The Bohemian Best of 2022 Readers Poll

Thereโ€™s a difference between being โ€œNumber Oneโ€ and being โ€œThe Best.โ€ Number One is merely a popularity contest, a numbers game best played by robots. But being The Best โ€” that starts with true human hearts and the promise of superlative performance no algorithm could appreciate. Thatโ€™s what our readers expect and thatโ€™s what our annual Best of the North Bay winners consistently deliver. Once again, we turn to you, our esteemed readers, to help determine all that makes Sonoma and Napa counties so stellar. Itโ€™s time again for our annual Best of the North Bay readers poll. Share your votes for the best of the best across the nearly 50 unique categories within 8 distinct sections: Arts & Culture, Beauty, Health & Wellness, Cannabis, Everyday, Family, Food & Drink, Beer, Wine & Spirits, Home Improvement, Recreation, and Romance. Help us choose the best the North Bay has to offer for our most anticipated issue of the year! Keep your votes to locally born businesses. Vote for live or virtual experiences. First place winners will be chosen.

A few online voting rules:

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โ˜ Ballots are confidential, but you may be called to confirm your vote

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โ˜ Bohemian staff members, contributors, advertisersand their families may vote

โ˜ Deadline for online ballots is December 1, 2021

A Celebration of Heritage: The Sonoma County Jewish Film Festival Returns

The 26th Sonoma County Jewish Film Festival kicked off this Tuesday, Oct. 5, and films are running through Nov. 2. An entirely virtual event this year, the community of Sonoma County can view this meticulously selected body of films at their leisure, in the comfort of their own homes. I spoke with Irรจne Hodes, the festival director and director of cultural events with the Jewish Community Center, about the festival and the Jewish Community Center itself. Prior to our conversation I knew nothing about the JCC, and I was thrilled to be informed about a neighboring cultural community. Irรจne had ample information to share.

The Jewish Film Festival is significant for a bevvy of reasons, but three particularly stand out: The first is that these films are not the Hollywood big-budget Jewish films we might initially think ofโ€”A Serious Man by Joel and Ethan Coen, or Sebastiรกn Lelioโ€™s Disobedience, for example. These are smaller budget, independent films that might not meet production without the efforts of the JCC. These films are honest, evocative and taught with contentโ€”they bring the passion and realness that independent films so often provide. And each one is selected with the utmost care and consideration. The film committeeโ€”who only hire a new member once a yearโ€”spend months watching, reviewing, rating and selecting each film, and considering each one individually and how they fit together as a whole. Each festival seeks to convey the most pertinent story. The committee asks themselves, โ€œWhat does the community need to see?โ€ and then constructs their selection accordingly. The search is for a combination of contemporary and antique; for new Jewish perspectives and experiences along with the fortification and revitalization of old stories that may lie dormant.

It is this intentional curation that leads to the second admirable quality of the JCC Film Festival. In learning about the careful curation of each event, I inquired about how the JCC works with their history in Germany during World War II. I shared with Irรจne my experiences living in Berlin in 2008 and the day I spent at Sachsenhausen, a concentration camp in Oranienburg, Germany. I offered my perspective on the horrors committed there and upon the Jewish people, noting that perhaps the festival didnโ€™t overly emphasize the tragedy and instead chose to also amplify and celebrate the beauty and uniqueness of Jewish culture. Irรจneโ€™s response was striking. 

โ€œThe Holocaust being what it is, we also have to be committed to education around genocide, and the tragedies still going on today,โ€ she said. โ€œThis isnโ€™t a direct or pedagogical style of education, but we want to educate ourselves and the community around us about our heritage and culture. It brings us together, but it also connects us with the wider world. Weโ€™re a minority, but weโ€™re strong. Weโ€™re proud. And weโ€™re so glad to be here.โ€

The JCC and the Jewish Film Festival committee see it as their responsibility to continue educating themselves and the community at large, not only about World War II, but about the nature of genocide and cultural hatred, which continue today. An excellent example of this is found in The Tiger Within, a 2020 film selected by this yearโ€™s festival committee. Written by Gina Wendkos and directed by Rafal Zielinski, this is actor Ed Asnerโ€™s last film before his death in August of this year. The Tiger Within follows the story of an aging Holocaust survivor (Asner) who befriends a homeless girl with Neo-Nazi beliefs (played by Margot Josefsohn). The film addresses contemporary questions of humanity, forgiveness and human understanding. Irรจne and the JCC are acutely aware of the division and cultural hatred sweeping this country, and continue to use the history and circumstances of Jewish culture to raise awareness and promote intercultural connection.

