The Art of Joy With ‘Coach’ Bailie of Napa Queer Leaders Coalition

In this political moment, the political dimension of a gay pride parade swings into view. It’s a protest march—albeit a joyous march festooned with rainbows.

“I don’t want to say ‘joy’ as [a form of] resistance, but celebration is fundamental to the practice of queer community, right? I mean, dancing through the tragedies is our history.” 

Those words are from “Coach” Bailie—former chairperson of Napa Pride (who is serving as an executive advisor this year). “Coach” has earned their moniker, serving as the rainbow connection between a suite of LGBTQ organizations, government and business partners—most visibly as the founding director of Napa Queer Leaders Coalition.

Pride Month events encompass visibility and coming out celebrations, safe space, community organizing, and unapologetically joyous parties in honor of unbounded love. Their organization requires the identification and the cultivation of local queer leaders. 

Napa Queer Leaders Coalition supports Napa Pride and attempts to sustain Pride Month’s cultural impact year round. (For example, this year they are using Pride to distribute a digital pamphlet educating businesses on how to move beyond “rainbow washing” and become true allies and safe spaces.)

Cincinnatus Hibbard: Coach Bailie, my understanding is that you formed Napa Queer Leaders Coalition in part to succeed the ‘unity’ as principal organizer of Napa Pride as it wound down. What was the emphasis of your approach?

Coach Bailie: Speaking back to my work at LGBTQ Connection and On the Move—LGBTQ Connection was part of a grant that elevated the use of community-defined evidence practices. It’s a way; it’s a modality of understanding communities and their needs and finding solutions by this very revolutionary thing that you do. 

Now your mind’s going to be blown to tell you this—what you do is you go to the community; you ask the community what they need, and then you help the community build it. Crazy, I know. (laughs)

I can only imagine that approach helps give Napa Pride its distinct character as a Napa event. Can you give an example?

The Pride pet parade—we’re going into its third year. Like, when we had our organizing meetings, we asked what are the kinds of events that we want to see at Pride. People were like, we want to do something cool and celebrate with our pets. And so we’re like, OK; let’s just do this pet parade thing. This year, it’s going to be bigger than ever. It starts at Deuces Market, and then we have a little route that zigzags downtown. It ends back at Deuces Market with a Castro-style block party.

With pets. I also want to shout out DJ Rotten Robbie’s decorated car parade—a pandemic tradition that has carried on. Full schedule at napapride.com. What’s the theme of this year’s Napa Pride?

Love Out Loud.

That’s a potent theme and message… Coach, what happens when queer leaders come together?

We get s*** done. (laughs)

Coach, a leader has many dimensions; one is an example and role model to the youth.

In 2022, 47% of LGBTQ youth polled in Napa County had seriously considered suicide. What we are doing is essentially suicide prevention. Queer joy saves lives. We are showing kids that they have a space—the month of June—where they can be who they want to be and that there are people around them that want to celebrate them. I didn’t have a person like me growing up, and my life would have been significantly different if I had a Coach Bailie to look up to.

Get involved: napaqueerleaders.wixsite.com/queerleaders.

Free Will Astrology, June 17-23

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ARIES (March 21-April 19: Aries mathematician Paul Erdős lived without a permanent address, traveling the world to collaborate with other mathematicians. He owned little, claiming “property is a nuisance.” His life was structured around doing mathematics and helping others do mathematics. He published more than 1,500 papers, more than any mathematician in history. Was his minimalism a form of deprivation? I prefer to think it was liberation from everything that didn’t serve his purpose. What would your life be like if you eliminated things that don’t serve your deepest purposes, Aries? In the coming weeks, you have permission to be ruthless about your priorities. What are you maintaining out of habit rather than conviction? What burdens masquerade as responsibilities?

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): A friend told me about the creative writing class he took with renowned poet Brenda Hillman. “I recall being in class,” he said, “and having the thought, wow, this teacher works far harder at teaching than I do at learning.” Dear Taurus, please don’t indulge in a similar laziness anytime soon. Your educational opportunities are currently richer than usual. To extract the full benefit, you must match the verve and vigor of your teachers. (P.S.: The teachers may or may not think of themselves as teachers. They could even be animals, rainstorms or ancestors.)

