Sonoma County bans new retail gas stations

Sonoma County is taking another step towards a gas-free future.

On March 14, the county’s board of supervisors approved a ban on new retail gas stations in the unincorporated county as California endeavors to end the sale of gas-powered cars in 2035. Sonoma County’s ordinance will go into effect on April 13.

“Preventing new gas stations in the unincorporated county is just one of the tools we need to employ to reach our climate goals. Gas stations can be toxic sites, with run-off pollution and soil contamination, and we need to shift away from fossil fuels if we’re going to make a dent in climate change,” board chair Chris Coursey said in a statement following the vote.

According to a county staff report, there were over 158 fuel stations in Sonoma County in 2016, 46 of which are in the unincorporated county.

Sonoma County has set a goal of reaching carbon neutrality by 2030. Doing so will require major changes in transportation. In 2018, about 60% of the county’s greenhouse gas emissions came from transportation. By 2021, there were over 10,000 registered electric vehicles in the county.

The legislation has been pushed by a local group named Coalition Opposing New Gas Stations (CONGAS). In a statement, Jenny Blaker, the group’s co-coordinator, highlighted the equity considerations at play.

“In addition to the climate crisis and local impacts, CONGAS sees this as an environmental justice issue. In every drop of gasoline we pump there is a wake of destruction—from the drilling to the pumping to the transportation by rail, trucks, and pipelines to processing facilities and refineries—almost always disproportionately impacting indigenous, low income, and communities of color,” Blaker said.

Woody Hastings, the group’s other co-coordinator, said that the outright bans on new gas stations will save planning staff from spending time considering applications for new gas stations.

“Taking this action frees up staff time to work on other climate-smart measures in the county, such as efforts to improve walking and biking amenities, expand clean-emission public transit, and develop electric vehicle charging infrastructure,” Hastings said.

Sonoma County is the first county in the country to ban new gas stations, continuing local cities’ leadership on the issue. In 2021, Petaluma became the first jurisdiction in the country to ban the construction of new gas stations. Cotati, Rohnert Park, Santa Rosa, Sebastopol and Windsor followed soon after.

Sonoma County’s ban exempts the construction of private fuel stations used for agricultural and fleet use.

“This is one small step in the right direction to meaningfully address the climate challenge, and with over 150 gas stations operating in Sonoma County, one that I don’t see as controversial,” Coursey stated.

Queer-Go-Round

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An intimate moment for Sonoma County queer songwriters 

The Lost Church continues its mission of serving as the community stage in Santa Rosa with the Songwriters in the Round gig on March 24. Three queer singer-songwriters gather together at the same time, intimately connecting them with each other and the audience.

I connected with musicians Anne Carol Mitchell, Maya McNeil and RAD to understand what the music scene is like for them, and more generally for queer songwriters in a challenging time. 

What are the challenges facing queer performing artists?

RAD: Getting booked at venues, having a safe place to invite our community to, being seen in the music scene.

Anne Carol Mitchell (Brightdarkdawn): Sonoma County has a vibrant and gorgeous multi-generational queer community. However, I don’t see many of the local spots popular for music and performance uplifting the queer community. There are some great local places like the Brew open mic, The Lost Church and Petaluma Pride. I’d love it if venue owners would consider if what they are presenting is inclusive for not only queer artists but also BIPOC performers. 

Why is the event being done in the round? 

Mitchell: [Playing in the round] messes with the idea of who’s the performer and who’s the audience. It’s less about performing and more about sharing songs in a moment with others. The three of us put a lot of thought into how our songs would fit together, gravitating towards themes like identity, seasons, mystery, songs of seas. We also learned one song from each other to sing on.

Maya McNeil: In preparing for this show, I’ve been warmly reminded of pub sessions in Scotland, where the line between audience and performer is blurred because it’s a form of community gathering, with all ages and skills singing and playing [together]. 

How did you get started in organizing this event?

Mitchell: I met Maya and RAD through friends recently. It’s been incredible working with them. We’ve made a creative community together in preparing for this show. They are both radical and incredibly talented songwriters. 

Can you share a story about being queer in the music world?

RAD: I love playing queer community events. There are kids dancing and bopping around, and then one time when I was done playing they got on stage and started making up original songs and dances.

Mitchell: I wrote and performed music with poet Judy Grahn, whose work was integral to the queer liberation movements of the ’60s and ’70s. In 2008, Judy and I went on tour, and it was inspiring to see younger generations of queers discover the radical poetry of an elder in the queer liberation movement. 

