San Rafael

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Beatlesโ€™ Night

Relive the โ€™60s when the Beatles Guitar Project Rock Orchestra comes to the North Bay on Saturday, June 11, to play live in concert. The 40-piece professional rock orchestra with special guest vocalists will play two Beatlesโ€™ albums, Rubber Soul and Revolver, in their entirety, using a rhythm section, strings, woodwinds, brass, percussion and a choir. The performance will also include a special graphical film and light show to honor George Harrison. The show begins at 7pm at the Marin Veterans’ Memorial Auditorium in San Rafael. Tickets, priced at $102, $86, $64 and $42, include Marin Center fees. Proceeds from the show will benefit the Beatles Guitar Project and Scholarship Fund and the iHeartMusic.Org Scholarship Fund. Tickets available at www.tinyurl.com/3rxch27c.

San Anselmo

Bringing the โ€™60s Back Home

Experience music and community this July when a 13-piece band, under the direction of local musician and producer Joe Bagale, kicks off the first Beatles in the Park in two years. An annual tradition for more than a decade, the act was derailed by Covid but is officially back on for Saturday, July 23. The show, which starts at 6pm and goes until 9pm, will be held at Creek Park, 249 Sir Francis Drake Blvd. Tickets are $35 for adults and $12 for youths 12 years and younger. Children under two are free. Tickets are available at Eventbrite.

Santa Rosa

Swing Legends Return

Kick off Luther Burbank Center for the Artsโ€™ new 16-show lineup with a swinginโ€™ live musical performance this summer when Big Bad Voodoo Daddy comes to town. In 1993, this band, named after an autograph by blues legend Albert Collins, introduced swing to a new generation of Americans with its unique horn-powered blend of jazz, Dixieland and swing. Now internationally famous, their high-energy show will rock the LBC house on Friday, Aug. 5, at 8pm. Donโ€™t miss out. All tickets are General Admission and are priced at $39.

Sonoma County

Museum-Go-Round

Catch up on history of all kinds by taking advantage of this yearโ€™s Museum Member Swap Weekend. Thatโ€™s right, on May 21โ€“22 participating Sonoma County museums will offer free admission to members of all other participating museums. The list of participating museums includes California Indian Museum & Cultural Center, Charles M. Schulz Museum and Research Center, Childrenโ€™s Museum of Sonoma County, Museum of Sonoma County, Pacific Coast Air Museum, Petaluma Historical Library/Museum, Sonoma Valley Museum of Art, Luther Burbank Home & Garden and Sebastopol Center for the Arts. Participants must bring proof of membership.

โ€”Mark Fernquest

Trivia

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1 Marin County generally gets 75% of its water supply from Mt. Tamalpais reservoirs; most of the remaining 25% comes from where? 

2 What lively, whirling Italian dance was thought to be caused by, and a cure for, the bite of a spider?

3 The Greeks invented the name of this unusual animal, from two words meaning nose and horn. What animal is this?

4 What red-hot chili pepper is named for the capital city of French Guiana?

5  What two actors, whose last names begin with K, have starred in the movie role of Batman?

6 From the Italian word for bench comes what word, meaning a ceremonial feast to celebrate a person or event?

7 What consumable product was introduced around the year 1560 into France (and later the rest of Europe) by Jean Nicot?

8 What Spanish-speaking country has the largest population?

9 Debuting in 2015 was what dramatic TV series about a small-time, hustling attorney, a spinoff of Breaking Bad?

10 When dissolving salt in a glass of water, does the water temperature remain the same, warm slightly or cool slightly?

BONUS QUESTION: The three northernmost teams in the NBA have names that begin with T (city or team name). What are they?

Correction from last weekโ€™s column: the Grateful Deadโ€™s final concert, at Soldier Field in Chicago, was on July 9, 1995.