To this end, it isnโ€™t just education about humanitarian crises that the Film Festival diligently addresses; it also selects films which educate the viewer on the rich history and culture of the Jewish people. This yearโ€™s festival features Commandment 613, a 23-minute short film following the work of American Rabbi Kevin Hale, the son of refugees from Nazi Germany. Rabbi Hale has dedicated his life to the final commandment in the Torah, commandment 613: write the scroll for yourself. Hale is a sofer, or scribe possessing an incredibly detailed and specialized skill set, and Commandment 613 specifically follows his work on the restoration of the scrolls saved from Czechoslovakia during the Shoahโ€”the Jewish word for the Holocaust. Thursday Oct. 14, at 6pm, there will be a virtual Q & A with Rabbi Hale himself, as well as the filmmakers Miriam Lewin and Randi Secchini. All Jewish Film Festival passholders and ticket holders are invited to attend. In addition, three of the orphaned Czech scrolls can be found in Sonoma County, at the Shomrei Torah in Santa Rosaโ€”Shomrei Torah means the guardians of the Torah in Hebrewโ€”Bโ€™nai Israel in Petaluma and Ner Shalom in Cotati, should festival attendees want to view these exceptional pieces of history.

The Jewish Film Festival is an opportunity for all of us to learn about history, culture, religion and our neighbors. As a young girl, I grew up with a Jewish friend whose family sometimes invited me over for Shabbat, the Friday night meal. Weโ€™d eat challah breadโ€”which my friendโ€™s mother made from scratchโ€”and drink grape juice, instead of wine. I felt curiosity, a sense of mystery and a great deal of love at these dinners, as I watched a family practice ancient cultural traditions with deep connection, and was myself invited to observe and participate in the warmth and openness. I always felt grateful to be included, and speaking with Irรจne at once reminded me of those cherished memories and startled me into realizing my own ignorance of the JCC and this festival. The festival is only a few years younger than I am, yet this is my first year learning of it.

I will certainly be participating in various film viewings and Q & As, and I hope to see you there. We all benefit from learning about each other, and, however much we may rail against it, together weโ€™re one community. Letโ€™s celebrate it! Happy viewing.
For more information about the Jewish Film Festivalโ€™s films, events and tickets, visit www.jccsoco.org. Another film festival, dedicated to Israeli film, takes place in the spring. It may be in-person, though going forward all festivals will also be available online.

FREE WILL ASTROLOGY

Week of October 6

ARIES (March 21-April 19): Aries poet Anna Kamieล„ska said her soul didnโ€™t emanate light. It was filled with โ€œbright darkness.โ€ I suspect that description may apply to you in the coming weeks. Bright darkness will be one of your primary qualities. And thatโ€™s a good thing! You may not be a beacon of shiny cheer, but you will illuminate the shadows and secrets. You will bring deeper awareness to hidden agendas and sins of omission. You will see, and help others to see, what has been missing in situations that lack transparency. Congratulations in advance!

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): โ€œThere is something truly restorative, finally comforting, in coming to the end of an illusionโ€”a false hope.โ€ So declared author Sue Miller, and now Iโ€™m sharing it with you, Taurusโ€”just in time for the end of at least one of your illusions. (Could be two, even three.) I hope your misconceptions or misaligned fantasies will serve you well as they decay and dissolve. I trust they will be excellent fertilizer, helping you grow inspired visions that guide your future success. My prediction: You will soon know more about what isnโ€™t real, which will boost your ability to evaluate what is real.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Afghan-American novelist Khaled Hosseini writes, โ€œPeople mostly have it backward. They think they live by what they want. But really what guides them is what theyโ€™re afraid ofโ€”what they don’t want.โ€ Is that true for you, Gemini? The coming weeks will be an excellent time to meditate on that question. And if you find youโ€™re motivated to live your life more out of fear than out of love, I urge you to take strenuous action to change that situation! Make sure love is at least 51% and fear no more than 49%. I believe you can do much better than that, though. Aim for 75% love!