McNeil: I’m not sure I would be in the music world if it weren’t for the queer creative community I first found my footing in a brilliant, kind and deeply inclusive artist community in Sacramento. The vulnerability of performing and being [truly] seen was held by all with care. 

Brightdarkdawn is a project of songwriter/composer Anne Carol Mitchell, a queer woman living in Sebastopol, cultivating food and community with her partner. 

Maya McNeil is a recording artist and healing arts practitioner in the San Francisco Bay Area. Their beyond gender binary/multi-genre debut album, ‘Waiting for the Light to Change’ is out this spring.

RAD is a queer, trans, brown farmer and folk punk playing original, ukealicious, multilingual love for the community.

Dr. Rael Bernstein Makes Orthodontics Affordable and Accessible

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As a youngster growing up in South Africa, Rael Bernstein was bashful, withdrawn and didn’t  excel with academics or athletics, but orthodontic treatment helped to change his life. Today he is Dr. Rael Bernstein, a successful orthodontist with a burgeoning practice in Santa  Rosa and Windsor, Bernstein Orthodontics. Known fondly as Dr. B to his patients, whose ages  range from 5 to 85, Dr. B has been a recipient of Best Orthodontist, Sonoma County for over 10-plus years.

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“I am a recipient of orthodontic treatment myself,” Dr. B said. “As a kid, I was a shy, introverted  young man who really didn’t do well at school or sports.” His own orthodontist, Dr. Morris Fine,  taught the young Dr. B the value of applying effort, as in the more effort you put into something, including orthodontic treatment, the more reward you’ll get out of it. The Johannesburg native said he applied this notion to his orthodontic treatment, which turned the process around, and  he was blown away by the accompanying life-changing results. “After my orthodontic treatment,  I had a new-found confidence,” Dr. B said. “This new confidence really helped me. I worked  harder in school, I did better in sports.” Dr. B, a former college rugby player, said studying  orthodontics resonated with him because of his personal orthodontic experience, and  consequently he decided he wanted to do the same for others.

Dr. B started practicing orthodontics about 27 years ago. He and his wife, Debora Rayhan, a prosthodontist, moved to Santa Rosa when she accepted a position at a local practice. He then started his practice from scratch working out of one rented room in a colleague’s dental office. At  the beginning, his wife moonlighted for him as an assistant, at the end of her patient day.  “She was my assistant, it was just the two of us,” he said. We worked very hard and still do–another lesson from my orthodontist. Through their hard work and word of mouth, the practice started to grow, and Dr. B opened an office in Santa Rosa. 

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He opened a satellite office in Windsor in 2007, when he noticed many of his patients were  commuting from farther north locations and were driving hours and getting stuck in traffic. Dr. B is proud of the amazing people he gets to work alongside and feels blessed to have such  a wonderful, knowledgeable and passionate team. “We work efficiently together using unique  systems developed over the years, which allow me to really focus on clinical care.”

Dr. B, who parents two very active teenage daughters with his wife, keeps the focus on patients  and puts patient care at the center of the decision-making process. He also does what he can to  remove barriers associated with orthodontics, which he said can range from cost and insurance  issues to a patient’s comfort level in the dental chair. Dr B’s goal is to improve everyone’s quality of life by improving access to orthodontic care, while creating smiles that last a lifetime, using modern and efficient techniques. 

Since he began his career in 1996, Dr. B has treated thousands of patients and along the way received many 5 Star Google Reviews that speak for his work ethic and longevity in the community: “I am glad I chose Bernstein Orthodontics to get braces,” Jennie said in a Google review of Bernstein Orthodontics. “As an adult, I was embarrassed, but the staff have been nothing but kind and helpful. I am recommending them to my friends and family.”

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“Bernstein Orthodontics is a wonderful place,” said Kimberly in another Google review. “My daughter and I both had braces treatment here. Dr. B was always available to answer any  question we had, and we could always get right in for an appointment if need be. The office is clean and well-decorated for kids and adults (if you’re still a big kid inside).”

Dr. B continues to push himself professionally and lectures to dental organizations, organizes study clubs, has taught at local universities and has improved treatment techniques with a  patented bracket system, called the Bernie Brace. “I like to give back and share what we do with as many as we can,” Dr. B said. 