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ANSWERS:

1 Russian River watershed

2 Tarantella, after the tarantula spider

3 Rhinoceros = Rhinokerลs, from rhin=nose + keras=horn

4 Cayenne pepper

5 1989: Michael Keaton and 1995: Val Kilmer

6 Banquet. Thanks for the question to Marty Albion from Lagunitas.

7 Tobacco, supposedly intended for healthy and medicinal use. The word nicotine comes from his name.

8 Mexico

9 Better Call Saul

10 Cools slightly

BONUS answer:

1.  Portland Trailblazers (45.5 latitude, the northernmost)

2.  Minnesota Timberwolves (45.0)

3.  Toronto Raptors (43.6)

Ibsen Sequel

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โ€˜A Dollโ€™s House, Part 2โ€™

By Harry Duke

Norwegian playwright Henrik Ibsenโ€™s A Dollโ€™s House premiered in 1879 to great controversy. His look at the limitations and restrictions placed on women in a patriarchal society was considered quite scandalous at the time. Many consider it to be the beginning of modern feminist literature, though Ibsen himself denied that. Suffice it to say that a play that ended with a wife and mother walking out on her family (cue door slam) was not the norm.

Not content to let the sound of a slamming door be the last โ€œword,โ€ playwright Lucas Hnath picks up the story of Nora and Torvald 15 years later with A Dollโ€™s House, Part 2. The Novato Theater Company has a production running through June 12.

Itโ€™s now 1894, and the stately silence of the Helmer household is interrupted by a knock at the door. Nanny-turned-housekeeper Anne Marie (Shirley Nilsen Hall) opens the door and admits Nora (Alison Peltz) into the household she abandoned long ago. Nora has spent the last 15 years living an independent life as a successful writer. Her latest book challenges the very concept of marriage, much to the consternation of the powerful men whose wives have walked out on them after reading it. Under a threat of blackmail, Nora is shocked to discover that she is still married as Torvald (Mark Clark) never filed for divorce. She seeks to enlist the aid of Anne Marie and eventually her own daughter Elly (Jannely Calmell) to convince Torvald to file. He has his own ideas.

You donโ€™t need to be familiar with the Ibsen original to get this show, and folks fearing a stuffy 19th-century Norwegian drama will be presently surprised to find that Hnath has taken a very modern approach to the material. The dialogue is peppered with expletives and the humor is sharp and pointed, but the essence of Ibsen remains.

Energetically directed by Gillian Eichenberger, the show zips along and packs a lot in its 85 intermission-less minutes. Each character gets their moment, and each performer delivers their moment with verve. Peltz in particular does a nice job of balancing Noraโ€™s ambitions with her imperfections.

By showโ€™s end, we still donโ€™t know what lies ahead for Nora. Maybe in another 138 yearsโ€ฆ

โ€˜A Dollโ€™s House, Part 2โ€™ runs through June 12 at the Novato Theater Company, 5420 Nave Drive, Ste. C, Novato. Fri & Sat, 7:30pm; Sun, 2pm. $12โ€“$27. 415.883.4498. Proof of vaccination and masking are required to attend. novatotheatercompany.org

Pot-a-luma

Cannabis convenience

By Michael Giotis

Fellow Petalumans, tired of bolting up to Mercy Wellness after work and still trying to get home in time to cook dinner?

I will have you know that the most highly rated delivery service in Sonoma County considers Petaluma its โ€œtop area to deliver, no doubt,โ€ according to Richard Trieber, CEO of the PowerPlant Park in Richmond, a development of cannabis enterprises that is projected to create hundreds of local jobs when it is completed.

For now, the Park is focused on current operations like their delivery service. โ€œWe’re about to scale up our delivery service to coincide with our first [full scale] harvest,โ€ said Trieber. There will be โ€œ50 to 75 drivers in our delivery service selling our brands from PowerPlant Park operations.โ€

At the moment, the delivery service focuses on the North Bay. Soon it will reach much broader than that, and quickly.

โ€œWe have a very definitive model for delivery. It’s unlike any other model that is out there,โ€ Trieber said. Itโ€™s a model that values taking the time to help customers find the right product.

โ€œWe have a medical staff person doing dispatch, so if you wanted to know a strain for a specific condition, even if it took 20 minutes, we would take time to talk [through it],” he explained.

It’s financially possible to take the extra time because PowerPlant Park Delivery bonds their drivers, allowing them to carry more inventory, and to fill orders while on the road.

