamuseum.com.

Your Letters, May 27

Endangered Species

Exactly how many tasting rooms, boutique inns, artisanal dog bakeries and “elevated” farm-to-table experiences can one region absorb before the locals become an inconvenient afterthought?

The tri-county area has become a kind of open-air luxury queue. Everywhere you go—Sonoma, Napa, Marin—there are lines. Lines for coffee. Lines for brunch. Lines for wine. Lines for the privilege of standing in another line. Meanwhile, the people who actually live here circle downtown blocks like doomed vultures looking for parking spaces that vaporize like this AI bubble soon will.

Downtowns that once possessed a scruffy local charm now feel like airport terminals for the affluent. Entire neighborhoods seem calibrated for weekend visitors, not the people who built and carried these small towns before they were discovered by Insta-influencers. Some towns aren’t even recognizable to themselves any longer—it’s like the city planning version of Botox and buccal fat removal. 

At some point, Wine Country stopped being a community and became a lifestyle concept. The irony is that tourists supposedly come here for authenticity while helping pave over the very thing they’re seeking. Perhaps the next civic improvement project should involve building a museum dedicated to the extinct species once known as “locals.”

Cassady Caution
Moving to Boise

WWJD?

Do you think Jesus would have validated Chump while knowing EVERYTHING about Epstein?

Gary Sciford
Santa Rosa

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Free Will Astrology, May 27 – June 2

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): In the weeks ahead, simply being right won’t necessarily lead to success. Having strength, intelligence, wealth or connections might help, though not as much as usual. But a different approach will work well as you strive to overcome challenges: a blend of cleverness and integrity. I invite you to be cunning while remaining honorable. Practice subtle strategy in service of higher aims. And here’s one more secret to ensure victory: Let go of any need to receive full recognition for your efforts.  

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): “Dear Horoscope Guy: Two astrologers have assured me that as a Taurus, I’m a natural-born money magnet. So why am I broke? I keep begging the Divine for cash miracles, and I buy lottery tickets twice a week. Still nothing. Please tell me when I’ll finally hit the jackpot. Better yet, give me the winning numbers. –Taurus Desperate for Dollars.” Dear Desperate: The “luck” you crave will arrive as you diligently pour yourself into building your sweetest dreams, spurning shortcuts and enjoying yourself as much as possible. The Divine prefers to fund eager co-creators, not wishful thinkers. I predict that a slow-motion jackpot will ultimately arrive through your devoted attention to doing what excites you.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Among the Dogon of Mali, Sigui so is a secret language. It’s used in a sacred ritual when people gather to retell their beginnings and patch up strains in tribal harmony. I’m borrowing “Sigui so” here as a symbol for a way of talking that I hope you will specialize in during the coming weeks: language that eases tensions, soothes friction and fosters unity. Start like this: Unleash your trademark wit but spike it with sly blessings and tactful probes. Wield your fluency to burn away confusion and uncover unspoken feelings. If you’re in an extra-bold mood, give everyone tacit permission to be their idiosyncratic selves instead of their polished personas.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): What’s the holiest, most healing trouble you could rustle up right now? I mean trouble that freshens what’s stale but doesn’t scorch the earth. Maybe it’s a buoyant disruption, like telling wild truths you usually tend to soften. Or maybe it’s asking for what your future self pines for instead of what your past self regards as polite and reasonable. As a Cancerian soul myself, I dare both you and me to give ourselves permission to rumble. Let’s be brazen as we instigate creative upheavals in service to our cheerful vigor. Let’s instigate at least one concrete action that will rattle the stagnant pattern just enough to make life more interesting.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Sea otters are a keystone species. Their presence is essential to the health of their entire ecosystem. As they eat sea urchins, the kelp forests flourish. Without otters, the urchins overgraze, and kelp forests may collapse, which in turn affects hundreds of other species. One creature’s appetite helps regulate an entire undersea neighborhood. I suspect you’re serving a similar function, Leo. You’re having more impact and wielding more influence than you realize. No pressure. But please act accordingly: with maximum integrity and robust responsibility.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): A Dutch woman who died left her grand-nephew an inheritance of 220,000 euros. The only problem is that he’s homeless and constantly on the move, so the executors haven’t been able to find him. This echoes a recurring pattern in your life. Even now, sources of blessings are searching for ways to reach you, but you are slow to notice their approach or to magnetize yourself to their arrival. My prayer: May you figure out what needs to be done to make yourself fully available for these gifts—and then ingrain that capacity in your habit mind.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Visualize your fears. Consider how few of them rest on a genuine likelihood that the scary events could ever take place. Then ask yourself how much of your uneasiness springs from vivid fantasies or from a practiced tendency to fret. You might also ruminate on how you absorb the background worry that’s amplified by mass culture. After reflecting on all that, I invite you to take one concrete action to lower the level of tension you have come to treat as normal. Take another action to weaken the grip of your deepest dread. The current planetary patterns suggest you now have the bold, creative power necessary to shrink your baseline anxiety.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Even more than usual, you have a sacred duty to celebrate your poignant sweetness and dark intelligence. For the sake of your emotional health, you should pay wild reverence to your deepest, most mysterious yearnings. To be the person we all you need you to be, you must tenderly nurture the parts of your inner world that resemble the aurora borealis. I want to support you in these sublime sacraments, which is why I suggest you memorize the following prayer by Rainer Maria Rilke: “Be attentive to what is arising within you, and place that above everything you perceive around you. What is happening in your innermost self is worthy of your entire love.”