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Eastern monarch butterflies migrate annually from the American Midwest to central Mexico. The individuals who start the journey from Nebraska or Wisconsin die long before they reach the oyamel fir trees of Mexico. So do their children and their grandchildren. Their great-grandchildren finish the trip, though they have never been to the destination. Somehow they know where to go, navigating thousands of miles to trees they’ve never seen. Let’s apply this as a metaphor for you, Gemini. I suspect you are carrying navigational wisdom you didn’t realize you possessed. Inherited knowledge, encoded deep in your secret places, is ready to guide you. So pay attention to inexplicable certainties. Trust the directions that arrive without logical explanation.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): A large earthquake doesn’t relieve stress evenly along a fault. Instead, it creates zones where stress is reduced and others where stress increases, making future ruptures more likely. So the stress is redistributed, but not uniformly. According to my reading of the omens, Cancerian, you recently experienced a metaphorical shake-up. I suggest you identify where stress has grown and where it has dissipated. Your next moves should account for this new distribution of pressure. Some areas of your life are now more vulnerable, while others have become more stable. Read the landscape accurately before proceeding.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Songbirds like zebra finches practice their melodies while asleep. Their vocal muscles move in ways that mirror daytime singing. These replay patterns help young birds learn their songs and adults maintain and refine their tunes over time. I suspect that you are engaged in a similar type of learning, Leo. You are enhancing skills and uncovering insights while asleep and dreaming. Bonus. Even when awake, you’re absorbing clues on a subconscious level. Your deeper intelligence is gathering information you will need for your upcoming breakthroughs. Hooray for mysterious help.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Architects who design concert halls know that perfect sound isn’t achieved through perfect smoothness. The best acoustics come from strategic irregularities, textured walls and angled surfaces that distribute vibrations in pleasing ways. Too much uniformity creates dead zones and echoes; too much chaos creates muddle. Pleasing resonance arises from organized complexity. In my estimation, Virgo, your life is currently too smooth in some areas and too haphazard in others. You may need more strategic irregularity. Consider introducing productive unpredictability into relationships that have become too routine. Add inventive structure to efforts that have become shapeless. Don’t aim for either total order or complete randomness. What will generate maximum beauty?

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Have you ever been ambushed by unexpected bursts of gratification emerging from subtle miracles? Maybe a loved one finally grasps a truth you’ve been trying to convey for eons. Or you feel balanced in a situation that once made you feel lopsided. Or you grasp, with shivers of awe, that you got uncanny spiritual guidance at a key crossroads. I foresee at least three such blessings for you in the coming weeks. To ensure you recognize them, don’t get distracted in the pursuit of splashy bonanzas and gaudy prizes. Be nimbly alert for subtle breakthroughs.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Poet Emily Dickinson rarely left her family home but bequeathed us a marvelous body of lyrical work as she roamed through vast inner worlds. Sci-fi novelist Octavia Butler rose early to write before long shifts at low‑paid jobs, imagining visionary futures during her limited hours to be creative. Lucille Clifton raised six children while shaping poems of distilled, luminous insight, showing us how to summon fierce originality from a life crowded with responsibilities. Moral of the story: Buoyant power can flourish even when circumstances are limited. This lesson may be relevant for you in the coming weeks. If conditions seem imperfect or incomplete, trust that your resilience and adaptability can compensate for external obstacles. I have faith in your ability to generate useful beauty.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Our tongues are primed to heal astonishingly fast thanks to dense blood vessels, saliva’s repair proteins and a rapid immune response. Wounds that would take more patience elsewhere can heal here in days. I suspect that your psyche now possesses your tongue’s high level of healing power. So I hope you will launch a phase of accelerated repair. Call on every possible form of therapeutic assistance, please.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Now is an ideal time to clear out old romantic karma from the past. Please consider performing a DIY ritual to release painful memories, leftover grudges and long-standing hurts that keep tugging at your intimate connections. The coming weeks will also be a favorable phase to discard rigid beliefs about gender and dismantle anything that blocks you from experiencing full-bodied sensual and sexual delight. Expect to be freed from at least some energies that have limited your ability to explore fun and vigorous ways of savoring your desires.​