Blessed to make a living at what loves to do, he also views himself very much as a member of  the communities he serves and gives back generously and meaningfully, a trait inspired by his  grandmother. In the past year, Dr. B sponsored Windsor’s summer evening concert series, the CVNL Sonoma County Human Race in Santa Rosa and Windsor’s High school wrestling Championship Tournament. Bernstein Orthodontics also gave away more than 50 Free Cases of  braces to those patients without financial means or seeking a better quality of life and boosted  confidence. Some residents may recognize his name from helping in the design of the Sonoma County Children’s Museum, where he donated resources to create a kid-friendly dental room where the adorable Kyle the Crocodile lives. 

What’s the best part about practicing orthodontics for Dr. B? “By far it’s the reaction–mainly joy and pride–patients and parents have when they see their smiles without braces for the first time. It’s one of the best feelings in the world, to see the boost in confidence our patients receive, and  it gives me great satisfaction that my team and I can remove the barriers to make this happen for our patients.” 

Bernstein Orthodontics, 2245 Montgomery Drive, Santa Rosa, 707-575-0600,  Bernstein Orthodontics, 8741 Brooks Road, South Windsor, 707-836-8360,  BernsteinBraces.com.

Abide Napa Knows Cannabis, Backwards and Forwards

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When the quartet behind Abide Napa first opened the cannabis dispensary doors in February 2021, the foursome wanted to create a cannabis business that showcased the best local products that would make the company Napa’s No. 1 home-based marijuana dispensary.

From the looks of it, the guys–Amos Flint, Micah Malan, Jerred Kiloh and Ty Heldt, all with longtime community tie-ins–are succeeding: Napa Abide won Best New Dispensary, Napa County in the Best of the North Bay 2023 contest.

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Between his other jobs (as a construction business owner and as an owner of Santa Rosa restaurant Perch + Plow), Amos took some time to talk about how four longtime friends came together to build a warm, welcoming atmosphere with expert customer service to handle cannabis needs with an emphasis on relief and education. It all occurs in an upscale downtown Napa dispensary designed by Rock House Design.

“It’s been good for us so far,” Amos said, counting off six other competing Napa dispensaries. “We’re the local guys, and I think a lot of dispensaries in Napa are other groups from out of the area coming in and trying to capitalize on Napa.

”Amos described his partners–they’re all self-professed cannabis sommeliers–as coming from different paths, though they were united in their decades-long cannabis industry expertise as cultivators, activists and consumers. Together, they are committed to offering high-quality cannabis products at a fair price from a knowledgeable and professional staff of true cannabis connoisseurs–or, rather, cannasseurs.

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How do they do it? The first step, Amos said, is intensive training of employees that explores all aspects of the cannabis plant, from its medical properties and terroir variations to the terpenes in all the strains. Compassion and understanding are also key traits of Abide Napa budtenders, who really know their way around a plant, Amos said.

Although cannabis cultivation has not yet been legalized in Napa County, neighboring Sonoma County has legalized cultivation and is one of the closest communities to source good quality product, Amos noted.

“We’re trying to bring in a lot of local brands,” Amos said. “We have Sonoma County brands featured. The closest thing we have is working with our neighboring county to make sure we’re getting as much local stuff involved for the local community.”

Something else Abide Napa adheres to is offering a wide variety of well-rounded products, or “a little something for everyone,” as Amos put it.

“We have stuff for the absolute connoisseurs that just want the absolute best down to more affordable options, but there’s always quality in mind,” Amos said.

As a result, Napa Abide customers can purchase a variety of flowers, pre-rolls, infused pre-rolls, extracts, dabs, concentrates, edibles, tinctures, balms, capsules, and even beverages, disposable vapes, cartridges, pods, and smoking accessories. Amos and his partners put a premium on quality.  “We aspire to be that local shop that has the best variety and the most knowledgeable staff, and we have a really great location,” Amos said. “We feel like we stepped up for the community and provided a really good space and service.”

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Amos built the dispensary, is the primary investor and provides general oversight while Micah is mainly responsible for buying and marketing. Jerred brings a long history of cannabis business experience, and Ty is a cultivation expert. You’ll see Abide Napa, thanks to Micah’s music industry chops and Amos’ nightlife and nightclub prowess, selling cannabis products at local music festivals like BottleRock Napa Valley and Blue Note Festival Napa Valley.