โ€œDrivers usually go back to the hub every time to pick up the orders,โ€ explained Richard. โ€œWith extra inventory on hand, we had half hour to 45 minute delivery times, which blew everyone out of the water.โ€

Now, if you’re the type who needs to look a budtender in the eye and dare them to suggest something to satisfy a strong willed character like yourself, consider the very hidden yet super convenient Down Under Industries Dispensary, helpfully positioned on Ely Road, just about a yard outside of Petaluma city jurisdiction.

Jamie Reagan and her crew of happy-go-lucky stoner faerie godmothers now make running to the dispensary for supplies between drop off of one kid and pick up of another actually feasible, instead of a fantasy. The choice is between that and 10 miles of traffic-free freeway, with a dream of hitting every light on the way between little league and karate. [1] [2] 

Once all the running around is done, itโ€™s time to smoke up and relaxโ€”thanks to these two lesser known options for Petaluma potheads. As they say, convenience kills.


You could maybe split this sentence into two. I assume the second half is referring to another dispensary which is about ten miles away…

Yes, tricky fix, but I managed it. See what you think.

Pride for All

Axiom for a new civilization

By Michael Giotis

Itโ€™s Pride Month yโ€™all! Did I say that โ€œqueerโ€ enough? Iโ€™m working on it; itโ€™s still new to me. See, this was the year that I started talking openly about my own queer sexuality. But why?

Unsurprising for a white guy in his late 40s, coming out has been easy for me. Even though I present as a hetero-normative cis white male, there really havenโ€™t been any consequences for bringing up that Iโ€™m queer. Instead, draw your attention to how difficult it can be for some young adults to speak openly about their sexuality. That in some places openly proclaiming that you are gay could have legal and even fatal repercussions. Today. Yesterday. Tomorrow.

In contrast, I have come to realize that the idea of Pride is one of the reasons I am not keeping all this private business to myself. It is about celebrating yourself in a loving community.

Over several generations, LGBTQIA+ communities have used the term to connote many things. These might include: 1) Take pride in who you are, and 2) Proudly bring your full self to whatever you do. Thatโ€™s pretty cool. It could be an axiom for a new civilization.

Imagine a civilization which values all life, teaches its young to be proud of who they are and challenges them to grow and give. A government that organizes resources in support of these goals, gets those resources to homes, schools, communities in development. Comprehensive mental and medical service is not just available, but is a top priority of such a society.

Life is complicated, and being proud of who you are takes support and time. It takes work for you and the people around you. Value created by caretakers, massage therapists, artists, teachers, is the economy our civilization could be supporting, one that cares for and develops fully realized humans as a priority. And here we are caring for and developing oil.

In that imaginary but possible society, they would be there for you when you need it, and you would be there for them. Thatโ€™s gay as f***.

Michael Giotis is a writer and poet, father and lover, based in Petaluma.

Open Mic – Sheriff Showdown

Candidate Dave Edmonds touts experience, resume

Past performance predicts future results. When you vote for Sonoma County sheriff, please remember that, and me.

Candidate Eddie Engram has far less experience, education and capacityโ€ฆ and the wrong intentions: Engram admitted that had Sheriff Mark Essick decided to run again, he would have endorsed him. In charge of our jail, Engramโ€™s legacy is staff morale at all-time lows, job-caused disability claims and vacancies at all-time highs, and record mandatory overtime (currently 78 hours/month). As sheriff, things would only get worse.

Candidate Carl Tennenbaum has no notable leadership performance to compare. At the San Francisco Police Department, he could never achieve anything higher than the initial supervisor rank, sergeant. His two attempts to be promoted to the junior manager rank of lieutenant were failures. With scant leadership experience and absolutely no management experience, he hopes to take charge of a dysfunctional, massive, $210-million annual budget organization. You may like his ideas, but heโ€™d be in a hopeless wilderness of mirrors. I agree with SFPD: heโ€™s not ready.

I bring the strongest professional record, plus a 37-year history of Sonoma County civic-mindedness. Retiring in 2013, I served for 32 years at our Sheriff’s Office: nine years-patrol, four-homicide detective, eight-sergeant, three-lieutenant and six years at the command rank of captain; a SWAT member, training officer, interrogation specialist and more, with documented outstanding performance everywhere. I was a proven change agent, and I have former sheriff candidate John Mutzโ€™s endorsement.

