Your Letters, May 13

Succession Sucker Punch

I’m quite sure voters across America and Pope Leo are excited that our president has already circumvented the democratic nomination process by suggesting that his natural successors might be the brilliant Mr. Vance or the talented Mr. Rubio or both.

There’s little doubt these men would carry on the examples already set, which include a devotion to democratic principles, the rule of law, free, fair and open elections, keen, enlightened diplomacy, environmental preservation, deep respect for scientific research, and a culture based on racial and gender equality and economic opportunities for all, wherein wealth and power are in balance with the overall needs of the citizenry.

I’d like my ballot sent early, thanks, because I just can’t wait.

Craig J. Corsini
San Rafael

Rent Bent

Rent in the North Bay has become less “cost of living” and more “luxury escape room.” Teachers, artists, service workers and even middle-class professionals are being priced out of the communities they sustain. At some point, a region composed entirely of landlords and tech refugees stops being a community and becomes a lifestyle brand. Think about it.

Cassady Caution
Petaluma

Free Will Astrology, May 13-19

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ARIES (March 21-April 19): When naturalist John Muir wanted to experience a storm, he climbed to the top of a 100-foot Douglas fir and rode it for hours through gale-force winds. He later reflected that the danger, in his judgment, was “hardly greater” than staying under a roof, and that the exhilaration and sensory richness justified his experiment. I’m not counseling you to be exactly like Muir in the coming weeks, Aries. Please don’t take foolish risks. However, I would love you to explore what truths are available when you put yourself in the path of intensity.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Soil biologists say a teaspoon of productive soil may contain billions of living organisms. These bacteria, fungi, protozoa and nematodes work in cooperative networks, generating a hidden abundance that ensures everything above ground thrives. Your immediate future has this quality, Taurus. Beneath the visible surface of your life, beneficial processes are generating fertility and possibility. You don’t need to see the miracle to trust it’s happening. Your role is simply to have faith as you maintain the conditions that allow this mysterious abundance to do its work.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): I suspect you would benefit from engaging with a friendly devil’s advocate or two in the coming weeks. Your clarity and understanding will deepen in just the right ways if you converse with affectionate skeptics who like and respect you but also want to help you grow. I realize that such people may be hard to find. If you can’t locate any, you could hire one. Or do the next best thing: Argue with yourself. Entertain lines of thought that are contrary to your usual ideas. Don’t let your habitual self get away with its usual rationalizations. The benefits of this exercise will be unpredictably huge.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): In the Northern Hemisphere, the North Star holds a fixed place in the sky. Also known as Polaris, or the Pole Star, it hangs in almost the same spot throughout the night while other stars rise and set. Because of this steadfast presence, it has long served as a trusted marker for navigation, especially for sailors at sea. Over time, it naturally came to represent an inner compass or a guiding ideal. In your own experience, Cancerian, what serves as your symbolic North Star? What’s the steady, orienting force that helps you decide where and how to move next? Now is an auspicious moment to tend to and revitalize your bond with this central source of direction.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): In the mid-1950s, researchers developed reliable methods for creating synthetic diamonds in the laboratory. Since then, advances in technology have made it possible to grow large, high-quality diamonds from small seed crystals in a relatively short time. I invite you to make this one of your operative metaphors, Leo. In the coming weeks, the forces of destiny will align with your efforts if you experiment with nurturing and expanding the parts of your life that are most like a diamond. Facilitate the development of your valuable beauty.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Scientist Stuart Kauffman theorizes that living systems are healthiest when they operate near the “edge of chaos.” There’s a critical zone between rigid order and unstructured randomness where complexity and adaptability can flourish. Too much organization creates brittle stiffness, while excessive chaos prevents coherence. Life thrives when it has some of both. I invite you to ruminate on these themes in the coming weeks, Virgo. According to my edgy analysis of the astrological omens, you’re being invited to cultivate and foster your own personal “edge of chaos” territory. Your interesting task is to create sweet spots where structure and spontaneity synergize. Locate these happy places and abide there for a while.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Choose two small and specific ways you’re going to stop pretending. One example might be how you respond when someone asks how you’re doing. Another may be an opinion you’ve been softening to keep the peace. Or maybe there’s a desire you’ve been downplaying because it feels impractical or too revealing. Here’s the name of this experiment: Incremental Precision Liberation. The key is to do it casually, with no melodrama or self-consciousness. If it’s successful, you could try another round in two weeks.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Scorpio primatologist Frans de Waal devoted years to watching chimpanzees reconcile with each other after enduring discord. He was fascinated by how they rebuilt trust through elaborate rituals of appeasement, grooming and kind gestures. Once the chimps stopped fighting, he marveled, they actively repaired their connection, which often emerged stronger than it was before the dispute. I hope you will borrow their primate wisdom in the coming weeks, Scorpio. Do your best to navigate through conflict or alienation, and then instigate generous acts of rebonding. Don’t sulk, be evasive or go silent. Be creative as you work to replenish what was damaged. The renewed relationship could be closer for having weathered the difficulties.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): The wandering albatross harnesses the wind, enabling it to travel vast distances with minimal effort. There’s an initial effort that leads to big energy savings. The bird climbs into strong winds and then relaxes as it gets transported, surfing the air currents. I mention this, Sagittarius, because I suspect you’ve been trying too hard and working too much—unnecessarily so. Less strenuous exertion, more gliding, please! Ask yourself what flows are already streaming in your favor. Could you catch a ride on existing momentum? Here’s my advice: Figure out where life’s tides are already moving, then position yourself to get carried along.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Ethnomusicologists studying throat singing know that Tuvan singers can produce two or more tones simultaneously. The human voice, it turns out, has the ability to harmonize with itself. Most of us never discover this because we never try. What other multidimensional capacities are you not using because you’ve never investigated them or tested their limits, Capricorn? The coming weeks are ideal for experimentation. What unexpected capacities might you get access to if you explored possibilities you’ve assumed were beyond you? You may be able to develop aptitudes and acquire gifts you haven’t discovered yet.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Cartographer Gerardus Mercator created his famous world map in 1569, enabling sailors to plot straight-line courses across oceans. But his technique dramatically distorts the size of landmasses. Greenland appears larger than Africa, when in reality Africa is 14 times bigger. And the truth is that every map privileges certain truths while distorting others. This is a key teaching for you right now, Aquarius. Examine the mental maps you’re using to navigate your life. Might they be hiding or warping reality in any way? Consider whether you would benefit from redrawing your inner visualizations of the wide, wild world out there.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Perfectionism has increased dramatically in recent decades. Young people are especially affected. But here’s the twist: The compulsion for perfection rarely improves performance. It’s more likely to undermine achievement by triggering paralysis and excessive self-criticism. Now is a favorable time for you Pisceans to rebel against the trend. I encourage you to cultivate a relaxed devotion to being “good enough” as you enjoy yourself thoroughly. Do you know the difference between cheerfully seeking excellence and grimly striving for perfection? Move away from what demands your obsessive rigor and focus on what requires soulful completion. 