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): I suggest you adopt a new honorary title like “Charm Weaver” or “Emissary of Radiance” or “Beauty Whisperer.” Why? Because I hope it will help inspire you to stir up delightful play and lyrical mystery wherever you wander. For instance: Infuse your conversations with sparkling harmony and sly, graceful humor. Burst into whimsical songs, fling out extravagant compliments, pose clever questions that spark fresh ideas, and call attention to systems and relationships in your world that are functioning wonderfully well. Many perks will flow your way as you do.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Is there a dream from childhood that you’re ready to revive on a higher octave? Think of something you longed for before the world told you to be boringly realistic: an art you wanted to practice, a way you wanted to live or the kind of person you hoped to become. The question isn’t “Can I go back and do it exactly the same?” but “What is the mature, wiser, present-day version of that dream?” You might write in your journal: “The childhood dream I’m ready to lift to a higher octave is ______,” and then add, “If I took one concrete step toward it, what would it be?”

Homework: Beam unconditional acceptance at a part of yourself you often criticize. https://tinyurl.com/777vvv777

The Taxman Cometh and Billionaires Can Afford It

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Google co-founder Sergey Brin is spending $57 million to defeat a proposed billionaire tax in California. “I fled socialism with my family in 1979 and know the devastating, oppressive society it created in the Soviet Union,” he explained. “I don’t want California to end up in the same place.”

Months before it collapsed, my family and I also fled the Soviet Union. But that experience led me to support both the 5% tax on California billionaires and a national wealth tax. We need to reduce the power that billionaires like Brin have over our economy and democracy.

There’s nothing “Soviet” about a small, one-time tax on billionaires to offset cuts to healthcare and education in Republicans’ “Big Beautiful Bill”—cuts that are already impacting hospitals and emergency rooms nationwide.

The tax does not nationalize industry, abolish private property or send dissidents to gulags. To intentionally conflate it with the Soviet system insults the memory of the people who actually suffered under it.

What I learned watching the Soviet Union crumble is that societies fall apart when a tiny elite captures political and economic power, walls itself off from ordinary life and uses that power to entrench its own privilege. The USSR didn’t fall because it taxed the ultra-wealthy. It fell because a tiny group of insiders rigged every system imaginable to protect their own status.

The fact that Brin can drop $57 million to kill a ballot measure he doesn’t like and barely notice the expense (this represents less than 0.1% of the money he made in 2025 alone) only underscores the scope of the crisis. Both in the former Soviet Union and in the United States today, the walled-off world of extreme wealth breeds its own paranoia—in which any policy aimed at the common good gets misread as a personal attack.

Taxing extreme wealth in order to reduce the influence of a tiny, ultra-rich elite isn’t how democracies fall. It’s how they survive. Across the nation, our leaders must find the courage to do so.

Igor Volsky is the campaign director for Tax the Greedy Billionaires.

Your Letters, June 17

Name Games 

Donald Trump used the word “thug” several times in one sentence to describe Graham Platner after he won Maine’s primary election, adding, “He’s worse than any human being that’s ever run for office, probably.” Look who’s talkin’: the American King of Thuggery himself and DEFINITELY the worst human being that’s ever run for office.

And how many times has he called reporters “low-IQ” (mostly female journalists)? Talk about the pot calling the kettle black. To prove it…

Trump proudly announced that he “invented” a clever (by his standards) nickname, “Dumocrat,” for the opposition party, saying that, “Most people don’t know the word dumb ends with a ‘B.’” (“Most people?”) I wonder how many weeks ago the dumbass-in-chief suddenly discovered the proper spelling of the word dumb. 

Go back to sleep, Comatose Don. You’re keeping Sleepy Joe awake.

Bob Canning
Petaluma

Wine Bug

Re: “Invasive Glassy-Winged Sharpshooter Found in North Bay Costco Stores” (June 3, 2026):

This might account for some extensive changes in the Napa Valley wine industry, closures of wineries, for sale signs on vineyard fences. The word “might” is included to allow for the possibility that wine consumption patterns are declining. But that many vacant buildings and warehouses on the road from Napa to Calistoga?

“FredzoTBP”
Via pacificsun.com

Matt The Electrician, Untold Marin Stories and a Disappearing Glacier

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Santa Rosa
Matt The Electrician

Sure, he may sound like a bud coming over to rewire the breaker box, but Matt The Electrician is one of the hardest working voices in contemporary folk-pop. The Austin-based songwriter returns to his former home of Sonoma County to deliver his signature mix of wit, sincerity and finely crafted storytelling to Art Alley for a benefit concert supporting the Santa Rosa Urban Arts Partnership. Since the late 1990s, Matt Sever has quietly built a devoted following through a steady stream of albums filled with thoughtful observations and melodic warmth. Proceeds from the evening help support murals, workshops and other efforts aimed at keeping public art vibrant, accessible and woven into the fabric of Santa Rosa life. 6–8pm, Friday, June 19, at Art Alley, 312 South A St., Santa Rosa. $35. More information at bit.ly/mte-srua.