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Linguists use the term “false friends.” These are words in different languages that seem similar but don’t have the same meaning. For example, the Spanish word embarazada resembles “embarrassed” to English speakers but actually means “pregnant.” I suspect you’re dealing with another type of false friend, Sagittarius: people or situations that turned out to be at variance with what you initially imagined. But rather than feeling unsettled by these revelations, I suggest you treat them as a prod to see with fresh eyes. Your disorientation could be the beginning of more interesting understandings.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): An ISBN (International Standard Book Number) is a code assigned to a book for commercial and cataloging purposes. It contains key information and includes a built-in error-detection notation. If you transpose two numbers when entering an ISBN, the last digit will tell you something’s wrong. In this spirit, Capricorn, I heartily recommend that you build more mistake detection into your life. Invest in extra safeguards. Add verification steps. Build in double-checks. The goal is to create systems robust enough to survive oversights and gaffes. I very much want you to give yourself the gift of safety nets that will empower you to take smart risks and intriguing gambles.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): You may not yet grasp how richly creative you are right now, nor how much more abundant your generative powers could become. So it’s auspicious that you are reading this horoscope now. Consider this your advance notice: Your capacity to originate ideas, projects and connections is surging, and it’s crucial to choose with care which possibilities you nurture and which you decline. If you are selective and intentional about what you sow, then about six months from now, you will be far more likely to gather lush, beautiful harvests instead of wrestling with overgrown, unruly tangles.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Ethnobotanist Wade Davis documented how different cultures perceive entirely different realities despite inhabiting the same physical world. It means that two people can stand in the same forest and see different forests through their cultural lens and personal mythology. This is simultaneously the problem and the opportunity you face, Pisces. You and others in your orbit are inhabiting divergent realities that superficially seem the same. If you hope to reconcile the differences, you must first acknowledge them as real. You’re dealing with fundamentally different ways of constructing meaning, not just small misunderstandings. 

Homework: If you knew you would live to 100, what would you do differently in the next five years? https://tinyurl.com/aaa22aaa

Best Job Ever: How to be a Good Grandparent

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It is a pleasure to say that having three grandchildren in one’s mid 70s is glorious in all ways. 

I see two of my granddaughters daily during the week, and my grandson with some frequency. All live within a radius of mileage that is acceptable to a man who despises automobiles, driving, spending any money at all on auto repair and maintenance, and who believes the automobile is one of modern society’s great diseases.

I dispatch my duties as a grandparent with proper sobriety, though it is possible my priorities in this role could be perceived as counterintuitive. Not every interaction with the kids is met with approval by my son and daughter-in-law, but they do know that my intentions are sound, even when my methods may appear to be at odds with convention and good taste.

As a grandfather of granddaughters, I feel it is my duty to instill in them a certain distance, a wall of protection, if you will, regarding the male species of humans. This does not make me a feminist per se—it makes me a realist. When I tell my granddaughters outright that men are dogs, I speak from personal experience. I know men, and I know what they do.