While Amos, a serial entrepreneur, said he originally envisioned a farm-to-table sort of cannabis growing, packaging and sales operations, adversity on the production and cultivation side presented too much of an uphill battle. Thus, he moved toward the more vertical and integrated approach of a dispensary, which is typically more profitable due to low cannabis prices.

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About 20 percent of Abide Napa’s daily customers, Amos said, are first-time consumers who are in a contingent of older customers, many of whom may not have yet have experienced legal cannabis. Amos said sometimes the customers have lots of questions, and Abide Napa’s well-equipped staff can walk them through the positive effects of cannabis.

What’s with the name, Abide Napa, anyway? The obvious connection is to The Big Lebowski, as in, “The Dude abides,” Amos said. But Amos said he also likes the connotations associated with abide, especially the idea that when one abides, one thrives and prospers and that one’s roots “are really sunk deep into the ground.”

Micah said another reason the partners chose the name Abide was because for over 20 years, they had to follow and respect Napa‘s regulations on cannabis, which was no sales or consumption, thus creating a situation where consumers and businesses operators had to abide with Napa’s regulations.

“We do a good job. We have good products. We have good people, good training,” Amos said, speculating on what cinched Napa Abide’s Best Of win. “Overall, people are left with a very positive experience.”

Napa Abide, 707-266-1967, 1963 Iroquois St., Napa, 9 a.m.-8 p.m. Monday-Sunday, AbideNapa.com.

Culture Crush, March 22

Santa Rosa

Dancing Fools

For nearly a decade, Sonoma County Dance Beat has provided an online calendar listing all the dance music events in the county—gratis. Fans are invited to give back by dancing on over to the service’s fundraising dance party, which is aptly titled “April Foolery,” from 4 to 8pm, Sunday, April 1, at The California, 528 7th St., Santa Rosa. The party features live performances by perennial faves The Pulsators and Foxes in the Henhouse, an award-winning act known for their upbeat roots music and three-part harmonies. There will also be a costume contest, so “jesterize!” suggest the organizers (the new word hasn’t made the Oxford English Dictionaryyet). Tickets are available for $25 in advance or $30 on the day of the show. For information and tickets, visit socodancebeat.com.

Mill Valley

Seeing Double

Repetition is in their genes—in fact, it is their genes—so it’s no wonder that identical twin musicians Adam and David Moss call themselves the The Brother Brothers. But wait, there’s more repetition: They’re on tour for their album, Cover to Cover, an album praised for its “crystalline vocal blend” by the Associated Press. The duo, with over 520K monthly Spotify followers, brings their double act to the Sweetwater Music Hall in a live performance at 8pm, Tuesday, April 11. The venue is located at 19 Corte Madera Ave., Mill Valley, and tickets are $22, which, incidentally, is a pair of two’s for those playing at home. sweetwatermusichall.com.

Occidental

Off the Cuff

As Paul Simon once said, “Improvisation is too good to leave to chance.” Fortunately, he was a wee little musician and not a seasoned comedian like Laura Wachtel, who returns to her native Occidental with ZipLine Improv to perform an evening of…wait for it…improvised comedy. The evening promises a veritable highwire act of comedic hijinks spurred by audience suggestions and begins at 7pm, Saturday, April 8 at the Occidental Center for the Arts, 3850 Doris Murphy Ct. General admission is $27 ($20 for OCA members), and refreshments will be available for purchase at the event. For tickets and more information, visit occidentalcenterforthearts.org.

St. Helena

To B One, ASH One

If you enjoy drinking wine and making up acronyms, work with me here: Appellation St. Helena (a.k.a. “ASH”) is hosting an annual wine and food pairing competition, featuring 20 member wineries paired with savory bites prepared by students and chefs of the Culinary Institute of America Greystone (a.k.a. “CIA”). So, what acronym would you call the event? Um. Yeah, I have no f–king idea either. But they did: “bASH.” Let’s assume the little “b” is from “bites,” which I gleaned from their PR. Hey, it’s worked for 12 years, so why fix it if it ain’t broke? Speaking of broke, tickets are $175 per person (so comp the media, y’all) and are available only in advance at appellationsthelena.com/events. Attendance is limited to 300 guests, all of whom must be 21+. The annual event begins at 6pm, Saturday, April 1 at the historic barrel room of the CIA, 2555 Saint Helena Highway, St. Helena.