CANCER (June 21-July 22): โ€œSometimes dreams are wiser than waking.โ€ Oglala Lakota medicine man Black Elk said that, and now Iโ€™m passing it on to you. Itโ€™s not always the case that dreams are wiser than waking, of course, but I suspect they will be for you in the coming weeks. The adventures you experience while youโ€™re sleeping could provide crucial clues to inform your waking-life decisions. They should help you tune into resources and influences that will guide you during the coming months. And now I will make a bold prediction: that your dreams will change your brain chemistry in ways that enable you to see truths that until now have been invisible or unavailable. (PS: I encourage you to also be alert for intriguing insights and fantasies that well up when youโ€™re tired or lounging around.)

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): โ€œDonโ€™t hope more than youโ€™re willing to work,โ€ advises author Rita Mae Brown. So let me ask you, Leo: How hard are you willing to work to make your dreams come true, create your ideal life and become the person youโ€™d love to be? When you answer that question honestly, youโ€™ll know exactly how much hope you have earned the right to foster. Iโ€™m pleased to inform you that the coming weeks will be a favorable time to upgrade your commitment to the work and therefore deepen your right to hope.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): โ€œTo be truly visionary, we have to root our imagination in our concrete reality while simultaneously imagining possibilities beyond that reality.โ€ This shrewd advice comes from author bell hooks (who doesnโ€™t capitalize her name). I think it should be at the heart of your process in the coming days. Why? Because you now have an extraordinary potential to dream up creative innovations that acknowledge your limitations but also transcend those limitations. You have extra power available to harness your fantasies and instigate practical changes.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): โ€œSome people are crazy drunk on rotgut sobriety,โ€ wrote aphorist Daniel Liebert. I trust youโ€™re not one of them. But if you are, I beg you to change your habits during the next three weeks. According to my reading of the astrological omens, you have a heavenly mandate to seek more than the usual amounts of whimsical ebullience, sweet diversions, uplifting obsessions and holy amusements. Your health and success in the coming months require you to enjoy a period of concentrated joy and fun now. Be imaginative and innovative in your quest for zest.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Scottish Poet Laureate Jackie Kay, born under the sign of Scorpio, writes, โ€œIt used to be that privacy came naturally to everybody and that we understood implicitly what kind of things a person might like to keep private. Now somebody has torn up the rule book on privacy and thereโ€™s a kind of free fall and free for all and few people naturally know how to guard this precious thing, privacy.โ€ The coming weeks will be a good time for you to investigate this subject, Scorpioโ€”to take it more seriously than you have before. In the process, I hope you will identify whatโ€™s truly important for you to keep confidential and protected, and then initiate the necessary adjustments. (PS: Please feel no guilt or embarrassment about your desire to have secrets!)

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): โ€œAll our Western thought is founded on this repulsive pretense that pain is the proper price of any good thing,โ€ wrote feisty author Rebecca West (1892โ€“1983). I am very happy to report that your current torrent of good things will NOT require you to pay the price of pain. On the contrary, I expect that your phase of grace and luck will teach you how to cultivate even more grace and luck; it will inspire you to be generous in ways that bring generosity coming back your way. As articulated by ancient Chinese philosopher Sun Tzu, hereโ€™s the operative principle: โ€œOpportunities multiply as they are seized.โ€

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): โ€œIf you donโ€™t ask, the answer is always no,โ€ declares author Nora Roberts. In that spirit and in accordance with astrological omens, I urge you to be bold and lucid about asking for what you want in the coming weeks. In addition, I encourage you to ask many probing questions so as to ferret out the best ways to get what you want. If you are skilled in carrying out this strategy, you will be a winsome blend of receptivity and aggressiveness, innocent humility and understated confidence. And that will be crucial in your campaign to get exactly what you want.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): โ€œFew persons enjoy real liberty,โ€ wrote poet Alfred de Musset. โ€œWe are all slaves to ideas or habits.โ€ That’s the bad news. The good news is that October is Supercharge Your Freedom Month for you Aquarians. I invite you to use all your ingenuity to deepen, augment and refine your drive for liberation. What could you do to escape the numbness of the routine? How might you diminish the hold of limiting beliefs and inhibiting patterns? What shrunken expectations are impinging on your motivational verve? Life is blessing you with the opportunity to celebrate and cultivate what novelist Tim Tharp calls โ€œthe spectacular now.โ€ Be a cheerful, magnanimous freedom fighter.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): The brilliant Piscean composer Frรฉdรฉric Chopin (1810โ€“1849) wrote, โ€œI wish I could throw off the thoughts that poison my happiness, but I take a kind of pleasure in indulging them.โ€ What?! Thatโ€™s crazy! If he had been brave enough and willful enough to stop taking pleasure in indulging his toxic thoughts, they might have lost their power to demoralize him. With this in mind, Iโ€™m asking you to investigate whether you, like Chopin, ever get a bit of secret excitement from undermining your own joy and success. The coming weeks will be a favorable time to dissolve that bad habit.