I have a master’s degree in organizational leadership (Gonzaga), was a police management professor for five years, and now Iโ€™m the editor of the nationโ€™s largest law enforcement magazine, American Police Beat. I founded and direct two national police wellness nonprofits (lecf.org and 360armor.org). In the last 10 years alone, Iโ€™ve volunteered over 2000 hours to local nonprofits, including the boards of our homeless mission (12 years) and our police chaplaincy (20).

Married 35 years, we raised our family hereโ€”two Santa Rosa police officer sons, and our daughter will be teaching high school English in the fall. See my full resume and 20-point-plan at www.edmondsforsheriff.com.

Iโ€™m not just coming back to fix our Sheriffโ€™s Office. Iโ€™m returning to remake it into a nationwide model. I ask for your vote.

Dave Edmonds

Sonoma County

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Fire Preparations

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State wants insurers to reward homeowners for fireproofing homes

By Grace Gedye

When Ashley Raveche and her husband bought their home in Mill Valley, they thought they were doing everything right.

The 1,300 square foot house already had vents with screens that make it harder for embers to get in and a tar and gravel roof, top-rated for fire safety. They installed double-paned windows, which are less likely to explode under extreme heat. They cut down four trees within 10 feet of their house. They kept the gutter and roof clear, and the local fire marshal performed an annual inspection.

But their effortsโ€”totaling more than $10,000, by Ravecheโ€™s estimationโ€”werenโ€™t enough to insure their home in Marin County. In February, their insurance company said it wouldnโ€™t renew the policy because the โ€œrisk is unacceptableโ€

โ€œI panicked,โ€ she said. โ€œI was just like, โ€˜This is too much; we are doing absolutely everything we possibly can.โ€™โ€ 

It was the second time an insurance company had declined to renew her home insurance coverage in five years, she said.

In response to wildfires that have blazed across the North Bay and the rest of the state, some Californians have spent thousands of dollars trying to fireproof their homesโ€”often at the urging of state and local officialsโ€”to reduce their risk of burning. But some have confronted an unpleasant reality: Taking those steps doesnโ€™t prevent their premiums from ballooning, or keeping[1]  them from being dropped by their insurance company.

Now the California Department of Insurance has proposed new rules that would require insurance companies to take homeownersโ€™ preventative steps into account when setting premiums. The rules would also require companies to be more transparent about how they gauge a homeโ€™s wildfire risk.

But some consumer groups are ringing alarms about what they see as loopholes that would leave homeowners stuck, like Raveche, with a fire-hardened home and a non-renewal letter. Insurance industry trade groups, on the other hand, worry that the rules are getting ahead of science, and that transparency requirements would expose intellectual property.

The agency plans to have the rules finalized this summer.

New fire insurance guidelines

The proposed rules, rolled out in February, require insurance companies to do several things, including:

  • Make the models or tools they use to assess wildfire risk public, and require that companies send individual policyholders their wildfire risk scores on a regular basis.
  • Explain to policyholders what specific factors influenced each consumerโ€™s score, what they could do to lower their score, and how much they can expect to see their premium go down if they take the actions outlined by the insurance company.
  • When setting prices, insurers would have to take into account whether a homeowner or commercial property owner has reduced a propertyโ€™s wildfire risk by taking specified steps, including clearing vegetation from under decks and installing fire-resistant vents.
  • When setting prices, insurers would have to take into account whether a home is in one of three types of fire risk-reduction communities, such as Firewise.

The state Department of Insurance also proposed giving policyholders the right to appeal their wildfire risk scores.

Part of the goal is to provide incentives to more people to protect their properties from wildfires.

โ€œMoney is tight for most people,โ€ said Amy Bach, executive director of United Policyholders, a consumer group. โ€œIf I have a choice between spending money on taking out my favorite tree, and, like, buying a new flatscreen, Iโ€™m going to buy a new flatscreen, right?โ€ There has to be a compelling reason for people to do things they donโ€™t want to do, she said.