— Daedalus Howell, Editor

Author Ed Davis is on Track

In April of 2022, local author Ed Davis, 70, of Glen Ellen, embarked upon a 7,500-mile tour promoting his latest book, The Last Professional. He completed most of the journey on Amtrak, covering about a third of the United States and traveling as far east as Illinois and as far south as Texas. “It was a fantastic experience, and one I’ll never forget,” Davis said.

The irony is that Davis began and wrote much of The Last Professional while riding the rails during the 1970s and early ’80s as an on-again, off-again hobo. Unsurprisingly, the fiction book involves a vagabonding adventure like no other, in which a techie takes to the rails to track down a villain from his past, and along the way meets an old-school hobo who agrees to teach him the dos and don’ts of hopping the rails.

Davis began riding the rails by chance, while hitchhiking from Sebastopol to the East Coast in 1972 at the age of 19. Somewhere near Crescent City he and his friend were picked up by a guy in a van who suggested they might have better luck riding the rails. After giving them some important tips, their driver dropped them off at the freight yard in Eugene, Oregon, where they caught a train within a half hour. It was the beginning of a decade-long love affair.

When he and his wife began having kids in the early ’80s, Davis stopped catching freights. “It is just too dangerous, and always has been,” he said. But his tenure on the rails allowed him to witness and document the waning years of a unique American subculture. “There were very few [hobos] riding when I did, and there are probably fewer now. I was lucky to ride with some of the last of the old-time, professional hobos—Profesh—guys who had devoted their lives to wanderlust. They were true American originals, and they live on now only in memory, and on the page.”

Davis’ writing life is intimately connected to his hobo days. With The Last Professional, he put to paper life on the rails as he experienced it. One of the central characters is a Profesh known as The Duke, “an old hobo who calls America’s landscape his home and adheres to a time-honored code.” The Duke mentors the main character, Lynden Hoover, in the time-honored ways of the vagabond.

“For me writing and riding the rails started at virtually the same time,” Davis said. “When I was taking that first trip I was also in a new relationship with Jan, the woman I’ve been lucky enough to call my wife since 1976. I had just discovered this new way of seeing the world from a moving freight.”

“I was in this great new relationship,” he continued. “Every chance I got I was writing Jan letters—from freight yards, in diners, in hobo jungles—anywhere I could find a dry place with enough light to see by. Bringing these new passions together with words was like alchemy, and created something new in my life—writing—that I immediately wanted more of. I still do.”

Davis’ other books include A Matter of Time, a free downloadable story he wrote in real time about a death row convict writing about his own final 24 hours, as well as In All Things: A Return to the Drooling Ward, stories about his time spent working at Sonoma State Hospital as a teenager in the early ’70s, and Road Stories, tales of his travels during the past 50 years, both of which achieved Amazon Top Ten bestseller status (www.eddavisbooks.com). His short stories have also appeared in numerous literary journals.

“My major influences have been the great American writers of 50 to 75 years ago,” Davis said. “If I had to pick one, it would be John Steinbeck. But Hemingway, Fitzgerald, Wolfe, Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings, Harper Lee, Kerouac, Carson McCullers, Ken Kesey … they all held up a mirror that allowed us to see ourselves with a clarity and an intimacy that still resonates today. That was my goal with The Last Professional, to allow readers to experience their own journey through the story of two quintessentially American characters—a young wanderer who must confront the traumas of his past, and an old hobo who is clinging to his vanishing way of life.”

Much has changed on the rails since Davis rode freight trains in the 70’s and early 80’s. Not only have cabooses and open boxcars all but disappeared, but freight trains now stretch as long as three miles long. And security is much tighter.

“Compared to the first third of the last century, when it is estimated that as many as a million people had taken to the rails, there were very few riding when I did, and there are probably fewer now,” Davis said.

One thing has not changed, though—he still rides the rails every chance he gets. But now he buys a ticket, something the old hobos called “riding the cushions.”

“For me, writing is about connection,” Davis said. “Though the act itself is solitary, it is readers who make it complete. I am so grateful for those who have read and encouraged my work over that last half century, and those who continue to discover it.”

Join Ed Davis for his A Matter of Time book party at Occidental Center for the Arts on Sunday, March 26, from 4–5:30pm. The free reading will be followed by book sales and a signing. Refreshments, wine, beer and non-alcoholic beverages will be offered for sale.