Homework: Imagine you’ve time-traveled to a favorite place in the year 2035. What do you see? (Read my newsletter: https://is.gd/PlsE70)

Welcome to Novaluma: The Case for Merging Petaluma and Novato

There comes a point in every North Bay commuter’s life when they’re stuck on Hwy 101 in the dreaded “Narrows” between Petaluma and Novato and begin wondering whether these two towns are, spiritually speaking, already the same city.

Which raises the obvious question: Wait, why aren’t they the same city?

We’ve seen this before when two seemingly disparate notions combine to catalyze something greater than the sum of their parts. Let’s call it the Reese’s Effect—and like peanut butter and chocolate, the southernmost city of Sonoma County and the northernmost city of Marin County could result in a bold, new municipal experiment called Novaluma.

Imagine—Population: roughly 113,000. Size: about 42 square miles. Vibe: “farm-to-table city-state.” And frankly, the timing makes sense.

Petaluma and Novato already function like two halves of the same North Bay corridor organism. Both sit astride Hwy 101. Both are linked by SMART train service. Both are under pressure to build housing whether they want to or not. Together, the two cities are on the hook for roughly 4,000 new housing units during the current state planning cycle, which is the sort of bureaucratic destiny that causes neighboring towns to either collaborate or start drinking before noon.