Novato

Moments in Marin

History has a way of hiding in plain sight, which is precisely what Marin historian Scott Fletcher explores in his talk, “More Moments in Marin History: Familiar Tales & Untold Stories.” Presented as part of the Novato Historical Guild quarterly meeting, the program draws on Fletcher’s years researching local history, including more than 130 “History Watch” columns for the Marin History Museum. Expect a mix of well-known episodes and lesser-known stories from the county’s past, delivered by someone who has spent decades teaching, cataloging archives and connecting historical dots that most people drive past without noticing. Local history, when done well, reveals that the strange and fascinating rarely happened somewhere else. 10am–noon, Saturday, June 20, at Novato City Hall, 901 Sherman Ave. Free admission. More information at novatohistory.org.

San Rafael
Time and Water

What happens when a disappearing glacier becomes a family story? Academy Award–nominated filmmaker Sara Dosa explores that question in Time and Water, a visually stunning new documentary screening at the Smith Rafael Film Center. The film follows Icelandic writer Andri Snær Magnason as he assembles a cinematic time capsule from family archives, photographs, folklore and memory while confronting the loss of Iceland’s glaciers and the passage of generations. Rather than a conventional climate documentary, the film approaches environmental change through the intimate lens of home, ancestry and what we choose to preserve when the world is transforming around us. Dosa will appear in person for a post-screening conversation, offering audiences a chance to engage directly with one of documentary cinema’s most thoughtful voices. 7pm, Thursday, June 18, at Smith Rafael Film Center, 1118 Fourth St., San Rafael. Tickets required. More information at cafilm.org.

Sebastopol

Songs for the Living

Music and mourning share the stage at Songs for the Living, an intimate songwriter-in-the-round gathering presented by Supernova Support founders Katie Phillips and Karen Joy Brown. The afternoon blends acoustic performances and storytelling with a community ritual honoring loved ones who have passed. Joining the event is Chelsea Coleman of You’re Going to Die, whose work uses music and writing to foster conversations about loss, remembrance and connection. Attendees are encouraged to bring a photograph or memento for a public altar, with a communal grief-release ceremony closing the program. 3–5pm, Sunday, July 26, at Sebastopol Center for the Arts, 282 S. High St. More information at supernovasupport.com.

North Bay’s Next Gen Fathers are Rewriting the Job Description

Once upon a time, fatherhood came with a fairly straightforward job description: Bring home the paycheck, mow the lawn, occasionally dispense wisdom from behind a newspaper and, under no circumstances, discuss feelings.

Television fathers of the postwar era—from Jim Anderson in Father Knows Best to Ward Cleaver in Leave It to Beaver—were authority figures first and parents second. The generations of dads that have followed, however, have been revising the script.

Baby Boom fathers inherited the breadwinner model but began loosening its strictures as more women entered the workforce and dual-income households became commonplace. Then came divorce. Lots of it. By the time Generation X reached adulthood, many had grown up navigating split households, shared custody arrangements and the realization that fathers could be physically absent yet still emotionally consequential. Perhaps not coincidentally, many Gen X dads vowed to be more present than their own fathers had been.

Which brings us to today. The defining trend in contemporary fatherhood isn’t authority so much as presence. Like actually being there. And preferably not on our phones.

Modern fathers are expected to do all the things previous generations did—earn money, maintain stability and protect their families—but now they’re also expected (and morally obligated) to participate in childcare, help manage households, engage emotionally, understand mental health, attend school functions, schedule pediatric appointments and know which stuffie absolutely must accompany a child to bed, or civilization will collapse.

Fatherhood has rightfully evolved into a panoply of roles, and the North Bay offers a glimpse of where this evolution may be heading.

Between astronomical housing costs, dual-career households, hybrid work schedules and some of the nation’s most progressive family leave policies, our area has become an accidental laboratory for next-generation parenting.