Located in greater downtown Occidental, nonprofit OCA regularly hosts live music, art classes and workshops. Its facilities are accessible to people with disabilities and available to rent for purposes consistent with its charitable function as a center for visual and performing arts. Newsletter signup and events calendars are available on its homepage. Donations are always welcome.

Occidental Center for the Arts, 3850 Doris Murphy Ct., Occidental. 707.874.9392. www.occidentalcenterforthearts.org

Mark Fernquest once hitchhiked to Alaska but has not yet ridden the rails. He currently resides in rural Sebastopol, where he writes for a living.

‘Rocky Horror Picture Show’ Returns

Chamber Music Marin

Mt. Tamalpais United Methodist Church, 410 Sycamore Ave., Mill Valley. chambermusicmarin.org.

The Telegraph Quartet and San Francisco Conservatory of Music graduate students bring, according to the San Francisco Chronicle, their “soulfulness, tonal beauty and intelligent attention to detail” to Marin. 5pm, Sunday, April 2. $40.

Elephant in the Room

177 Healdsburg Ave., Healdsburg. elephantintheroompub.com.

“Jammy, swampy funk”—not your shoes and it’s not the blues—it’s Sebastian St. James and The Highway Poets! 9pm, Saturday, March 18. $10.

The Flamingo Resort

2777 4th St., Santa Rosa. vintagespacesr.com.

IrieFuse is a puntastic San Francisco Bay Area based reggae band. 8pm, Saturday, March 18.

21+. $15.

Green Music Center

1801 East Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. gmc.sonoma.edu.

Francesco Lecce-Chong conducts the Santa Rosa Symphony’s performance of The Blue Danube, Johann Strauss’ iconic waltz we only know because of 2001: A Space Odyssey. Various times, Saturday–Monday, March 25–27, $32-$105.

Hopmonk Tavern Sebastopol

230 Petaluma Ave., Sebastopol. hopmonk.com.

Get your yucks in a row at the Comedy Open Mic. 8pm, Sunday, March 19. Free.

JaM Cellars

1460 First St., Napa. jamcellars.com.

Yacht rock meets Mötley Crüe, resulting in the best band name ever: Yachtley Crew—the titans of yacht rock. 8pm, Saturday, March 18. $25.

The Lost Church

427 Mendocino Ave., Santa Rosa. thelostchurch.org.

Folksters Joselyn & Don and The Musers play an April Fool’s Day prank—just kidding—they’re playing a show. 7:30pm, Saturday, Apri 1. $20.

The Phoenix Theater

201 Washington St., Petaluma. thephoenixtheater.com.

Give yourself over to absolute pleasure when Barely Legal presents The Rocky Horror Picture Show with a live shadow cast. Doors at 11:30pm, Saturday, March 18. $10.

Peri’s Tavern

29 Broadway, Fairfax. peristavern.com.

Get wrecked and/or strange with the Wreckless Strangers when they play this beloved West Marin enclave. 9pm, Friday, April 7. $10-$13.

—Daedalus Howell

Send your gigs to dh*****@*****ys.com.

Be the Change: It’s never just the tip

By Craig J. Corsini

It is no secret to anyone reading this that the restaurant business is where good ideas and good people go to die quickly. It may be the toughest business there is, serving diners day after day.

My late father, the Jesuit accountant, was in the restaurant business—in a way. He was a widely respected restaurant operations and finance professional whose expertise was centered “in the back of the house,” meaning he knew all about where to acquire the food, how much it should cost, how to keep it fresh, how to prepare it, how to find people to work like slaves and when to let them go when things weren’t working out.

Either despite all this or because of it, my dad was the cheapest SOB you ever saw when it came to tipping. So, I have spent my adult life attempting to reverse the effects of my dad’s poor tipping habits. It’s a tough job, but somebody has to do it.

A few years ago, I was visiting with friends at a modest place in Berkeley. Early on, we learned that it was our server’s first day on the job, and she was clearly not having a good time.

Once I established basic rapport with her, I walked over to her station and said, “No matter what you do, you are going to get the fattest blanking tip you have ever received in this dining emporium.” I think she got the joke, and she relaxed.

Everything went beautifully. The bill came to me and it was for $55. I gave her $90 in cash and said, “This is all yours.”

She went back to her station and cried.

Now I know that my habit of overtipping will never reverse the hunger problem, global climate change, toxic political partisanship or racial hatred. But when there is a hint of good service even in the most modest kind of setting, I am going to overdo it as a tipper.