Cash Flow

Sonoma County misses state rent-relief spending deadline

On Thursday, Sept. 30, Californiaโ€™s restrictions on evictions for nonpayment of rent due to Covid-19 lapsed. Sonoma Countyโ€™s own pandemic eviction protections will carry on for a while longer, and tenants who have applied for rent-relief money will have some protections.

However, a Sonoma County program to provide relief for renters and landlords financially impacted by the Covid-19 pandemic still struggles to distribute funds, with some applicants complaining about long delays and mixed messages.

The countyโ€™s program began in April and by Sept. 30 had distributedโ€”or allocated for distributionโ€”nearly $14.6 million in federal funds to applicants, according to numbers provided by Dave Kiff, the interim director of Community Development Commission, the county housing agency handling the state and federal rent-relief funds.

Itโ€™s not clear from the numbers Kiff provided how much money has actually reached landlords and tenants. By Sept. 30, a total of 1,020 renters and landlords had received funds, while another 2,252 individuals had filed requests.

While that may sound impressive, Kiff told the Bohemian in an email that the county also lost access to an additional $17.5 million in state rental assistance funds because the CDC missed an Aug. 1 deadline to allocate 65% of the money.

Luckily for those in need, there are still more funds available. The county stands to receive an additional $13.8 million from the state and an additional $17.3 million in federal funds.

As an applicant, the process can be frustrating. Last week, Fred Allebach, a Sonoma Valley resident, wrote an opinion piece for the Sonoma Index-Tribune outlining his attempts to get some of the rent relief funds.

Allebach, a persistent New York native, says he applied for money in July and has routinely followed up with county and nonprofit officials managing the rent-relief funds. So far, his efforts have not paid off, and he has heard differing advice from different institutions.

โ€œFrom the standpoint of an applicant, a low income applicant without the language skills and persistence that I have, it would seem like theyโ€™re leaving a lot of people out who could be getting aid,โ€ Allebach told the Bohemian.

For more information about Sonoma Countyโ€™s rent relief program, visit SoCoEmergency.org/ERAP. For legal advice about tenantsโ€™ rights, contact Legal Aid of Sonoma Countyโ€™s Housing Hotline at 707.843.4432.

Cutting Ties

Handline parts ways with Lowell Sheldon

Sebastopolโ€™s Handline shared on social media Friday, Oct. 1, that Lowell Sheldon will no longer be a partner in the restaurant.

The news came  less than a week after original reporting by the Bohemian and the San Francisco Chronicle revealed that Sheldon is accused by more than a dozen people of sexual harassment, assault and creating a toxic work environment. 

โ€œToday, after more than a year of negotiations, we are relieved to share that Lowell Sheldon has finally agreed to separate from Handline,โ€ Handlineโ€™s Oct. 1 Instagram post reads. โ€œWe are not, and have never been, indifferent to these issues.โ€

Days earlier, on Tuesday, Sept. 28, the restaurant made a separate post acknowledging the allegations and said they were, โ€œtaking steps to better prevent and address such issues in the future.โ€ That post was met with dozens of comments by the restaurantsโ€™ fans expressing disappointment that Sheldon remained an owner.

Handline, which specializes in โ€œCoastal Californiaโ€ cuisine, was opened in 2016 by Sheldon and Natalie Goble, who was also Sheldonโ€™s romantic partner at the time. Sheldon was a venerated restaurateur whose first restaurant, Lowellโ€™s, was loved for its farm-to-table fare and community ethos.

While Lowellโ€™s was 10 years old before Sheldon opened Handline, his next two Sebastopol partnership ventures followed in quicker succession: Fern Bar, in 2018, and Khom Loi, in 2021. The latter is housed in the former location of Lowellโ€™s, which closed in late 2019.

This year, after former employees of Sheldonโ€™s restaurants spoke publicly about quitting because of him, all three restaurants moved to end their partnerships with Sheldon. At Fern Bar, employee complaints about Sheldon prompted a 2019 HR investigation. While remedial actions were taken, Sheldon was not removed as a partner until April 2021.