A Marin father may spend the morning on Zoom calls before heading to a school drop off. A Sonoma County dad might be juggling a commute or hosting a playdate while working from home, whilst contributing bon mots to a group text involving six parents attempting to coordinate a birthday party with a logistical sophistication not even the federal government can currently muster.

The details vary, but the expectation remains the same: Show up. Emotionally available fathers—this is their moment. Previous generations often measured paternal success by sacrifice and stoicism. Today’s fathers are increasingly expected to communicate, empathize and model emotional intelligence. They are less likely to view vulnerability as a “sign of weakness”—literally, the most odious phrase a dad can utter—and more likely to regard it as part of the job.

Second is the normalization of co-parenting. Whether married, divorced or somewhere in between, fathers are increasingly expected to remain active participants in their children’s lives. The notion that parenting belongs primarily to mothers continues to lose ground, even if household labor remains unevenly distributed.

Third is the growing recognition that fathers themselves require support. Sonoma County’s Department of Health and Human Services has a webpage dedicated to “Fathers and Partners in Parenting,” with links to paternal resources.

Then there’s the expansion of what fatherhood itself can look like. LGBTQ families, adoptive parents, blended households and co-parenting arrangements have broadened traditional definitions.  And now Generation Z is beginning to enter the picture. The oldest members of Gen Z are reaching their mid to late 20s, bringing with them different assumptions about work, gender and family life.

Early evidence suggests Gen Z is delaying marriage and parenthood even longer than Millennials. They are more digitally connected, less attached to rigid gender roles, more likely to see caregiving as a shared responsibility. 

For all the cultural progress surrounding modern fatherhood, housing costs, childcare expenses and economic uncertainty may shape the next generation of parenting as much as any social movement ever could. The unanswered question is whether they’ll be able to afford any of it.

Making a Splash: Sally Blum Crafts 50 Wines This Year

Sally Blum is a winemaker who crafts ultra premium wines for small, family-owned wineries, including McEvoy Ranch and several others, with vineyards in a total of 23 AVAs, from Anderson Valley to the Yakima Valley. 

She is also a partner in two brands: Stereograph, produced with her husband, Max Blum, and Abloom, which she produces with winemakers Molly Hill and Ashley Hepworth. 

Amber Turpin: How did you get into this work?

Sally Blum: I come from a family of scientists and was headed down that path as a college student majoring in biology, but it didn’t feel right. During a study abroad program in France … I fell in love with wine culture. I found the connection to the seasons, nature and food very inspiring. I changed course and went to graduate school to study winemaking at UC Davis, and I’ve been doing it ever since.

Did you ever have an ‘aha’ moment with a certain beverage? If so, tell us about it.

My “unicorn wine” was a bottle of 1989 Chateau Clinet that was gifted to me by my Uncle Jim, a wine lover and wine mentor to me. When I started grad school at UC Davis, he gave me a case of 1980’s Bordeaux wines. At the time, I had no idea how special these wines were. 

I took the bottle of Chateau Clinet to a party at my friend Maya Olds’ winery, Sky Vineyards, and it blew us all away. There were people at the party who knew much more about wine than I did at the time, and they gently explained to me that this wine had received a perfect 100-point score from Robert Parker and was the breakout vintage from Chateau Clinet, the wine that put them on the map as a great producer. 

What is your favorite thing to drink at home?

I think wine is like music. If you love it, you want to try a little bit of everything and experience a wide variety of styles… I’ve spent the majority of my career in the Napa Valley, and I think that Napa cabernet is one of the world’s great expressions of terroir. But after a long day blending big red wines, I love a glass of an aromatic white variety. 

Where do you like to go out for a drink?

In addition to making wine, I’m a busy mom of teens, and for that reason I don’t get a whole lot of time to go out. But some of my favorite spots include the Rutherford Grill and Compline in Napa, Emporio Rulli in Larkspur, Bird & The Bottle in Santa Rosa and Passatempo Taverna in Walla Walla. My local hangout is Ausiello’s Homeslice in Santa Rosa. 

If you were stuck on a desert island, what would you want to be drinking (besides fresh water)?

I think aromatic whites would be the best match for island life, so I’d definitely take plenty of McEvoy Ranch whites and their chillable red.

McEvoy Ranch,5935 Red Hill Rd., Petaluma, 707.778.2307, mcevoyranch.com.