Meanwhile, Novato has spent years lamenting that it receives only seven cents of every local property tax dollar back to the city—a statistic so bleak it sounds like a failed GoFundMe campaign. Petaluma, by contrast, operates a much larger municipal apparatus, including its own water and wastewater systems, giving it the energy of the older sibling who owns the pickup truck and gets asked to help everybody move.

So, naturally, the answer is a merger.

Under the Novaluma plan, Petaluma offers civic infrastructure, riverfront charm, the gateway to Wine Country and artisanal gravitas. Novato offers tracts of pristine, rural land; a quaint downtown corridor; a cheese factory; and Marin School of the Arts with its lauded public high school arts program, among other cultural bona fides.

Novaluma would not merely be a city. It would become its own county as well, severing itself from both Sonoma and Marin in a dramatic act of civic self-care.

Why continue paying emotional rent to county governments that barely understand your identity? Sonoma thinks Petaluma is Marin-curious. Marin’s opinion of Novato is evident in the coded coinage “Southern Marin,” to describe everything in Marin that isn’t Novato.

A new Novaluma County would streamline regional planning while finally giving the area its own political voice. One sheriff. One planning department. One glorious bureaucracy capable of issuing permits. But of course, California law makes this absurdly difficult.

Creating a new county requires petitions, elections and a governor-appointed review commission tasked with dividing debt, redrawing districts and figuring out where the county seat goes. Pro tip: Olompali is the natural answer, having been the locus of civic activity dating back to 6000 B.C.E.

Honestly, haven’t we reached the stage of late regionalism where this starts to feel inevitable? The Bay Area already functions like a giant interconnected metroplex pretending to be separate towns. People live in Petaluma, work in San Rafael, shop in Santa Rosa and emotionally identify with San Francisco. County lines increasingly feel like ghost borders maintained primarily for tax reasons and passive-aggressive Nextdoor arguments.

Novaluma merely acknowledges reality.

The branding alone would be worth it. In Latin, Nova + Luma = “New Light.” Our local flag would feature a freshly born star, hovering above our conjoined wetlands, beaming brightly over our craft beer collaborations and our annual Novaluma Secession Festival. Together we shine! Long live Novaluma!

Irish Fest, Bat Boxes, Spring Art and Immigration Forum

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San Rafael
Luck of the Marin

The Marin Irish Festival returns to Lagoon Park with two days of Celtic revelry, lakeside camaraderie and enough fiddles to temporarily convince Northern California it borders the Atlantic.

Inspired by the ancient spring festival of Beltane, the event mixes traditional Irish music, dance and storytelling with modern festival pleasures like pints, shepherd’s pie and artisan shopping. Six entertainment areas host performances ranging from step dancing to live bands, while the returning Céilí on the Lake Championships brings competitive Irish dance back to the fairgrounds with enough flying feet to rattle nearby Guinness glasses.

There are also open music sessions, maypole dancing, Gaelic sports demonstrations and, because Marin remains gloriously unpredictable, falcons.

10am to 6pm, Saturday–Sunday, May 16–17, at Lagoon Park, Marin County Fairgrounds, 110 Armory Dr., San Rafael. $30 adults, $15 children; weekend passes available. More information at marinirishfestival.com.

Petaluma
Bat Boxes & More

Bats, it should be noted, are excellent neighbors. They eat mosquitoes, mind their own business and rarely demand much beyond a properly constructed domicile. 

That’s the thinking behind the latest installment of the Integrative Native Artisans Art Ecology Workshop Series at Slough City Studios, where participants can build reclaimed-wood bat boxes while learning beginner-friendly woodworking skills in the process. For the less nocturnally inclined, the afternoon also includes a flower press station, offering attendees the chance to create botanical keepsakes from reclaimed materials. 

Equal parts craft workshop, ecology lesson and communal tinkering session, the event continues Slough City’s quietly charming mission of making practical art feel approachable. No prior skills required—just a willingness to saw, assemble and perhaps reconsider bats as part of the garden ecosystem.

1-3pm, Saturday, May 16, at Slough City Studios, 409 Petaluma Blvd. South, Petaluma. Free admission; $40 flower press, $60 bat box. More information at sloughcity.com.