On Thursday, Sept. 30, Alexandra Lopezโ€”one of Sheldonโ€™s accusersโ€”wrote on her personal social media, โ€œIn the time between the HR investigation in 2019 and the articles coming out this month, Lowell has sexually assaulted AT LEAST one person. I cannot help but think that this could have been prevented if the businesses had made public statements from the beginning.โ€

Lopez called for the restaurants to share โ€œwhat policy and structural changes have been made to prevent harassment and toxic behavior.โ€ 

Sheldon has plans to open a bed and breakfast at the Freestone Hotel, a historic landmark in West Sonoma County.

In response to a request for comment, Sheldon wrote the following statement to the Bohemian: โ€œI wish my partners at Handline continued success as we move quickly to conclude our business relationship. Natalie has always run Handline with the utmost care and integrity. I trust that the community can feel that and will continue to support her and all the employees that find meaningful work there. As I step away, please know that I hear and feel the pain that my past behavior has caused. Thank you to all those who spoke their truth. And thank you to my community for holding me accountable.โ€

Read about how Sheldon created a toxic work environment at Bohemian.com/rotten-core.

Open Mic: โ€˜Unsettlingโ€™ Response

Falsifying historical facts and shamelessly fabricating lies seems to be the strategy Michael Zebulon is using in his article โ€œUnsettlingโ€ in Open Mic (9/29/21). Sadly, itโ€™s not a new strategy. Gross misrepresentation and distortion of historical facts have been used often in history, including by Hitler and the previous U.S. administration, with tragic consequences.

โ€œUnsettlingโ€ indeed for me personally as a Palestinian who was born in Jerusalem a few months before Palestine, YES PALESTINE, was divided by the United Nations in 1947 and over half of it was given to the Jewish people. At 74 years of age, I am older than the state of Israel, a fact about Israel that may surprise many.

That the Jewish people had a history of persecution and suffering is undeniable, but is not my focus here in responding to Mr. Zebulon, who callously brushes me and my family off the pages of history, just like Europeans and others tried to brush the Jewish people off for centuries, and happily did not succeed. Will the lesson be missed again?

My family can trace its history in Palestine as far back as the 1550s. My ancestors founded Ramallah, West Bank. Our centuries-old history in Palestine was interrupted by the creation of the state of Israel in 1948 when over 750,000 Palestinians were forced out of their homes, many at the point of a gun, and over 500 villages were destroyedโ€”systematically bulldozed by the new Israeli government. It is not difficult to find this information on the internet and to decide for oneself what the truth is. Israeli historian, Ilan Pappรฉ, lays out the declassified archives of that tragic period very clearly in his book The Ethnic Cleansing of Palestine.

Human Rights Watch and the Israeli human rights organization Bโ€™Tselem have both said that Israel is a settler colonialist apartheid state. If Mr. Zebulon really cared about the future of Israel, he would spread some reality about it, instead of lies, and help build a vision for it that allows dignity and equality for everyone living there. That reality is indeed possible if we all work for it together.

Joint Passing: Michael Giotis Inherits ‘Rolling Papers’ Column

The Bohemian has given me the privilege of taking over this column from the illustrious Jonah Raskin. In our life together as poets, Jonah and I have come to be great friends, so I am thrilled to write โ€œRolling Papersโ€ while he steps back for a break. He WILL be back, but until then, youโ€™re ridinโ€™ with me.

Let me introduce myself. A Bay Area native, weed has always been around me. Itโ€™s been like that for decades.

Although I knew all the stoners in high school, I was too terrified to expose myself to the unknowns of chemical inebriation so young. Then I started reading Kerouac and William Gibson, listening to the Doors.

My friends and I started slowly, smoking our first poorly rolled joint at night in the bushes of Central Park in San Mateo. Iโ€™m not sure how high we got, but we were struck with a sense of frisson when the SMPD roller creeped along the asphalt path that meanders through that landmark park, sweeping its side-mount spotlight slowly back and forth.

In my college years I took a toke for thoughtful walks and band practiceโ€”if playing bass, NOT if singing.

Later, as I stepped away from my first marriage and plans for a doctorate, I got hooked good, hanging out with those same kids Iโ€™d started with. By then we were on to museum-worthy bongs and immaculate blunts.

I burned a quarter-ounce of military-grade weed a week for years. Parenthood put an end to that, not without some struggle and a lot of patience from my wife.