โ€œHome hardeningโ€ is aimed at reducing a houseโ€™s risk of burning during a blaze. Thereโ€™s evidence to suggest it works, too: A 2020 study from the National Association of Insurance Commissioners found that โ€œstructural modifications can reduce wildfire risk up to 40%, and structural and vegetation modifications combined can reduce wildfire risk up to 75%.โ€

California already regulates insurance more than a lot of other products. Insurers, for example, canโ€™t just increase their prices whenever they want toโ€”they have to submit their pricing plans to the insurance department for approval. But, says Bach, thatโ€™s in part because they have an advantage most industries donโ€™t: People must buy their product in order to get a mortgage.

โ€œThey sell economic security,โ€ said Bach. โ€œThey have a special obligation.โ€

Thatโ€™s why itโ€™s stressful for homeowners when an insurance company decides it will no longer cover them.

When homeowners canโ€™t find a private company to cover them, they can turn to the state-created FAIR Plan, which offers bare bones coverage, often at higher cost. Coverage through the FAIR Plan is intended as โ€œa temporary safety netโ€ until a homeowner can find other coverage.

โ€œA loophole that can swallow the ruleโ€

The number of Californians who are not renewed by their insurance companies each year increased in 2019, according to insurance department data, after especially damaging wildfires in 2017 and 2018. Itโ€™s a small share of policyholders: less than 3%, according to the department. The numbers are higher in areas with greater fire risk. Temporary bans on non-renewals in areas hit by wildfires, imposed by Insurance Commissioner Ricardo Lara, have helped, although the issue is still a key part of the election race for insurance commissioner.

Itโ€™s far from certain the numbers will stay low. The number of California properties facing severe wildfire risk will grow sixfold over the next 30 years, according to projections from First Street Foundation, a nonprofit.

Three consumer groupsโ€”Consumer Watchdog, Consumer Federation of America and Consumer Federation of Californiaโ€”sent feedback to the insurance department, pointing to what they see as a loophole: The rules require insurers to take home-hardening efforts into account when setting prices, but not when deciding whether to cover someone or renew a policy.

โ€œA homeowner could literally rebuild their home in concrete, in the middle of a concrete field, and still be non-renewed by an insurance company,โ€ said Carmen Balber, executive director of Consumer Watchdog.

โ€œIt is a loophole that can swallow the rule,โ€ she said.

Insurance department spokesperson Michael Soller rejected the term โ€œloophole.โ€ He pointed to the departmentโ€™s initial reasoning for the rules and expected benefits, which says insurance companies โ€œmay become more comfortable writing and retaining policies for properties with completed mitigation actions, even if the property is located in an area with a higher overall risk of wildfire.โ€

Not wading into coverage decisions may also have been a pragmatic decision for the department. Insurers would be more likely to sue over rules that mandate coverage, since the departmentโ€™s authority to regulate coverage decisions is not clear cut, said Michael Wara, a lawyer and climate scholar at Stanford Law School. A suit could keep the rules from going into effect for years.

โ€œThis may be a situation where you kind of have to choose between doing something thatโ€™s sort of pretty goodโ€”maybe even really goodโ€”but not perfect,โ€ said Wara.

Insurers want to protect their risk tools

Consumer groups arenโ€™t the only ones pushing back against the proposal. Trade organizations representing insurers have their own set of concerns.

One is that the science on wildfire mitigation is still developing, said Mark Sektnan, vice president for state government relations for American Property Casualty Insurance Association, a trade group. That means there may not be good data on exactly how much one strategyโ€”or severalโ€”reduces a homeownerโ€™s fire risk, and insurers need data to decide how much of a discount to offer.

The proposed rules, for example, would require companies to take into account whether a home is in a โ€œFire Risk Reduction Community,โ€ a new certification created by the state Board of Forestry and Fire Protection. The criteria for the certification was finalized last month, according to Edith Hannigan, the boardโ€™s executive officer, and the list of the communities that meet the requirements is yet to be released. There hasnโ€™t been any significant analysis on how much safer certified communities are, since itโ€™s brand new, Hannigan said.

Thatโ€™s problematic, said Seren Taylor, senior legislative advocate for Personal Insurance Federation of California, another insurance industry trade group,  because everything in insurance โ€œis about understanding risk and having data.โ€

The new program was โ€œestablished with the expertise of the Board of Forestry, with consideration of community programs like Firewise,โ€ said Soller, the Department of Insurance spokesperson. 