Santa Rosa
Meeting the Moment

As immigration policy continues to ripple through schools, workplaces and family life across Sonoma County, Los Cien Sonoma County convenes a public forum aimed at replacing confusion with information and isolation with solidarity. 

“Immigration Update 2026: Meeting the Moment with Truth, Resilience and Courage” brings together legal experts, advocates and frontline community leaders for a discussion examining how national immigration policies are affecting local residents in real time. 

The program features keynote remarks from immigration law scholar Bill Ong Hing alongside panelists working directly with immigrant families throughout the region. Spanish-language interpretation will be available, with organizers emphasizing community connection, practical resources and collective response over rhetoric alone.

10:30am to 1pm, Friday, May 15, at The Backdrop at Becoming Independent, 1455 Corporate Center Pkwy., Santa Rosa. Tickets required. More information at mynorthbaytickets.com.

San Geronimo
Spring Awakening

West Marin’s creative ecosystem is on full display at the 36th Annual Spring Art Show. Featuring more than 100 artists from the San Geronimo and Nicasio valleys, the exhibition spans painting, photography, sculpture, textiles, ceramics and mixed media, offering a snapshot of the region’s deeply rooted artistic culture.

The work ranges from emerging voices to longtime local fixtures, with recurring themes of landscape, ecology and connection to place running through the galleries like coastal fog. Opening festivities include a public reception with live music by the Old Time Music Makers, adding a little string-band warmth to the proceedings.

The exhibition continues through May 17 at Maurice Del Mue Galleries, San Geronimo Valley Community Center, 6350 Sir Francis Drake Blvd., San Geronimo. Gallery hours noon to 5pm weekdays, noon to 6pm weekends. Free admission. More information at sgvcc.org.

Season of Sun: Our Curated ‘Hot Summer Guide’

Summer in the North Bay means festivals, musicals, late-night concerts, county fairs, barbecues galore, fundraisers and Wine Country block parties.

Here’s a county-by-county guide to the season’s standout happenings, distilled into a fast-moving field guide perfect for long weekends and spontaneous road trips.

Marin County

Mountain Play: ‘The Wizard of Oz’

The Mountain Play stages The Wizard of Oz at Mount Tamalpais’ Cushing Memorial Amphitheatre on select dates in June, including a singalong show. Picnic blankets, hiking shoes and costumes encouraged. mountainplay.org

Western Weekend, Point Reyes Station

Point Reyes Station’s annual Western Weekend returns June 6–7 with a parade, barn dance, live music, horse events and old-school, small-town revelry centered around Toby’s Feed Barn and downtown Point Reyes. westernweekend.org

Marin County Fair

The Marin County Fair runs July 1–5 at the Marin Center Fairgrounds with fireworks, carnival rides, concerts, livestock exhibits and this year’s “Stars, Stripes & Stories” theme celebrating America’s 250th anniversary. marinfair.org

Mill Valley Memorial Day Parade

Mill Valley’s Memorial Day celebration includes a veterans ceremony, parade, live music and community festivities. The 2026 parade theme is “Our Democracy.” mviloveaparade.com

Muir Beach Volunteer Firefighters BBQ

The 52nd annual Muir Beach Volunteer Firefighters BBQ lands May 24 at Santos Meadow with barbecue chicken, vegetarian tamales, live music, beer, wine and raffle prizes benefiting the local volunteer fire department. muirbeachfire.com

Novato Festival of Art, Wine & Music

Downtown Novato hosts two days of live music, local art, wine tasting and food vendors June 13–14 at the Novato Festival of Art, Wine & Music. novatochamber.com

Larkspur Battle of the Bands

Piper Park hosts the 2nd Annual Larkspur Battle of the Bands on June 7 with competing local bands, food vendors, drinks and a family friendly atmosphere. thelarkspurchamber.org

Rancho Nicasio Summer BBQ Series

Rancho Nicasio’s beloved Summer BBQ series returns with outdoor concerts and lawn seating. One standout show features Los Lobos performing under the oaks on May 23 (see next week’s profile). ranchonicasio.com

Downtown San Rafael Summer Market

San Rafael’s 2nd Friday Summer Market combines live music, food vendors, local art and downtown strolling on select Fridays throughout the summer alongside the city’s Art Walk events. downtownsanrafael.org