Professionally, I am a strategy facilitator to sustainable businesses. Iโ€™ve worked with hundreds of businesses over the years and have come to the conclusion that business is good at business, but not much else. Do cannabis companies have a chance to change that?

For two years I brought this expertise to 421 Group, a cannabis consultancy working with now-household names that are the pillars of North Bay cannabiz. There I was reintroduced to the world of cannabis, from vape-cart ease-of-use to the almost mystical interpretation of current regs.

With this column, I will look for examples from the cannabis industry that illustrate to the business world that cannabis deserves a privileged position in economics and society.

I am looking for the truth of the ongoing black market and the real ways that people use, grow, distribute and share cannabis every day.

Iโ€™m interested in the science of growing, and in adding cannabinoids to our physiology.

Like with gummies.

Hella gummies.

Close Up

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Sunset Boulevard

Billy Wilderโ€™s film classic, Sunset Boulevard, is a Hollywood tragedy of operatic proportions. There were several early attempts to bring the story of a Hollywood hack who stumbles into an opportunistic relationship with a faded screen star to the stage, but it took Andrew Lloyd Webber to succeed where others had failed.

Itโ€™s an ambitious choice for Sonoma Arts Live. Limitations of space and budget forced Director Carl Jordan to adhere to some of the showโ€™s original, experimental staging. He also utilizes film clips and projections to give a sense of time and place that the sparsely-furnished stage cannot. 

The show opens with the deceased Joe Gillis (Michael Scott Wells) explaining how he ended up facedown in the pool of former silent screen star Norma Desmond (Dani Innocenti Beem). Avoiding creditors, the down-on-his-luck Gillis drives onto her property. When she discovers Gillis is a screenwriter, she latches on to him to work on a screenplay that will mark her glorious return to the screen. Itโ€™s not long before Desmond latches onto him for even more, much to the consternation of Desmondโ€™s imperious butler Max (Tim Setzer) and Gillisโ€™ potential paramour Betty (Maeve Smith).

Beem, a proven musical-comedy performer, powerfully delivers in the big musical numbers but has difficulty modulating her performance for the showโ€™s smaller moments. She gets laughs where there should be none. Setzer, another performer known for his musical comedy stylings, completely subjugates those instincts and becomes the true heart of the show, but the truth is that itโ€™s hard to root for any of these characters.

Years of Carol Burnett spoofs may have trained the audience to expect camp, but thereโ€™s no excuse for the showโ€™s authors inserting a misguided scene involving a group of tailors prancing and swishing across the stage as they dress Gillis. The pungent point of the scene is lost amongst the mincing. Havenโ€™t we moved past the point of using effeminate men as a source for โ€œha, ha, look at themโ€ comedy?

Sunset Boulevard always seemed like an odd choice for a musical adaptation, but no odder than a board game or comic strip. It may be more accessible to fans of the film or Sir Andrewโ€™s other works, but any fan of live musical theater can rejoice in its return to Sonoma.

โ€œSunset Boulevardโ€ runs through Oct. 10 at Andrews Hall in the Sonoma Community Center, 276 E. Napa St., Sonoma. Thursโ€“Sat, 7:30pm; Sun, 2pm. $25โ€“$42. 866.710.8942. Sonomaartslive.org. Proof of vaccination and masking are required to attend.

Sebastopol Restaurant Handline Separates From Lowell Sheldon After Allegations of Assault

Sebastopolโ€™s Handline shared on social media today that Lowell Sheldon will no longer be a partner in the restaurant. The news comes less than a week after original reporting by the Bohemian and the San Francisco Chronicle revealed that Sheldon is accused by more than a dozen people of sexual harassment, assault and creating a toxic work environment. 

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“Today, after more than a year of negotiations, we are relieved to share that Lowell Sheldon has finally agreed to separate from Handline,โ€ the post reads. โ€œWe are not, and have never been, indifferent to these issues.โ€ 

On Tuesday, the restaurant made a separate post acknowledging the allegations and said they were, โ€œtaking steps to better prevent and address such issues in the future.โ€ That post was met with dozens of comments by the restaurantsโ€™ fans expressing disappointment that Sheldon remained an owner.

Handline, which specializes in โ€œCoastal Californiaโ€ cuisine, was opened in 2016 by Sheldon and Natalie Goble, who was also Sheldonโ€™s romantic partner at the time. Sheldon was a venerated restaurateur whose first restaurant, Lowellโ€™s, was loved for its farm-to-table fare and community ethos. 