Another concern Taylor cited has to do with intellectual property. Many insurers rely on models, often provided by separate companies, to assess the risk of wildfire to a particular home or area, taking into account factors like the slope a home is on, or the kind of roof it has. The rules require insurers to make those models public.

โ€œThese companies spend tens of millions of dollars building complex computer models,โ€ said Taylor, and they want to create models that are more accurate than their competitors.

Still, he said, the federation completely agrees with the goals of the proposed rulesโ€”they point in the direction some insurers are already heading.

Currently 20 insurance companies voluntarily give homeowners some kind of discount for reducing their wildfire risk, according to the insurance department.

This story was originally published by CalMatters.


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Fabric Look

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Felt fabric-making workshop in The Barlow

By Jane Vick

Good morning all! Happy Wednesday! How has everyone been? Quite the heat wave weโ€™ve been experiencing. I spent most of my working hours last week poolsideโ€”ah, the luxurious freedom of being a writer. Pounding the keys to the dulcet tones of water splashing and cocktail shakers is more than alright with me. The word count is high, the tan coming right along!

I missed everyone last week, but am glad to be back and excited to share this weekโ€™s Look, which is interactive! Get ready for The Little Wool Workshop, hosted by local artisanal textile mill JG Switzer. Located in The Barlow in Sebastopol, JG Switzer produces handcrafted blankets from wool sourced from one of the oldest operating mills in Englandโ€”a farm that also carries a Royal Warrant for supplying interior fabrics to Windsor Castle! Much of their wool is milled in their Barlow workshop, and all their products are designed, cut and sewn by hand onsite.

Cool fact about wool: This ancient natural fiber is closely linked with humans throughout history. The earliest wool clothing found has been dated to between 4000-3000 BCE, and small statues found in Iran depicting sheep, dated to around 6000 BCE, suggest that it was around this time that sheep began to be bred by Persians for their wool. Its receptivity to dye, springy durability and soft texture make it an ideal fabric.

Learning to felt woolโ€”the process of turning raw sheepโ€™s wool into fabricโ€”is an awesome way to dial in to the history of textile and reconnect with a slower process of fabric-making! The Little Wool Workshop entails a 30 minute tour and hands-on discussion of wool, and a 30 minute fabric-making session. While waiting for fabric to be ready, I highly recommend lunch, at either Blue Ridge Kitchen or Fern Bar. Fabric can be picked up about an hour after the session, and used in a variety of different ways, including pillow cases, dog or cat mats, washcloths and more.

Take this felt fabric-making workshop in The Barlow Friday, June 10 from 11-12pm. $60 per person, visit www.jgswitzer.com to register!

Looking phenomenal, everyone.

See you next week!

Love,

Jane

 
Jane Vick is an artist and writer currently based in Oakland. She splits her time between Europe, New York and New Mexico. View her work and contact her at janevick.com.

Letters

Aminzadeh Endorsement

Iโ€™m supporting Sara Aminzadeh for Assembly District 12.

Sara is a bold leader with fresh ideas with a track record of accomplishments in state government. Sara will hit the ground running because she already has relationships with lawmakers through her years of climate and environmental work. Sara has developed a climate action plan and has established the networks in Sacramento to deliver on it.

She would be the first woman to represent us in this seat in 20 years, and she brings an entirely fresh set of eyes to the issues that are becoming more and more important to the residents of Sonoma and Marin counties: She will champion Healthy Aging legislation so that older adults can continue to live in their communities; as the daughter of immigrants, she has lived experience of what the challenges are that face many of the vulnerable in our communities; and, as a working mother of a four year old, she brings much needed diversity to our elected bodies, as well as an informed voice for so many of our families who know it takes an advocate who understands their needs.

Join me and give the people of Sonoma and Marin a real representative in the Assembly. Vote Sara Aminzadeh for Assembly District 12.

Teresa Barrett

Mayor of Petaluma

Wide-Eyed Thanks

My sincere gratitude to Peter Byrne. His latest investigation into MALT and the ranching community of West Marin, โ€œParadise Cost,” was eye opening. Mr. Byrne represents the best of our democracy by uncovering the corruption in our local politics. Thank you for opening my eyes even wider, Mr. Byrne.