Friday Nights on Main, Tiburon

Tiburon’s Friday Nights on Main transforms Main Street into a waterfront block party with music, dining and outdoor socializing on summer evenings. tiburonchamber.org

Marin Theatre Company: ‘Pictures from Home’

Marin Theatre Company presents the West Coast premiere of Pictures from Home, adapted from Larry Sultan’s memoir and running May 7–31 in Mill Valley. marintheatre.org

Napa County

Napa Music Hall

Napa Music Hall anchors downtown nightlife with BottleRock AfterDark concerts and touring acts. Representative summer shows include Bush, LCD Soundsystem and Chevy Metal during BottleRock weekend. napamusichall.com

Blue Note Napa Summer Sessions

Blue Note Napa’s outdoor Summer Sessions series at the Meritage Resort brings major artists to Wine Country, including Chris Tucker, Mavis Staples, Dave Koz and Brit Floyd. bluenotejazz.com/napa

Uptown Theatre Napa

The Uptown Theatre continues its run as Napa’s premier live music venue with summer performances from artists like Brett Dennen and Pablo Cruise inside the restored Art Deco theater downtown. uptowntheatrenapa.com

Flynn Creek Circus

Flynn Creek Circus returns to the North Bay with its intimate circus-theater production blending acrobatics, storytelling and live music beneath a traveling big top tent. flynncreekcircus.com

Sonoma County

Film Festival of Love

True West Film Center’s Film Festival of Love runs June 24–28 in Healdsburg, showcasing films, filmmaker conversations and live performances centered around romance and human connection. truewestfilmcenter.org

Petaluma Music Festival

The Petaluma Music Festival takes over the Sonoma-Marin Fairgrounds July 25 with multiple stages, craft beer, food vendors and all-day live music benefiting local school music programs. petalumamusicfestival.org

Cotati Accordion Festival

The Cotati Accordion Festival returns Aug. 15–16 to La Plaza Park with polka, zydeco, tango, folk music and enough squeezebox enthusiasm to power an entire county fair. cotatifest.com

Gravenstein Apple Fair

Ragle Ranch Park hosts the Gravenstein Apple Fair Aug. 8–9 with cider, pie contests, live music, crafts and Sonoma County Farm Trails celebrating the region’s agricultural heritage. gravensteinapplefair.com

Sonoma County Fair

The Sonoma County Fair runs Aug. 7–16 in Santa Rosa with carnival rides, horse racing, concerts, livestock competitions, fair food and classic summer midway energy. sonomacountyfair.com

Sonoma County Pride

Santa Rosa’s Sonoma County Pride celebration returns June 5–6 with a parade, performances, community booths and live entertainment centered around Courthouse Square. sonomacountypride.org

Healdsburg Jazz Festival

The Healdsburg Jazz Festival fills plazas, wineries and performance venues June 12–21 with internationally known jazz musicians and intimate Wine Country performances. healdsburgjazz.org

Healdsburg Wine & Food Experience

The Healdsburg Wine & Food Experience returns May 14–17 with celebrity chefs, grand tastings, vineyard dinners and curated Wine Country culinary events. healdsburgwineandfood.com

Peacetown Summer Concert Series

Sebastopol’s free Peacetown concert series returns to Ives Park with weekly Wednesday performances throughout the summer. Poor Man’s Whiskey helps launch the season June 3. peacetown.org

Sonoma Matsuri Festival

Santa Rosa’s Sonoma Matsuri Festival celebrates Japanese culture May 17 with taiko drumming, dance, martial arts, crafts and food at Juilliard Park. sonomamatsuri.com

Sonoma Wild Music Festival

Sonoma Wild combines roots music, environmental activism and family friendly festivities with performances by Elephant Revival, Sam Grisman Project and more. tapestryproductions.org/sonomawild

Petaluma Fair

The Petaluma Fair returns June 18–21 with carnival rides, livestock exhibits, music, food and this year’s “Past, Present and Future Luma” theme. petalumafairgrounds.com/petalumafair