Tempting Theater, Transcendence Brings ‘ain’t too proud’ to North Bay 

Transcendence Theatre Company opens their 2026 Broadway Under the Stars series with a high-energy production of ain’t too proud: The Life and Times of The Temptations

The jukebox musical about the legendary Motown group premiered at Berkeley Rep in 2017 before a successful, Tony-winning Broadway run in 2019. The Transcendence production, directed by Vasthy Mompoint, runs outdoors on the Field of Dreams in Sonoma through June 28. 

Playwright Dominique Morriseau (Skeleton Crew) handles the book of the musical and tells the story, warts and all, of how the members of two rival Detroit-based singing groups eventually came together to form one powerhouse act.

Their story is told through the recollections of Otis Williams (Conroe Brooks), the group’s founding (and only surviving) member, who finds music as a means of escape from the mean streets of Detroit. He gathers Eddie Kendricks (Kwame Michael Remy), Paul Williams (Tyrick Wiltez Jones), Melvin Franklin (Topher Yengbeh) and Al Bryant (Tony Meslon), and they declare themselves The Temptations. Soon Bryant is out and David Ruffin (Kyle Parks) is in, and the “Classic Five” era begins with hits from “The Way You Do the Things You Do” to “I Wish It Would Rain.”

Then Ruffin’s ego gets the best of him, and he soon finds himself on the outside looking in at Dennis Edwards (Stanley Martin) replacing him. The hits continued with “I Can’t Get Next to You” and “Papa Was a Rollin’ Stone.” Edwards’ drug use leads to his departure from the group, and on it goes.

Morriseau’s script tries to cover it all. But when you have to tell the life stories of seven-plus men, something’s got to give, and in this case (and somewhat amazingly), it’s the music. You get mostly snippets of The Temptations’ hits with only an occasional fully-produced number. I wanted more.

Thankfully, you’ve got terrific voices at work here and dynamite choreography (by Donald Jones Jr.) well-executed by the entire cast throughout the show. The stage really sparkles (literally) when the sun comes down and the lighting elements are added to the mix. 

An added bonus is the acrobatic music direction by Richard Baskin Jr., who leads a terrific 12-piece band. The man is putting on a show of his own, and his joy for the music is infectious.

Succumb to the temptation of an evening of entertaining theater, and check out ain’t too proud.

Transcendence Theatre Company’s ‘ain’t too proud: The Life and Times of The Temptations’ runs Thurs-Sun through June 28 at the Field of Dreams, 151 First St. W., Sonoma. Venue opens at 5pm; show starts at 7pm. $44–$165. 877.424.1414. bestnightever.org.

Life, Story, Song—Mary Gauthier comes to Sebastopol 

For Mary Gauthier, songwriting goes way beyond conveying her thoughts and emotion. It was also a lifeline when she embraced sobriety back in 1990. 

In fact, songwriting’s appeal was important enough for Gauthier to swap being an acclaimed chef at a wildly successful Cajun restaurant in Boston’s Back Bay neighborhood for heading to Nashville in her mid-30s to pursue her dream of becoming a professional musician. 

Fast forward to the present day, and the 64-year-old singer-songwriter is touring—often with partner Jaimee Harris—including a stop at HopMonk Sebastopol on Saturday, June 17. 

This year, she’s not only celebrating the 25-year-plus anniversary of her 1999 sophomore bow, Drag Queens in Limousines, but also giving love to her most recent studio effort, 2022’s Dark Enough to See the Stars. Her love of compositional craft will be on full display when she hits the stage.

“We’re going to be playing songs from all the records I made and telling stories,” Gauthier said in a recent interview. “There’ll be stories between the songs; that’s all part of this troubadour show. There’s no smoke, mirrors or flashy stuff. It’s more heartfelt human stories.”

That musical approach has garnered the southern Louisiana native numerous accolades since she released her 1997 debut, Dixie Kitchen. She was nominated for three Gay and Lesbian American Music Awards (GLAMAs), winning Best New Country Artist and also being named New/Emerging Artist of the Year by the Americana Music Association in 2005. More recently, 2018’s Rifles and Rosary Beads, a project where Gauthier co-wrote songs with U.S. veterans and their families, earned her a 2019 Best Folk Album Grammy nomination. 