Gayle Cerri

Novato

Sonoma County’s Queer high school students get their own prom

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June is Pride Month, and therefore the perfect time for Sonoma County queer high school students to gather for a fairytale-themed prom.

On Saturday, June 11, Sebastopolโ€™s Barlow Market District will be transformed into a mystical, magical, totally inclusive fairytale forest in which queer teens may frolic freely. Presented by the West County High School Gender and Sexuality Alliance (GSA), Positive Images, LGBTQ Connection and the Sonoma County Library, SoCo Queer Prom 2022 is a queer-inclusive, neuro-senstive celebration of authenticity and fun, for those aged 14-18.

The idea manifested at the beginning of the school year in 2021, when Bobbi Rose, a Laguna High School outreach therapist and advisor to the West County District GSA, asked GSA students what their priorities were.

They asked for three things: an LGBTQIA+ education and inclusivity teacher and staff training session, one for Sonoma County parents and a queer prom. Then they set to work to make these goals a reality, both in their weekly meetings and outside of school, including fundraising at the Sebastopol and Occidental farmers markets. The GSA successfully lobbied for and was granted permission to hold their requested trainingsโ€”and Soco Queer Prom is the cherry on top of their sundae of initiatives.

It wasnโ€™t easy. In a conversation with Rose last week, I learned just how hard these kids and their supporting allies still have to push, even in 2022, even in West County.

โ€œThis is a small minority of the high school population, so having a prom specifically for their community is extremely meaningful,โ€ said Rose. โ€œThey donโ€™t feel represented in this school, and theyโ€™ve faced a lot of discrimination.โ€

Rose told me about an instance during Valentineโ€™s Day, in which a GSA studentโ€™s Progress Pride flag was found the next day in the urinal.

โ€œOur signs are defaced, torn down. Swastikas are drawn on our flyers. Itโ€™s tough,โ€ Rose said.

I was shocked to hear this, but Rose is all too familiar with bigotry and descrimination going on in real-time.

โ€œItโ€™s so easy to think that descrimination isnโ€™t happening, but the stories I could tell you of what kind of descrimination happens in our high school [are] heartbreaking. The issue is that adults who donโ€™t identify as LGBTQIA+ donโ€™t see what I see or hear what I hear on a daily basis, because our queer students donโ€™t feel safe talking to them.โ€ said Rose.

Even the teacher training took months of moving mountains. Originally requested in January, the workshopโ€”a two hour eventโ€”wasnโ€™t approved until April, and the students are still pushing for a curriculum reform with more queer history and representation.

The sense of marginalization is what the queer students in West County Highโ€™s GSA are done experiencing. Feeling like they have to move in groups to feel safe, feeling afraid to fully express themselves, or attend promโ€”West County High has already had its official promโ€”with their partner without backlashโ€ฆ this kind of anxiety pushes people into the margins, where they draw less attention to themselves and run less risk of negative interaction. No high school student, no human in general, should be made to feel that the way they express themselves is cause for hateful retaliation.

To this end, Queer Prom is for queer students, and though Allies will be thereโ€”siblings, chaperones and staffโ€”the event is for and about the LGBTQIA+ population.

โ€œFor two years, these students, who are already dealing with being different and searching for their identities, have been isolated and unable to connect with each other. This event is a space for them to reconnect in a joyful way without even the thought of hostility, or the cishet [cisgender heteronormative] population inadvertently taking up too much space,โ€ said Rose.

Itโ€™s their prom, and itโ€™s going to be a fairytale. Literally.

SoCo Queer Prom includes an entire mystical fairytale forest, a fairytale-themed photobooth and two local DJโ€™sโ€”DJ Dyops and DJ Reckless. For those with neuro-divergences who find loud music or flashing lights stressful, Sonoma County Libraryโ€˜s Queer Committee of Librarians are creating an outdoor chill space complete with books, comfy chairs and silent anime films playing.

Positive Images, a local nonprofit that has been throwing queer proms for decades, is beyond excited, according to Jessica Carroll, director of programs.