Sonoma County Juneteenth

Sonoma County Juneteenth returns June 13 at Martin Luther King Jr. Park in Santa Rosa with music, food, performances and cultural programming celebrating African American history and community. sonomacountyjuneteenth.com

The Lost Church

Santa Rosa’s newly reopened Lost Church resumes its intimate concert calendar with artists like The Musers performing in the venue’s living-room-style performance space. thelostchurch.org

Inn at Occidental Sunset Concert Series

The Inn at Occidental hosts lawn concerts throughout summer, including a July performance by Eagles tribute band Illeagles benefiting Music to My Ears. innatoccidental.com

Green Music Center

The Green Music Center hosts major touring acts all summer, including a July 17 triple bill featuring Spin Doctors, Blues Traveler and Gin Blossoms in Rohnert Park. gmc.sonoma.edu

Audacity Rising

Audacity Rising continues its mission-driven concert programming, using live music events to support immigrant communities and legal aid efforts throughout the North Bay. audacityrising.org

Graton Resort & Casino Expansion

Graton Resort & Casino unveils major new additions this summer, including expanded gaming, dining, rooftop amenities and entertainment offerings in Rohnert Park. gratonresortcasino.com. Whether it’s jazz in Healdsburg, fireworks in Marin, accordion solos in Cotati or carnival lights in Petaluma, the North Bay’s summer calendar remains one of California’s great regional pleasures—equal parts county fair, cultural happening and community reunion.

Hammer Time: Destroy Your Phone Habit—or Your Phone

In the ’90s I frequented a long-gone cafe where an elder busser would advise, apropos of nothing, that the road to intellectual emancipation starts with “putting a bullet in the TV.” 

His name was probably Mike—they all were. Bearded like a medieval scholar, he quoted liberally from William Burroughs’ Naked Lunch, and by “elder,” I mean he was probably 30-something. Suffice it to say, his breed of working-class sage doesn’t exist anymore. Nor does a world where assassinating the boob tube is the first step to an emancipated intellectual life. 

After the geeks inherited the earth in the early aughts, the cultural agenda—once stratified between the art haus and the frat house—was chucked in favor of comic book deities and our superheroic, social-mediated selves. Soon, our filtered faces were minted upon the coin of the realm via the smartphone.

Artists and thinkers are now crowded to the cultural fringe while a permanent open mic night of endless online auditions preens from the glowing rectangles in our palms.

Meanwhile, “second screen” doomscrolling whilst chilling with Netflix has forced filmmakers to reiterate plot points three to four times in dialogue and keep distracted viewers engaged with the pseudocelebrities on the other side of the cultural divide.

This has me thinking that the thrice-repeated “Oh wow’s” comprising Steve Jobs’ last words were probably a sanitized paraphrase of what he uttered when the gates to Hell opened before him for inventing the iPhone.

Anyway, this is why I taught myself to read again. Last week was National Children’s Book Week, so it was well timed. I still had the mechanics but not the patience. At one point, I even spread my fingers across the print page to enlarge the text.

After taking too many shots from Busser Mike and his ilk, the TV evolved, miniaturized like a toy dog breed so it can live in one’s purse. We didn’t domesticate it—it domesticated us, through flattery and distraction, colonizing every idle moment of our lives. Now, it auctions off our dwindling attention spans.

Which begs the question: What would Mike do?

Probably smash my phone with a hammer. But the road to intellectual emancipation doesn’t require that—yet. The first step is simpler. Open a book.

Daedalus Howell is editor of this paper, the writer-director of the feature film ‘Werewolf Serenade,’ author of the novel ‘Quantum Deadline’ and host of ‘The Drive’ on 95.5 FM. More at dhowell.com.

Cooking Up Chaos Serves Shenanigans in Short Order

The sign was well-placed by the roadway. I drove right by it and then turned around. Who says print is dying?

It read “Open 11am to 4pm,” and it was 11:15am. When the universe gives a person a sign—literally—it is best to heed that sign.

I opened the front screen door and walked in.

“We open in 15 minutes,” said the young man in front of the counter.

I thought about questioning that, but upon drawing on my years of restaurant work I just closed the door and waited the extra 15 minutes. If people don’t want to wait on customers, it is best to not try and make them.