At age 72, I still have some time left on Earth, and there is plenty of catching up to do. One tip at a time.

Craig J. Corsini of San Rafael is a writer, grandfather and ‘a hell of a cook.’

Your Letters, March 22

Too Little Too Late

Mike Pence finally said in March 2023, “History will judge Donald Trump” for his actions around Jan. 6. Way to pass the buck to history, Mike. He could not bring himself to offer even a soft-shoe public judgment about his boss’ behavior until over two years after Jan. 6, 2021. Not until the political winds were starting to blow in a different direction for Republicans.

In America, we have a saying, “If you see something, say something.” That means now, today, not two years later or down the road a generation or two.

In his speech, Pence did not encourage any legal action, like prosecution, party censure or disqualification from officeholding. People of conscience who love their country should see Pence for what he is, a politician, not a leader. He lacks a conscience.

Kimball Shinkoskey

Santa Rosa

Mendo Me: A Spring Coastal Getaway


Elk Cove, which offers some of the most stunning views on the Mendocino coast, as well as luxury suites, cottages and a day spa, is dog-friendly too.

Spring in Mendocino County is one of the best times of year. While the wind can sometimes still be a bit nippy, the menus are changing over from winter vegetables and Dungeness crab to spring fare such as asparagus, beets, cabbage and halibut. Wildflowers are starting to bloom, and there are plenty of gorgeous sunny days to be enjoyed—without the crowds that summer brings.

For those who are looking for a coastal retreat that offers peace, privacy, ocean views, a fantastic on-site restaurant and beach access, the newly updated Elk Cove Inn and Spa is an ideal choice.

The Updated Elk Cove Inn and Spa

Built in 1893, the Elk Cove Inn and Spa is a Craftsman style mansion that was converted into one of the first bed and breakfasts on the Mendocino coast in 1968. The inn sits on a hill overlooking the Pacific Ocean. The property features four oceanfront suites, four cliffside cottages, two carriage-house rooms and six mansion rooms (located in a separate historic building/former mansion), 12 of which are pet-friendly. Pet-friendly rooms include five ocean view suites.

When new owners Victor Passalacqua (the chef) and wife Melissa (a sommelier) took ownership of the Elk Cove Inn and Spa a few years ago, their vision for the property wasn’t to change everything—but instead to update the existing property and to open a farm-to-table restaurant (SIBO) on the property, where they could serve food made with ingredients sourced from their own culinary garden and farm and/or caught or foraged locally.

Since opening, the Passalacquas added a greenhouse (for vegetables and herbs), a culinary garden, honey bees, chickens, goats and rabbits to the property. Eggs from the chickens make their appearance at breakfast, while rabbit, fish, sea creatures and mushrooms (caught or foraged by Victor Passalacqua) are normally featured on the dinner menu.

The property, which has always been dog-friendly, remains so under the new ownership. “We have four dogs of our own, and we know how hard it is to find an elegant escape that allows you to bring your pups,” says Melissa Passalacqua. “We don’t just allow dogs—we welcome them as part of our family.”

The inn may be the most luxurious dog-friendly accommodation option on the coast—featuring a day spa and large suites or apartments with plenty of windows, ocean views, private decks, kitchenettes and bathrooms with both a large, soaking tub and a separate shower. All rooms are just steps from a dirt path and private stairs that lead down to a peaceful, driftwood strewn beach. The inn is also situated just a two minute walk from the Elk Store and Mattson Mercantile.

In the mood for something more immersive than hanging out at the beach or hitting local hiking trails? Elk Cove offers guests the options of several unique, outdoor activities, from tidepooling and fishing expeditions to ocean canoeing (advance reservation required).

Chef Victor and Melisssa Passalacqua have also planned a series of food and wine lover experiences over the course of eight weekends in 2023. In January, they offered a mushroom foraging expedition; in November, they will be introducing participants to tide pooling and fishing, followed by a seafood-centric dinner.

March and October will feature an Anderson Valley Winemaker’s dinner with wine and food pairings. And in April and May, the couple will explore the farm to table concept with guests—including farm visits, cooking demonstrations and dinners.


Spring specials at Elk Cove include Free Tuesdays (for any three-night booking that includes a Tuesday, the Tuesday night is free) and $100 off regular room rates for garden view rooms through March 31. elkcoveinn.com.

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