In addition, as a former public school teacher and coach, I believe part of my role includes language skills and development and some sound instruction in the uses of vernacular. This entails specific training in the use of what some might call foul language. I don’t see it as foul language; I see it as language, a tool for everyday use.

I learned to curse from my mother, the alcoholic, Beatnik, jazz and poetry loving deep whole earth organism. For a man of my own bent comportment who believes in neither angels nor heaven, she was an angel from heaven. It was an enormous pleasure to get her Tareyton and Korbel soaked cough-laugh in high gear, a sign I was easing the tremendous suffering she endured in serving as my father’s tortured partner.

The grandgirls also know my family history, which is no Pollyanna picnic in the park. They know who drank, who was a jerk, who shot which parent in the ass with a BB gun and so forth. There are not many secrets. This is in stark contrast to my own upbringing, in which I was almost 10 years old before I knew who sent those Christmas gifts from the City with the scraggly writing and my misspelled name. This was not a family of high function and even temperament; let me be clear.

And so, I am simply doing my job to the best of my ability as adjunct professor of life, to ensure these kids are going to be able to take care of themselves when I am gone. 

Craig Corsini is a writer and grandfather in Marin.

For the Joy of Wine: Joy Finn of Mascarin Family Wines

Joy Finn is the kind of wine professional who remembers why people fall in love with wine in the first place. 

With more than 15 years of experience across some of the state’s most storied brands (including Kosta Browne, La Crema, Magito Family Wines and Vintage Wine Estates), she has built her career on the belief that great hospitality and honest storytelling are what create deeper connections and experiences.

As director of customer experiences at Mascarin Family Wines, Finn leads marketing, sales, hospitality and wine club operations, bringing heart and intention to a brand she genuinely loves. She doesn’t think of these as separate departments so much as different ways of asking the same question: How do we make people feel welcome, seen and excited to come back?

Through her consultancy, Purple Poppy Consulting & Creative Services, Finn brings that same energy to wine brands finding their footing, helping them tell their stories more honestly, build direct-to-consumer programs that actually connect and create experiences that linger long after the glass is empty. It’s meaningful work rooted in a simple conviction: that when a brand shows up authentically, people notice, and they remember.

A Sonoma State graduate deeply rooted in Sonoma County, Finn has love for this region and a nuanced understanding of its evolving wine landscape. She brings that regional expertise, alongside a clear perspective on consumer behavior and brand strategy, to every project, panel and pour, with curiosity, warmth and a genuine belief that the best wine brands are the ones that lead with community first.

Amber Turpin: How did you get into this work?

Joy Finn: I worked my way up from the tasting room (at Mascarin Family Wines). I fell in love with wine and hospitality, and after working in the industry in Northern California and in New Zealand, I decided to pursue a career in wine marketing, hospitality and operations.

Did you ever have an ‘aha’ moment with a certain beverage? If so, tell us about it.

Yes, Ink Grade Sauvignon Blanc. I realized that it’s not the varietal; it’s the winemaker and the viticulture that makes the wine.

What is your favorite thing to drink at home?

Sancerre.

Where do you like to go out for a drink?

A friend’s home.

If you were stuck on a desert island, what would you want to be drinking (besides fresh water)?

I would drink kombucha or tea. Mascarin Family Wines,1010 Dry Creek Rd., Healdsburg, 707.433.1010, mascarin-wines.com.

Pride Guide of LGBTQ+ Events Across the North Bay

Wine Country and Marin are once again going full rainbow this year, with parades, drag shows, film screenings, art walks and community festivals rolling out from June through September. 

While Sonoma County continues to field the region’s largest Pride celebrations, Marin is steadily expanding its own slate of civic and arts-oriented events. Napa, likewise, offers a veritable plethora of community gatherings and Pride-themed weekends in Wine Country.

What follows is a county-by-county, curated rundown of publicly announced Pride events from May 2026 onward.