Two other cars pulled in, and then half an hour after the posted opening hour, we all entered en masse. It doesn’t matter if it’s a hipster bar, a coffee shop or an upscale restaurant, there is always bound to be someone waiting for them to open. And it’s always better to have people waiting than to have no one interested at all.

Inside stood the cook behind the counter, a few tables and one—then two—servers, when the second one arrived late. There are universalities in the restaurant business, and one of them is that someone is always late. Always.

They say creativity exists on the edge of chaos, and that is mostly true. It does. And what else exists on the edge of chaos? More chaos.

And that was the lunch rush at this little greasy spoon.

The orders piled up, and the arguments commenced. Clearly the fry cook was also the owner, or at least the manager. Whatever he was, he was the voice of authority.

“Don’t write that down on the ticket,” he positively yelled at the young man from behind the counter. “Just tell me!”

Clarity of communication is the height of leadership.

“Don’t tell me that,” he yelled at the late-arriving server but a minute later. “You have to write that down on the ticket.”

All of which sort of explained the sign out front.

Sitting at that chaotic little counter was a lesson in the restaurant experience. Per the TV shows “Bar Rescue” or “Restaurant: Impossible,” they weren’t wrong. The problems in the restaurant business are all pretty similar. It is a chaotic, high-stress environment. Not inherently, but rather because that is the way some people want it to be.

Could they have moved the garnishes where they were easier to reach?

Could they have put the soda machine next to the ice bin?

Could they have just done counter service with numbers?

Sure, sure and sure. They could have done a million things.

But they didn’t. Nor were they going to.

I have worked in places like that before. Nobody trys to make anything better. And in fact, they often cling to things that make things worse. Because chaos is not the result, it is the goal. And when chaos is the goal, people can’t fix anything because they will be too busy just trying to stay afloat.

Sitting at that counter was anything but relaxing. But the odd thing was, that specialized sandwich was delicious. So delicious that I will probably go back, in spite of the drama.

Leaving me with these thoughts:

• “Learn the rules like a pro, so you can break them like an artist,” Pablo Picasso once said.

• There is no finger-pointing on a sinking ship.

• Codependency is often what makes the hospitality industry go around. Just ask Robert Irvine or Jon Taffer. It was most likely the codependency that made them rich.

Ticket Bundle for Cotati Accordion Festival

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The Cotati Accordion Festival is a multi-generational, multi-cultural, musical extravaganza held annually in La Plaza Park. There are 50+ vendors selling their miscellaneous goods as well as food vendors and a beer and wine tent. The Cotati Accordion Festival is a non-profit organization established in 1991 to promote the love of the accordion and to support local youth service organizations.

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Healdsburg Wine & Food Experience Celebrates 5th Year

How long must a food and wine event persist before we stop calling it a hopeful upstart and start calling it an institution? The answer, my friend, is sipping in the wind.

And so it goes for the Healdsburg Wine & Food Experience, which has comfortably crossed that threshold and settled into its role as one of the town’s most anticipated annual happenings. Experience, if one prefers—and they very much do.

Founder and CEO Steve Dveris sees it in the simplest terms: “Feels like the city of Healdsburg is starting to embrace the event.”

For Dveris, the original ambition was always local pride first, prestige second.

“Our dream was to create something that the residents of Healdsburg would be proud of and have fun attending,” he says. That buy-in now appears to be real, and it’s been matched by a widening footprint across Sonoma County. “Our event has grown to the point that we touch so many local businesses … from local Sonoma County chefs, to Pure Luxury Transportation company, Green Mary’s, Tectonic Audio, hotels both in Healdsburg and surrounding areas, lots of Sonoma County wineries—too many businesses to mention here, but the event has wide tentacles.”

Tentacles is right. For one long weekend, the Experience becomes less an event than an ecosystem—one that pulls together agriculture, hospitality, logistics and a fair amount of cultural capital into something larger than the sum of its parts. Its central trick is pairing the local with the global.

“Our format has always been to pair local chefs with nationally known and or internationally known chefs from around the world,” Dveris explains. “Bringing them together to showcase the local wine as well as international wine elevates them both.”