Heartfelt dedication and expertise are what make Dark Enough to See the Stars such a compelling listen. Recorded in a three-day burst as the world was coming out of the pandemic, these songs are steeped in the inspiration of Gauthier’s evolving relationship with Harris and personal losses. During that time, she was mourning the deaths of numerous personal friends, including John Prine, David Olney, Nanci Griffith and beloved friend and hiking buddy Betsy, all who passed in a short window of time during the Covid lockdown.

“A lot of those songs were written as an odd combo of love songs and songs about grief—they somehow go together,” Gauthier explained. “Maybe love and grief are attached in an inseparable way? I’m not sure, but it seems to work. I lost so many people I cared about in such a short time. It’s still shocking to me that I have a list of 18 people I have on speed dial, and they’re dead in two years’ time.”

She added, “The thing about death is you’re not prepared for it. You don’t think of yourself as old or older. You’re feeling good, life is going along as it always has, and there’s no way you can be emotionally prepared for it.”

Hard times have proven to be fodder for many songs Gauthier has composed. Adopted from a New Orleans orphanage, she spent her teen years surviving an alcoholic father, abusing drugs and alcohol, and navigating the deep South in the late ’60s and ’70s as a gay kid. Music always provided solace, particularly ’70s singer-songwriters like Prine and other artists from the emerging Americana movement, including Griffith, Guy Clark, Townes Van Zandt and Lucinda Williams.

“I’ve always been interested in the singer-songwriter from the South, which is different than country music,” Gauthier explained. “I like Southerners that master language. It’s American roots music in that it’s from that place in the deep South steeped in a lot of pain that I like to call the Americana Triangle—New Orleans to Memphis to Clarksdale, MS. It’s rooted in American-type pain, which almost always has some component of race in it along with a gothic southern sensibility that’s quite Faulkneresque with some Flannery O’Connor thrown in straight away.”

That fealty to the art of musical composition led Gauthier to teach songwriting workshops and eventually publish 2021’s Saved By a Song: The Art and Healing Power of Songwriting, a combination autobiography and songwriting lessons.

“I teach songwriting quite a bit and work with adults in learning the art form,” Gauthier said. “The book is a memoir, but also goes into my understanding and take on songwriting. I’m just unpacking the side of songwriting that is more of an art than a commercial enterprise. The art is intrinsically connected to some kind of healing, some kind of transcendence, some kind of alchemy. Using music and song for healing is a part of my story along with finding out it’s working really well.”

Mary Gauthier performs with Jaimee Harris at 8pm, Wednesday, June 17, at HopMonk Sebastopol, in the Abbey, 230 Petaluma Ave. More info via hopmonk.com.

Sonoma Black Artistry, a Juneteenth Event Fights the Power of Creative Theft

No one in our day-to-day existence seems to particularly want AI in their lives, yet it’s infiltrating at every turn. Politics, the economy, the environment and the job market all seem to be suffering in various degrees at the latest corporate coup design to further deny human beings basic rights. 

The same holds true for the entertainment sphere, which is increasingly controlled by corporate interests. They not only seem completely disinterested in the opinions of the majority, but they also seem to be tripling down each and every day on their wanton theft of artists’ voices. 

Our artistic community both locally and globally has been sounding the warning bell about this pervasive issue for months. And rather than sit idly by and complain, local artist and luminary Angel “Audio Angel” Clendening has an ambition to do something about it.

On Friday, June 19, Juneteenth, Clendening is presenting “Inside/Out—Sonoma Black Artistry in Progress,” which, put simply, is ​​”a celebration of organic African-American artistry during a time when the value of human musicians is in high question.”

The all-ages event features rappers PaqGod and D-Square, international electronic artist Eki Shola, singer/ songwriter Erica Ambrin, lyrical explorer King Lung, poetic performer LaiddBackZach and experimental DJ/producer Sick Sentz. The evening starts at 6:30 at Sebastopol’s Laguna Lab, 117 Morris St., and serves as a launching pad for events that will continue via social media projects with audience members, centering on African-American youth, and culminating with a virtual summit during Black History Month in February of 2027.

Speaking by phone, Clendening sounds both inspired and honestly pretty exhausted from the constant attack on her chosen profession of musical artist. Rather than throw her hands up and try to just keep on keeping on, she used her ever-vibrant, “never take no for an answer” attitude to move forward with an event based around the notion of being an African-American artist in Sonoma County. 