Sonoma County

Sonoma County Pride, Santa Rosa

Santa Rosa hosts the North Bay’s marquee Pride weekend from June 5–7, centered around Old Courthouse Square and downtown. This year’s theme is “Pride & True: Advance, Advocate, Act Up.” Events include a Friday transgender rights rally, the annual parade, festival, performances, vendors and afterparties. The main parade steps off at 11am, Saturday, June 6. The festival runs 11am–5pm in downtown Santa Rosa. Free. sonomacountypride.org

Sonoma County Dyke March & Lez-a-Palooza, Santa Rosa

“The dykes will have their day,” promises the organizing committee behind Sonoma County’s first-ever Dyke March, arriving in downtown Santa Rosa Sunday, June 21. The march gathers at 10am at Santa Rosa City Hall before stepping off at 11am toward Old Courthouse Square, where Lez-a-Palooza takes over with music, games, face painting, hula hooping, community booths and what organizers describe as a “carnival-like” atmosphere. The short route is fully sidewalk-based and wheelchair accessible. Free. 10am–2pm, Sunday, June 21, Old Courthouse Square, 600 Fourth St., Santa Rosa. socodykemarch.org

Sonoma Valley Pride, Sonoma

Sonoma continues growing its increasingly lively three-day Pride celebration June 12–14 under the theme “We Rise With Pride.” Festivities include the “Rise With Pride” concert and drag show at Sebastiani Theatre, community gatherings, live music and a Pride festival in Sonoma Plaza. Organizers include Out In The Vineyard and Wake UP Sonoma. sonomavalleypride.com

Gay Wine Weekend, Sonoma Valley

Fifteen years in, Gay Wine Weekend has evolved from niche getaway to full-fledged Wine Country institution. Returning July 17–19 to Sonoma Valley, the three-day LGBTQ+ celebration combines estate vineyard parties, winemaker dinners, drag brunches, wine excursions, after-parties and the signature Twilight T-Dance. Produced by Out In The Vineyard, the event benefits Face to Face, the longtime Sonoma County nonprofit that grew from the AIDS crisis into a broader community health and support network. outinthevineyard.com

Russian River Pride, Guerneville

Guerneville once again closes out the North Bay Pride season with its beloved river-town celebration Sept. 19–20. The parade and festival take over Main Street in Guerneville beginning at noon Saturday, followed by an intergenerational brunch Sunday. Expect a heavy dose of queer campground energy, dance music and beloved Russian River eccentricity. russianriverpride.org

Marin County

PRIDE Mill Valley

Mill Valley hosts its third annual PRIDE Mill Valley kickoff celebration 2–6pm, Saturday, June 6 at the Downtown Plaza, 87 Throckmorton Ave. The all-ages event includes music, community booths and family-friendly festivities designed to launch Pride Month in southern Marin. Free. cityofmillvalley.gov/2084/PRIDE-Mill-Valley

Downtown San Rafael Pride Art Walk

San Rafael celebrates Pride all month long in June with its third annual Pride Art Walk Puzzle. Participating storefronts throughout downtown feature Pride-themed window displays and hidden-word clues inspired by LGBTQ civil rights icon Harvey Milk. Runs throughout June. Free. downtownsanrafael.org/pride-art-walk

Read With Pride Festival, San Rafael

The Marin County Civic Center Farmers Market hosts the family-friendly Read With Pride Festival 10am–1pm, Sunday, June 22. Presented with the Marin County Free Library and the Agricultural Institute of Marin, the event features Drag Storytime, crafts, face painting, DJ Destro, a scavenger hunt, community booths and a Pride parade through the market. Free. Marin County Civic Center Farmers Market, 3501 Civic Center Dr., San Rafael. srpubliclibrary.org/event/read-with-pride-festival-2025

CAFILM Pride, San Rafael

The California Film Institute returns with the fourth edition of CAFILM Pride, a curated LGBTQ+ cinema series running June 12–14 at the Smith Rafael Film Center, 1118 4th St., San Rafael. The program features international and independent queer films, filmmaker conversations and community gatherings centered around contemporary LGBTQ storytelling. This year’s lineup includes Fire Within, Gugu’s World and The Dads. Tickets range from $11–$16 depending on membership status. rafaelfilm.cafilm.org/pride-2026

Napa County

Napa Valley Pride

Napa Valley Pride returns this June under the theme “Love Out Loud” and featuring a comprehensive list of dozens of Pride-related events throughout the valley. Organized since 2003 by a coalition of volunteers, local businesses and LGBTQ+ nonprofits, the annual series of events celebrates queer community, visibility and belonging throughout Napa Valley. While Pride Month serves as the centerpiece, organizers increasingly program events year-round, extending the festivities beyond June and into the broader cultural life of Wine Country. Events benefit LGBTQ+ organizations and are open to all. napapride.com. Highlights below.