The partnership with West County GSA, LGBTQ Connection and the Sonoma County Library makes this the biggest queer prom event theyโ€™ve ever done. For months, the groups have been planning everything, from funding and donations to volunteers and entertainment. For Carroll, one of the best parts of the process has been visiting West County and other GSAs in person to build excitement and energy in the queer youth.

โ€œWeโ€™ve assembled an amazing group of volunteers, many of whom are our friends and families. Everyone is committed to creating a beautiful space for our queer youth to have a truly incredible experience,โ€Carroll said.

Carroll and many other adults participating know the value of this prom firsthand, as itโ€™s the one they didnโ€™t get in their youth.

โ€œAs someone who grew up in Sonoma County and was not able to go to prom with who I truly wanted, being able to give the young people we work with the space and opportunity to be their authentic and beautiful selves at prom is everything.โ€

Drew Crawford, a  program coordinator at Positive Images, wowed me further, quoting the capacity max for SoCo Queer Prom at 400 people.

โ€œWeโ€™ve been doing proms for a while, but obviously the pandemic has pushed that. And honestly the mental health of our youth has majorly declined during these last two yearsโ€”they havenโ€™t had a chance to see themselves as queer people in the world. And this is a chance for them to come together and celebrate each other and themselves. And for those students who donโ€™t feel safe being at a regular prom, this is their place,โ€ Crawford told me.

Itโ€™s exceptional to see the outpouring of support for the queer youth of West County, and equally moving to see the courage, fortitude and power of the youth themselves. Though this event wouldnโ€™t be possible without Positive Images, LGBTQ Connection and the Sonoma County Library, it sprang from the hearts and minds of the high schoolers unwilling to miss out on the unparalleled joy of a great party, and unwilling to compromise an inch of their identities to experience that joy. This prom glitters with the mystical, inimitable sparkle that comes when courage, love and authenticity come together. Magic has been made, the spells have been cast and June 11, itโ€™s their fairytale. 

All students aged 14-18 may attend SoCo Queer Prom. Purchase a ticket at https://bit.ly/socoqueerprom. To support the event, make donations at www.gofundme.com.

OTHER PRIDE EVENTS THIS MONTH

SONOMA COUNTY PRIDE CELEBRATION
Saturday, June 4, 11amโ€“12pm
Fourth Street & Mendocino Ave, Santa Rosa

The 36th annual Sonoma County Pride Celebration returns to downtown Santa Rosa after a two-year pandemic-induced hiatus. This yearโ€™s theme: We Are Family! Itโ€™s about coming back together after way too much time apart, to celebrate each other and have a loving, lovely time.

GAYDARโ€™S REUNIONโ€“A QUEER DANCE PARTY
Saturday June 4, 9pmโ€“1am
La Rosa, 500 4th St, Santa Rosa
GayDar Annual Celebrations are back! Come join the reunion for a night of dancing and drag with DJ Ron Reeser and drag host Lola Hernandez and her drag sisters Maria Twampson & Shania Twampson from Reno. This is family! Come prepared to dance the night away.
WIGS AND WAFFLES DRAG BRUNCH
Sunday June 5, 9:30am
Graton Resort and Casino, 288 Golf Course Dr W, Rohnert Park

Sonoma County Pride would like to welcome brunch host & DJ Juanita MORE! and her drag daughters, Rahni Nothingmore, Mary Vice and Sonoma County native Mrs. Princess Panocha, for a syrupy dazzling drag performance at Wigs & Waffles! This is the necessary brunch after a night spent dancing at GayDar.

PRIDE AT MCEVOY RANCH
Saturday, June 12, 1pm-4pm
5935 Red Hill Rd, Petaluma

Join McEvoy Ranch for live music, olive oil tastings and wine at the Ranch Milk Barn, overlooking rolling hills of olive orchards. Enjoy storytelling experiences, with special guests who will be sharing their experiences in the LGBTQ+ community, and share a story at open mic! The theme for the storytelling event is โ€œOut On The Ranch,โ€ celebrating coming out stories.

A portion of proceeds will be donated to Sonoma County Pride, of which McEvoy Ranch is a proud sponsor.

 

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