Hence, the seed for the Inside/Out event was planted through “a discussion between LaiddBackZach and I,” Clendening says. “We originally wanted to do something for Black History Month (in February), and then we were running out of time, and we thought, OK, why don’t we pivot to Juneteenth.” 

This seed began to germinate. She explains, “We both have some similar experiences, not exactly the same, of course, being African-American artists in Sonoma County and how we wanted to be part of an event that is really showing how different we are.”

Indeed, for those who have listened to Clendening’s musical project Audio Angel, it’s impossible to not notice the myriad genres she explores throughout the recent EP Snapshot, which was released last fall. House, dance, gospel and rock music all blend seamlessly and, more importantly, naturally, as these are all genres and music she loves. 

The conversation veers a bit into authenticity in artists, which in turn was the inspiration for the seven other diverse acts on the Inside/Out bill.

Sonoma County based rapper D. Square hails from Smiths Station, Alabama, and is founder of the local media and production company Decolonized Mindz.

He is known for his socially conscious and activist-driven “propaganda hip-hop.” Locals may have seen him onstage at Santa Rosa’s The Lost Church and Railroad Square Music Festival, and he also organized a hip-hop talent showcase, “Manifest Your Destiny,” alongside local promoter Josh Windmiller in Sebastopol that featured a lineup of hip-hop and R&B artists.

Eki Shola is an award-winning vocalist, composer and multi-instrumentalist (as well as a physician) based in Sonoma County who has just returned home from a May tour throughout Japan. 

After being introduced to jazz music at an early age, Shola continued to perform in jazz ensembles even as she entered college as a premed student at Cornell. However, following the devastating passing of her mother, Shola leaned heavily into music as a source of healing. Later, when she and her family lost everything in the 2017 Sonoma County fires, she again found comfort and purpose in music. She now uses her own music as a way to hopefully help connect with and heal listeners.

Erica Ambrin is no stranger to Sonoma County stages and, fitting the theme of Inside/Out, genre comparisons of her music consist of Erykah Badu, The Fugees and Alabama Shakes. Ambrin is currently at work on a new album which comes on the heels of the previously released Suga (2015) and Lucid Dreamer (2018), which was inspired by her time living on Maui. One can also catch her with her jam band, The Eclectic Soul Project. 

King Lung is another Santa Rosa based performer whose styles and influences blend underground hip-hop with lyrical poetry. One can get a taste of Lung’s performance at an intriguing hip-hop game show slash improv night called “Whose Rhyme?” on Wednesday, June 11 at the aforementioned Lost Church. Lung will take the stage for a friendly MC competition alongside The Maine Man, Mr. BMMNM!!! and Kayatta in this night hosted by “Dark Matter Lives!” a Sonoma County improvisational hip-hop duo.

Inside/Out event co-founder LaiddBackZach brings his diverse blend of R&B, jazz and hip-hop to the stage with roots in poetry and a love for icons like Tupac, Usher and Michael Jackson. LaiddBackZach leans into introspective hip-hop that tackles deep themes that also feature lively, catchy dance tracks that celebrate love and groove. 

PaqGod (akaBlack Beethoven or formerly Khari G) has developed a large following due to his heavy presence on streaming platforms like Spotify and Apple Music. His dedicated following relates to his reflective, introspective writing that is heavily influenced by growing up in the Washington, D.C. area as well as to his current life in Sonoma County, where he promotes and participates often in local live events like the “Sunday Night Spotlight” series in Santa Rosa. His flair for high-quality visual accompaniment onstage is also not to be missed.

Rounding out the event is DJ/producer Sick Sentz, who is based out of Sebastopol. Leaning into his 20-plus years as a producer and performer, Sentz’s styles mix together boom-bap, deep instrumentals and intricate scratching for a unique sound all his own. When he’s not performing, Sentz teaches lyrical workshops for students, focusing on songwriting, verse structure and creative confidence.

Clendening is hoping Inside/Out serves as a kickoff to a yearslong check-in as well as online workshops that will culminate in another showcase during February’s Black History Month in 2027.

Inside/Out—Sonoma Black Artistry in Progress begins at 6:30pm, Friday, June 19,  at Sebastopol’s Laguna Lab, 117 Morris St. All ages. Tickets are $13–$25 (attendees can also purchase ‘pay it forward’ tickets to enable those in need of a ticket to attend). For more information, check out audioangelworld.com/insideout.

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