Tea Dance, Napa

Napa Pride officially kicks off with a Tea Dance featuring DJ Rotten Robbie 1–6pm, Sunday, June 7 at the Andaz Mercantile Terrace in downtown Napa. Expect cocktails, dancing and a crowd that understands Pride Month should begin with disco-era enthusiasm and questionable hydration choices. No cover. Andaz Mercantile, 1450 First St., Napa. instagram.com/andaznapa

Pride Pet Parade & Block Pawty, Napa

Downtown Napa goes full Westminster Dog Show during the Pride Pet Parade & Block Pawty 10am–1pm, Saturday, June 13 at Deuces Market Plaza. The festivities include a pet parade through downtown, costume contests, food, drinks and appearances by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Festive attire encouraged for both humans and their bewildered animals. Deuces Market Plaza, 1300 First St., Napa Mall Suite 222, Napa. deucesmarket.com

Dancing Queens Dance & Drag, Napa

Blue Note Napa hosts one of Napa Pride’s signature late-night spectacles with Dancing Queens Dance & Drag 6–10pm, June 15. DJ Rotten Robbie spins between performances as drag artists deliver lip-sync theatrics, dance numbers and enough sequins to briefly alter local weather conditions. The 16+ event benefits LGBTQ Connection Napa. bit.ly/dancing-queens

Chef’s Choice, Double Duty on Brunch Crunch

The celebrity chef I worked for was leaving. “See you tomorrow,” he said.

At that point, he had four restaurants, one cookbook and so many television appearances that I had lost count.

His workdays usually consisted of walking in the front door of the restaurant, down the bar in between the bar area tables, through the kitchen and out the back door. His office was across the parking lot, and in it, a team of five people were busy coordinating his appearances.

“Is [insert celebrity chef’s name here] working today?” customers would frequently ask.

“He just left,” we were instructed to say. Which was far more often wildly inaccurate rather than being merely incorrect.

What made our executive/celebrity chef’s comment odd was that the next day was Mother’s Day, and in the four years that I had worked for him, he never once worked Mother’s Day.

“You’re working tomorrow?” I said, my voice containing more surprise than probably prudent when addressing my boss.

“Yep,” he said. “I will be in around noon.”

There is nothing like knowing your boss will be there, in the figurative trenches, right next to you when facing the busiest day of the year.

Mother’s Day is always on Sunday. When Anna Jarvis originally advocated for a day to honor mothers, she meant a pious religious holiday to honor one’s own mother and not mothers in general. She even went to great lengths to make sure Mother’s Day is singular, not Mothers’ Day, plural. Whatever her original plan, it hasn’t really turned out that way, exactly.

On the next day in question, we all labored under the pretense that our fearless leader would be in shortly. We had opened at 11am after arriving at 10am. My co-worker, who only worked Sundays, wasn’t exactly pleased about one of those days being a holiday. Something he voiced almost immediately upon arriving.

“What is that you’re making?” asked a young woman in her May Mother’s Day pastel finery.

My co-worker stopped what he was doing (making a pitcher of blended Ramos Fizzes), set down the blender cup, put both hands on the bar and looked the young woman directly in her beaming face.

“They’re called pains in the ass,” he said.

Not exactly incorrect, but wildly inappropriate, nonetheless.

And while Ramos Fizzes, replete with raw egg, cream, gin and the obscure orange flower water, do include ingredients that are either messy, contaminant friendly or obscure, ours were especially problematic, being blended on top of all that. And if one has never held a sticky electric blender with 4-6 Ramos Fizzes in it, they don’t really know what they’re missing.

At any rate, my co-worker didn’t last another hour. It was decided that sending a young woman back to her family in tears wasn’t really in the best interest of the restaurant, much less the family, or even Mother’s Day in general. But that meant that I had to work the rest of a two-person holiday shift by myself. The only consolation was that my boss would be there too. Soon.

He dutifully arrived on time, at noon, with his family of eight, for their noontime brunch reservation.