While Lowellโ€™s was ten-years-old before Sheldon opened Handline, his next two Sebastopol partnership ventures followed in quicker succession: Fern Bar in 2018 and Khom Loi in 2021. The latter is housed in the former location of Lowellโ€™s, which closed in late 2019.  

This year, after former employees of Sheldonโ€™s restaurants spoke publicly about quitting because of him, all three restaurants moved to end their partnerships with Sheldon. At Fern Bar, employee complaints about Sheldon prompted a 2019 HR investigation. While remedial actions were taken, Sheldon was not removed as a partner until April 2021. 

On Thursday, Alexandra Lopezโ€”one of Sheldonโ€™s accusersโ€”wrote on her personal social media, โ€œIn the time between the HR investigation in 2019 an the articles coming out this month, Lowell has sexually assaulted AT LEAST one person. I cannot help but think that this could have been prevented if the businesses had made public statements from the beginning.โ€ 

Lopez called for the restaurants to share โ€œwhat policy and structural changes have been made to prevent harassment and toxic behavior.โ€ 

Sheldon has plans to open a bed and breakfast at the Freestone Hotel, an historic landmark in west Sonoma County. 

In response to a request for comment, Sheldon wrote the following statement to the Bohemian: โ€œI wish my partners at Handline continued success as we move quickly to conclude our business relationship. Natalie has always run Handline with the utmost care and integrity. I trust that the community can feel that and will continue to support her and all the employees that find meaningful work there. As I step away, please know that I hear and feel the pain that my past behavior has caused. Thank you to all those who spoke their truth. And thank you to my community for holding me accountable.โ€


Read about the way Sheldon created a toxic work environment here. To read about a woman who says Sheldon sexually assaulted her on a date in 2019, click here.

Got a tip? Chelsea Kurnick can be reached at ck******@***il.com.

Kitty Cat Corner

The secret lives of cats

Cats are the best pets, for many proven, fact-based reasons, but their alter egos, known only to their human owners, are one of the most compelling.

Shadow Ceciliaโ€”my cat for 15 yearsโ€”for instance, had an elaborate alternate history that far eclipsed her official origin story as a furry West Berkeley rescue kitten.

It took many years, and numerous glasses of high-octane Czech Republic absinthe, for her true origin story to reveal itself to me, but here is what I eventually gleaned: Shadowโ€™s alternate personality was that of a burlesque dancer and jazz singer in a shady bar in San Franciscoโ€™s historic Barbary Coast. Her name was Serenity Sweets. I, a crude sailor, kidnapped her late one night during a rainstorm as she left the bar, and squirreled her away to my house across the bay in Berkeley. There I fell in love with her and faithfully served her, devoting myself to her for the rest of her natural life.

Elijah Darkness, my current kitty, has a more mundaneโ€”but equally importantโ€”alter persona. He is a 19-year-old cowboy from Wyoming, named Clyde, who rode his horse west in search of his girl. Instead he found me, his big brother, and we now live in a West County apple orchard, which is as close to a Wyoming ranch as weโ€™re ever going to get. And twice as beautiful, as far as Iโ€™m concerned.

But thatโ€™s not all. In another turn of alternate facts, Elijah has a girlfriend, named Pumpkin, who heโ€™s never met. She, too, is a fluffy black cat. They write each other occasional love texts, and once Pumpkin even sent him a handmade card in the mail. Pumpkin is very much a real cat, and a breathtakingly beautiful one at that. Given that Elijah is so dashingly handsome that married women must wear their wedding rings around him lest they forget their husbands, the two fluffy black felines are made for each other.

My friend, Marieka, tells me that her cat โ€œis a Southern gentleman cat who speaks in a gravelly voice. His English is quite good for a cat, but he spells words that end in Y with an EH instead and writes texts in ALL CAPS, because, you know, paws. He enjoys reading the New Yorker but doesnโ€™t often understand the cartoons. He would vote Democratic if cats were enfranchised, and dislikes Trump INTENSELEH. If he assumed a human form, he might eat nothing but butter and chicken.โ€

To which I respond, how much absinthe have YOU been drinking, young lady? But really, kudos to all the kitties out there with their sublime secret lives.

Mark Fernquest lives in a glass house in an apple orchard. He dreams of driving a battered V-8 Interceptor across the desolate wasteland, in search of gasoline.

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