The visiting chefs, unsurprisingly, take to it. “The outside chefs seem to love collaborating with the locals, and it is a chef’s dream to have access to all the local agriculture,” Dveris says. “We are trying to source as much produce as possible from the Healdsburg Farmers Market, which brings everything together in an—pardon the pun—organic way.”

Moreover, Dveris says the event is more about culinary diversity than it is culinary innovation. “We try to have multiple cuisines and cultures represented throughout the event, as well as the diversity of the chefs we bring in and or hire locally to showcase,” he notes.

Sustainability is also part of the program. “Highlighting sustainability is always the goal. Whether it’s using compostable products for our grand tasting, or showcasing new EV from automotive companies, we try to put sustainability forward whenever possible,” Dveris says.

All of this unfolds in Healdsburg, which already punches well above its weight. The town has quietly become one of the country’s defining food and wine destinations, and the Experience both reflects and amplifies that status. The town, in turn, keeps evolving. New venues like Appellation—Charlie Palmer’s culinary-driven luxury hotel—are entering the mix, hosting VIP guests and anchoring marquee programming like the “150 Years of Beringer” seminar, moderated by Ray Isle of Food & Wine.

There’s something for everyone, from serious wine drinkers chasing perfect pairings at Dry Creek Kitchen to destination diners booking exclusive experiences like Sushi by Scratch. There’s even a new concert series featuring Nashville’s Hannah Ellis opening and teenage guitar virtuoso Grace Bowers headlining.

“Hopefully, she will play her hit song, ‘Wine on Venus,’ where she sings about after she dies, wanting to be drinking wine on Venus,” Dveris says. “Not a bad way to go.”

The Healdsburg Wine & Food Experience runs May 14–17 at various downtown locations. For more information and tickets, visit healdsburgwineandfood.com.

Delizioso: ‘The Light in the Piazza’

An unconventional musical of deep, unabashed passion, The Light in the Piazza is a feast for the senses. Sonoma Arts Live has a production running at the Sonoma Community Center through May 10.

On a vacation in Florence, Italy, Margaret Johnson (Daniela Innocenti Beem, sensational and vulnerable) and her wild but innocent daughter, Clara (Emma Sutherland, making her complex character truthful instead of clichéd), meet the ridiculously hunky Fabrizio (Malcolm March, fully committed and captivating), sweeping everyone around them away into a lush, romantic fairy tale. 

This is a show that leans into romance in a way that isn’t nauseating or sophomoric, and the music reflects that too. The songs come from someplace organic and are a natural continuation of the dialogue rather than just outbursts. It’s a refreshing technique, and it totally works, giving the characters true depth, especially Clara and Margaret.

Directed with a delicious sense of taste by Sandra Ish, this is a show with a tremendous cast and production team. 

The ensemble is top notch and throws themselves into the story with energy and skill. Drew Bolander (a performer who has basically weaponized charisma) plays Fabrizio’s slick brother, Guiseppe, who emotionally tortures his femme fatale wife, Franca, played with sexy sophistication by Evvy Carlstrom-March. Tim Setzer and Brandy Noveh play Fabrizio’s parents and both create believable Italian characters that thankfully don’t lean into stereotypes.

Everyone looks stunning in lavish, stylish costumes by Allison Sutherland. The set design by Laurynn Malilay and Ish is overflowing with sumptuous details and textures: a babbling stone fountain, craggy rock walls with roses flowing from them, deep velvet chairs and twinkling lights. 

A live, onstage three-piece orchestra led by Sherrill Peterson seamlessly blends into the story. The lighting design by April George gives the production a warm, sultry glow, broken at times by a wistful blue haze. 

It must be noted that this is also an incredibly intimate story, both physically and emotionally. The actors display an immense amount of trust in one another and create a very palpable chemistry as an ensemble. Kudos to Sandra Ish for cultivating what appears to be a very safe space for the cast.

We all know airfare is expensive right now, but with Piazza, one can be transported to Italy for the cost of a theater ticket, if they’re so inclined.

Sonoma Arts Live presents ‘The Light in the Piazza’ through May 10 on the Rotary Stage at Andrews Hall in the Sonoma Community Center, 276 E. Napa St., Sonoma. Thurs–Sat, 7:30pm; Sun, 2pm. $25 -$42. 707-484-4874. sonomaartslive.org.

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