Leaving me with these thoughts:

• That was the last Mother’s Day, and the last brunch, for two of their bartenders.

• Michael Mina will no longer be at Bungalow Kitchen in Tiburon as of June 1. I never personally saw him there, but his name was definitely on the menu.

• The celebrity chef I worked for also eventually moved on. Ironically, his name remains on that company’s menus to this day.

• “We can’t all be stars because someone has to sit on the curb and clap as I go by,” once quipped Marilyn Monroe.

• Anna Jarvis never married nor did she have children of her own. She passed away in a sanitorium, alone and destitute, in 1948. Legend holds that a portion of her final medical bills were paid for by florists.

Jeff Burkhart hosts ‘The Barfly Podcast.’ More at jeffburkhart.net.

First ‘Dyke March’ launches


As Pam Adinoff says, “We are not doing a parade.”

Adinoff, along with her partner, Nancy Kelly, is organizing Sonoma County’s first ever Dyke March for June 21 in Santa Rosa. “We’re doing a march. It’s a little more political. It’s about visibility,” she noted.

Not that they have anything against parades. In fact, they will be participating in the Santa Rosa Pride Parade June 6. And the Sonoma County Pride committee is a major donor to the Dyke March.

The two women, and their 15-member organizing committee, just believe it is crucial to shine a spotlight on their sapphic sisters at this moment, whether those sisters identify as lesbian, bisexual, non-binary, transgender or whatever.

And, yes, it’s all those “new” words people use to identify themselves that Kelly and Adinoff said is what separates younger queers from older queers, and that’s the gap they hope to bridge with the Dyke March.

“How do we create intergenerational community when nobody agrees on the words we use?” Adinoff questioned. And then she answered her own question. “It is by drawing on our history to lift up other lesbians, and then counting on the younger generation to spread the word. It’s not about being perfect. It’s just about being respectful,” she said.

But this is not just a philosophical notion. In the early months of organizing the march, Kelly and Adinoff met with groups of younger LGBTQ people and learned that what would draw them to something called a “dyke march” was inclusivity. Some of these young people are now part of the all-volunteer dyke march committee.

Inclusivity and visibility in a threatening time is the central theme of the march.  The invitational postcard says, in both English and Spanish, “We organize in a moment of immense and escalating backlash—against trans lives, queer rights, reproductive freedom, marriage equality, racial justice, our immigrant communities and democracy itself.”

While this desire to include might be a phenomenon of the current time, dyke marches are not new. The first one, organized by the Lesbian Avengers in 1993, was, according to a 2025 story in The Advocate, a “response to how male-dominated LGBTQ+ spaces had become. It started as a raucous show of solidarity, joy and anger, and in the decades since, it has continued to be a way for Dyke-identifying folks to build community and fight back against an unjust system.”

This first ever Sonoma County Dyke March continues that sense of having fun while fighting back—it just incorporates a much bigger umbrella.

Frances Fuchs, a longtime Sonoma County LGBTQ activist, said this is what drew her to join the committee as its number one tech and graphics volunteer.

“In particular, I found it welcoming to be out as a bisexual woman, in a way that allows for that larger community,” she said in a telephone interview.

Adinoff, who lives in Petaluma, and Durham, North Carolina resident Kelly, have been bridging their own geographical gap for the past five years, conducting a bicoastal relationship since they met at the Provincetown Women’s Weekend in 2021.

“It was like at first sight,” Adinoff joked. “I laughed so much when I was around her. She still makes me laugh.”

While they are both experienced organizers—Kelly as an events planner and Adinoff as a sales rep and lesbian activist—this is their first big undertaking together.

Gathering begins at 10am, the march at 11am, and the Lez-a-Palooza will run until 2pm. They said they are expecting about 500 to 700 participants, who will march from the parking lot at Santa Rosa City Hall to the Lez-a-Palooza event in Court House Square. 

The two women emphasize that the march will be short and wheelchair and walker accessible, since it will be entirely on the sidewalk. And the “carnival-like” fair in the Square will be completely interactive, with games, face painting, hula hooping and more, all offered at booths run by LGBTQ-friendly businesses and organizations. There is no admission charge.

For more information, visit socodykemarch.org.

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